marriage just like any relationship evolves with human advances.
mans evolution has gone through phases., from a mainly physical being to an emotional one and now he is going through his mental phase. all his relationships need to adjust and adapt to his current phase. one of the problems with current marriages are that they are still stuck in the emotional phase which is quite fragile and undependable in todays mental world. the feel is just not there any more. you have to take it to the next level and start bringing your mind more into marriages. the qualities commensurate with todays marriage are tolerance, consideration, empathy, appreciation, inclusivity and the critical ability to be together yet with space in between. this are mainly mental qualities. and i might add the true test of a mans manliness is generosity to his wife and family first
and dont give the financial prudence thing f*ck it, thats just an excuse for a miser. and to finish as a matter of knowledge mans final phase in life before life ends is spiritual.
with thanks.
don’t take a while with them
agree with my father over my mom. He doesn’t really say bad things about her to me it’s the other way around. Wallahi the only reason their marriage worked for that long is because he listens to everything she says. But he hates her guts. He hasn’t slept in the same room as her for a minute
