Does the maintaince of the wife cause direct physical harm upon the husband? Does it cause infections and severe psychological issues that can destroy a human?I am not debating what you have argued, I asked a question about Hanafi Fiqh. When you discuss religious matters, you always highlight Fiqh differences. What difference is there between what I have done and what you constantly do in regard to maintenance of a priviledged wife etc. when highlighting Fiqh differences?
It’s personal, especially since I’m a woman. You’re discussing the harming of people like me in a very offhandedly way, it’s a controversial topic and you go about it without a shred of wisdom or humanity. As Muslims harming people is haram, whether it be physically or your word, hence think about the harm this may cause a woman who may have experienced this but is lurking on this board? Let’s be real, the harming of Muslim men is never discussed in this matter, I can’t think of a single topic in which you’ll experience what you wrote but about men.Thank you for your answer!
One last thing, do not personalise this debate and get emotional. I am Shafici, like many Somalis, so the Hanafi ruling does not apply to me. Putting information out there does not equal promotion.