Marriage

[Sophisticate]

I bet you're the hardest gabadh to shukaansi, has anyone ever been successful?

No.
I love me more than anyone. No pun. So, any ninja would be a number two. I could disappear out of the blue. I have the freedom to choose. Granted, many men live this way, too. The truly compassionate among them are but a few. 1:1, they cannot match what I do. To be fair, I care. But not enough to upgrade faulty emotional software. It would be a wasteful series of lectures. Considering I would have to singlehandedly redesign their psyche's architecture.

 

[Lowkey]

A way to approach a Somali guy is Baarisiyomoos

 

[Ozymandias]

No.
I love me more than anyone. No pun. So, any ninja would be a number two. I could disappear out of the blue. I have the freedom to choose. Granted, many men live this way, too. The truly compassionate among them are but a few. 1:1, they cannot match what I do. To be fair, I care. But not enough to upgrade faulty emotional software. It would be a wasteful series of lectures. Considering I would have to singlehandedly redesign their psyche's architecture.

Are you insinuating a mass lobotomy in order to fix behaviour . Again the spacing between your words is unnerving, aan kula cabiro in yar, let me get a ruler

 

[Sophisticate]

Are you insinuating a mass lobotomy in order to fix behaviour . Again the spacing between your words is unnerving, aan kula cabiro in yar, let me get a ruler

Nope. I prefer resignation on my part over their indoctrination.
The path of least resistance is best. However, if you want to re-raise 30-plus-year-old men, feel free to. Ask for nothing, soothe their egos and have zero expectations. Do more and get less while adding more stress even if they are equal or greater in success.

 

[Ozymandias]

Nope. I prefer resignation on my part over their indoctrination.
The path of least resistance is best. However, if you want to re-raise 30-plus-year-old men, feel free to. Ask for nothing, soothe their egos and have zero expectations. Do more and get less while adding more stress even if they are equal or greater in success.

Interesting take . Well I can't argue with that, it is less stressful to avoid concerted efforts, you can't cultivate men, they're not plants, and you aint no botanist

 

[Sophisticate]

Interesting take . Well I can't argue with that, it is less stressful to avoid concerted efforts, you can't cultivate men, they're not plants, and you aint no botanist

Not worth the effort. I prefer to take notes than engage. I'll let others test assumptions. And I'll report on their blunders. Horror stories are much more fun to . And great case studies on red flags. Though we need a mix of tales about woes that are less salient.

 

[Shakespeare_aabihiis]

Somali parents want you to stay away from the opposite gender but will ask you when you’re getting married I’m kind of scared I won’t ever get married even though im still young. I’m in a male dominated program at my university where there’s a good chunk of somali guys but none of them ever approach me. I think im somewhat pretty, im not too short or too tall or too fat or too skinny lmao, and i dress well and keep clean. im too shy to go up to them.Do you guys have any advice

It's not worth it for your age. Me and a lot of other men that are hooyo mataalos would like to get married around our late 20s which is mainly because we'd like to get ourselves financially ready for the married life. Focus on ur studies and the right man will come soon enough inshallah.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

It's not worth it for your age. Me and a lot of other men that are hooyo mataalos would like to get married around our late 20s which is mainly because we'd like to get ourselves financially ready for the married life. Focus on ur studies and the right man will come soon enough inshallah.

InshaAllah, ive just always wanted to be a mother so I feel rushed.

 

[cooli3o]

always wanted to be a mother

you really want to destroy ur life don't u

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

you really want to destroy ur life don't u

Children are blessings waryaa i can’t wait to have a few of my own to love and guide

 

[Shakespeare_aabihiis]

InshaAllah, ive just always wanted to be a mother so I feel rushed.

Get a pet cat and take care of it.

 

[cooli3o]

Children are blessings waryaa i can’t wait to have a few of my own to love and guide

when you have children you'll change ur mind

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Get a pet cat and take care of it.

That’s not the same

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

when you have children you'll change ur mind

InshaAllah I will not, pray that I don’t

 

[cooli3o]

InshaAllah I will not, pray that I don’t

I can't pray against the truth, what will happen will come and when it happens there is no going back.
I warned you.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I can't pray against the truth, what will happen will come and when it happens there is no going back.
I warned you.

Have some optimism walaal

 

[cooli3o]

Have some optimism walaal

I do have optimism, I just do not mix my optimism with unrealistic expectations.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I do have optimism, I just do not mix my optimism with unrealistic expectations.

 

[cooli3o]

Most people are not ready to hear it. I don't want it either, but the truth is the truth

 

[Shakespeare_aabihiis]

That’s not the same

I would rather you do that than get with a guy who will only use you as a sexual outlet and quickly divorce like a lot of marriages.