This post is insane!!!!
I had to see what you were laughing at, because I had this person on 'ignore' for a long time, and boy, did I make the right decision.
This post is insane!!!!
SIS! Please read @Inquisitive_'s last post. His poetic language has me dying!
I'll bookmark this crazy sh!t. Every time I need to laugh, or need an example of a crazy male, I'll pull it up.Of course you will disagree, victim complex, overinflated ego, delusions of grandeur laced with ridiculous self importance.
That's why I advice any sane intelligent male not to marry these thin skinned diaspora females, walking homewreckers, destroyers of society.
In the old days, females had thicker skin than males, also more patience as it related to household matters and family, but now even the lowest of the lowest male has more than the average diaspora female.
Rendering a poor girl fatherless from such a young age because the mothers feelings got hurt in a heated argument, pathetic, really pathetic beyond belief.
Those women of old had arranged marriages and you could excuse them unlike these that get to pick, choose and date the guy for years before marrying him regardless family opposition, taking no responsibility or any personal accountability, typical diaspora xaalimo.
No surprise they suffer the most in comparison to other races, that's the price homewreckers pay
I don't read posts by people who use words like "female". Qofkaas hadalkiisa waa lagu jirada.
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ExactlyHe is such a liar. Somali women never hid their face in shame.
They want us to be Arab and Hindi women so badly. Keep dreaming.
You need to stop talking about days of โoldโ since divorce rates were high in the late 1800s to even the mid 20th century according to the locals themselves. One tribe had a divorce rate of 25% and that was the mid century. Certain North Western Tribes did have a lower divorce than the rest, but on average divorce was frequent and this was observed not just by outsiders but our ancestors themselves, who even pointed out that certain regions were worse.Based on the first post I read he didn't kick her out, he uttered those shameless words during an argument, and it wasn't a threat for her to leave, just said "its my house"
My advice is based on this, as that's not a legit ground for divorce, not even close.
If the story has since changed to the way you described that he physical kicked her out in the middle of the night with his daughter, that is a legit ground for divorce, no excuses for this.
Exactly
You need to stop talking about days of โoldโ since divorce rates were high in the late 1800s to even the mid 20th century according to the locals themselves. One tribe had a divorce rate of 25% and that was the mid century. Certain North Western Tribes did have a lower divorce than the rest, but on average divorce was frequent and this was observed not just by outsiders but our ancestors themselves, who even pointed out that certain regions were worse.
Right now as well, divorce rates are high back home as well, so your rant against Western Somali women is inaccurate and laced with emotions and itโs an indication of your unbridled feelings towards women raised in the diaspora. When the divorce rates are just as high if not worse back home in which itโs common to see a young lady who hasnโt even reached 25 has married at least two times, you cannot put the divorce issue with regards to Somalis at the feet of Western Somali women.
If youโre are going to write a rant about โdays of oldโ at least make it accurate. Itโs romanticized hogwash that doesnโt reflect what was happening on the ground and what is currently happening in the motherland.
If you donโt believe me, I have enough evidence since Iโm an avid reader of history and Iโll happily send you the link of a post that compiles this.
We canโt have a rose tinted perspective of history and bash women over something that never was. A mere fantasy of the over emotional male filled with malice towards the opposite gender. Letโs stick to facts and accuracy please.
I must add that I appreciated your poetic flare and facility. We don't see enough of it on here.I'll bookmark this crazy sh!t. Every time I need to laugh, or need an example of a crazy male, I'll pull it up.
Sis, can you send me that compiled link post? I would love it for referenceExactly
You need to stop talking about days of โoldโ since divorce rates were high in the late 1800s to even the mid 20th century according to the locals themselves. One tribe had a divorce rate of 25% and that was the mid century. Certain North Western Tribes did have a lower divorce than the rest, but on average divorce was frequent and this was observed not just by outsiders but our ancestors themselves, who even pointed out that certain regions were worse.
Right now as well, divorce rates are high back home as well, so your rant against Western Somali women is inaccurate and laced with emotions and itโs an indication of your unbridled feelings towards women raised in the diaspora. When the divorce rates are just as high if not worse back home in which itโs common to see a young lady who hasnโt even reached 25 has married at least two times, you cannot put the divorce issue with regards to Somalis at the feet of Western Somali women.
If youโre are going to write a rant about โdays of oldโ at least make it accurate. Itโs romanticized hogwash that doesnโt reflect what was happening on the ground and what is currently happening in the motherland.
If you donโt believe me, I have enough evidence since Iโm an avid reader of history and Iโll happily send you the link of a post that compiles this.
We canโt have a rose tinted perspective of history and bash women over something that never was. A mere fantasy of the over emotional male filled with malice towards the opposite gender. Letโs stick to facts and accuracy please.
Your compliment is held in the highest regard. Thank you, Abaayo.I must add that I appreciated your poetic flare and facility. We don't see enough of it on here.
That aside, as if women leave over one conversation gone wrong.
Divorce doesn't happen immediately in most cases. It is usually death by a thousand cuts. However, the catalyst that pushed her over the edge was the utterance of an insensitive statement. It was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back.
Trusting someone but being deemed unimportant and them engaging in an artful use of words to make you doubt yourself or dare to tell you what to think and invalidate your position shows me a person who doesn't have the tools to be in a relationship. Granted, some men suffer subclinical levels of alexithymia (the inability to recognize and describe emotions). This can result in foot-in-mouth issues and amplify problems in relationships.
He said that and she said, "You're right!."
Packed her sh!t, and knocked at our house in the middle of the night.
He was shocked from such fright,
Kept calling with all of his might.
Not a single peep or sight,
Shall he ever be blessed with again at night.
His visage turned pale, a sight most rare,
A blustering fool, devoid of flair.
He bellowed and hollered, โPray, donโt depart!โ
But silence ensued; he broke his heart.
Toodle-loo~ Toodle-loo ~
She has flew, she has flew.
Away from you, away from you.
From your rage that you blew,
To embrace the vast and azure blue.
A toast to my cousin's new found freedom.
A poem to my cousin's queendom.
Sheโs returned to her kingdom!
She has returned to her fiefdom!
As for you, dear husbandโjust shame and disdain!
A master of folly, the king of the mundane,
With your pompous airs and a brain full of grain,
You thought you could tether her, yet caused her such gain.
In your castle of nonsense, youโre left to remain,
While she dances in freedom, unchained from your chain.
Now youโre just a footnote, a sad little stain,
A jest for the ages, a tale to entertain!
How do you guys like my poem to my cousin's divorce?
As for you, dear husbandโjust shame and disdain!
A master of folly, the king of the mundane,
With your pompous airs and a brain full of grain,
You thought you could tether her, yet caused her such gain.
In your castle of nonsense, youโre left to remain,
While she dances in freedom, unchained from your chain.
Now youโre just a footnote, a sad little stain,
A jest for the ages, a tale to entertain!
Your words are a crown of honor I wear with gratitude."This is not your house" is not just an insensitive statement to me. It's heavily loaded and a damn threat.
I had to re-read it. The last two paragraphs read like a diss rap.
Bars!
You haven't addressed my point, that there is no ground for divorce over such flimsy reason.Exactly
You need to stop talking about days of โoldโ since divorce rates were high in the late 1800s to even the mid 20th century according to the locals themselves. One tribe had a divorce rate of 25% and that was the mid century. Certain North Western Tribes did have a lower divorce than the rest, but on average divorce was frequent and this was observed not just by outsiders but our ancestors themselves, who even pointed out that certain regions were worse.
Right now as well, divorce rates are high back home as well, so your rant against Western Somali women is inaccurate and laced with emotions and itโs an indication of your unbridled feelings towards women raised in the diaspora. When the divorce rates are just as high if not worse back home in which itโs common to see a young lady who hasnโt even reached 25 has married at least two times, you cannot put the divorce issue with regards to Somalis at the feet of Western Somali women.
If youโre are going to write a rant about โdays of oldโ at least make it accurate. Itโs romanticized hogwash that doesnโt reflect what was happening on the ground and what is currently happening in the motherland.
If you donโt believe me, I have enough evidence since Iโm an avid reader of history and Iโll happily send you the link of a post that compiles this.
We canโt have a rose tinted perspective of history and bash women over something that never was. A mere fantasy of the over emotional male filled with malice towards the opposite gender. Letโs stick to facts and accuracy please.
Our Prophet (PBUH) had martial issues, this idea of problem free marriage is the actual disease that broke the camels back.I must add that I appreciated your poetic flare and facility. We don't see enough of it on here.
That aside, as if women leave over one conversation gone wrong.
Divorce doesn't happen immediately in most cases. It is usually death by a thousand cuts. However, the catalyst that pushed her over the edge was the utterance of an insensitive statement. It was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back.
Trusting someone but being deemed unimportant and them engaging in an artful use of words to make you doubt yourself or dare to tell you what to think and invalidate your position shows me a person who doesn't have the tools to be in a relationship. Granted, some men suffer subclinical levels of alexithymia (the inability to recognize and describe emotions). This can result in foot-in-mouth issues and amplify problems in relationships.