Lol you’re nicer than me, a father like that won’t get a penny from me. We’re in an economic crisis with young couples finding paying rent difficult. I’m not pay-rolling some next woman. His hateful new wife.
You can’t fake a relationship because 9/10 times they can’t be asked to fake it with you LOL. They couldn’t give a flip. They’ll only talk to you for money. A friend of mine has a dad that literally dangles hell and heaven and says if she doesn’t give she’ll be going hell for denying her father. These times she works full time and hardly has any savings due to tax and rent ect.
It’s called being human. It’s called venting. Not everyone is built the same way. We get it you’re a stoic individual, but a little bit of emotional intelligence would illustrate that we’re not all built the same, especially a vulnerable woman in a place she feels alone. Clearly she’s emotional and wants an outlet but is surrounded by actual real life strangers she can’t speak to.
It’s an anonymous forum. No one knows her identity so what is she spilling? You’re acting like she’s telling us her issues with her government name like we know her personally. She’s a faceless poster. Couldn’t get any more anonymous than that. Spilling to strangers is when people hop on twitter with their real face and identity. Here, she could be a flipping jinn behind that account and so could I.And let me tell you one thing, the people who started insulting your father are not the kind of people who want the best for you. They project their issues. Your story gave them vicarious emotionalism, feeding off of your problems like parasites. If a friend told me something about his father that was not right, I would not say anything disrespectful because firstly, I respect my friend. One can quickly tell the caliber of people that post here and frankly, it does not look good. For example, this @Kisame who writes like trying to rile the women like he's a White with daddy issues trying to form a circle trying to hold an outrage speech. Sit your ass down nigga.
Respectfully, what the actual f*ck is this response to OP? She's asked for help here because she's in a desperate situation, and this isn't the first time she's reached out to us anonymous users.No one who spills things about their family ever includes their part in the problems.
I would never write a paragraph to a bunch of strangers about my family, and I have gone through things that would terrify your little heart. This is an cadaan teenage practice. Please, at least act like you come from a culture.
And let me tell you one thing, the people who started insulting your father are not the kind of people who want the best for you. They project their issues. Your story gave them vicarious emotionalism, feeding off of your problems like parasites. If a friend told me something about his father that was not right, I would not say anything disrespectful because firstly, I respect my friend. One can quickly tell the caliber of people that post here and frankly, it does not look good. For example, this @Kisame who writes like trying to rile the women like he's a White with daddy issues trying to form a circle trying to hold an outrage speech. Sit your ass down nigga.
You're right, they don't have guilty conscious that tells them when they're doing something wrong.
Life is short. I simply wouldn’t risk my akhira on something like this. Smile be polite and be nice. It’s not as if those types will bother to call you regularly anyways? Simply live your life. If you have money here and there, throw them a couple of hundreds, if not just smile and nod your head and go on your way without proper replying.
While it's normal for the OP to feel upset, you have a point. No way would I insult my father or allow others to do so, and I would try to mend the relationship between us by putting in 190% effort.No one who spills things about their family ever includes their part in the problems.
I would never write a paragraph to a bunch of strangers about my family, and I have gone through things that would terrify your little heart. This is an cadaan teenage practice. Please, at least act like you come from a culture.
And let me tell you one thing, the people who started insulting your father are not the kind of people who want the best for you. They project their issues. Your story gave them vicarious emotionalism, feeding off of your problems like parasites. If a friend told me something about his father that was not right, I would not say anything disrespectful because firstly, I respect my friend. One can quickly tell the caliber of people that post here and frankly, it does not look good. For example, this @Kisame who writes like trying to rile the women like he's a White th*t with daddy issues trying to form a circle trying to hold an outrage speech. Sit your ass down nigga.
Yet it’s ok for her father to trash talk her to the whole house – to the point that even the maid feels comfortable disrespecting her? It takes two to maintain a good family relationship.
No one who spills things about their family ever includes their part in the problems.
I would never write a paragraph to a bunch of strangers about my family, and I have gone through things that would terrify your little heart. This is an cadaan teenage practice. Please, at least act like you come from a culture.
And let me tell you one thing, the people who started insulting your father are not the kind of people who want the best for you. They project their issues. Your story gave them vicarious emotionalism, feeding off of your problems like parasites. If a friend told me something about his father that was not right, I would not say anything disrespectful because firstly, I respect my friend. One can quickly tell the caliber of people that post here and frankly, it does not look good. For example, this @Kisame who writes like trying to rile the women like he's a White th*t with daddy issues trying to form a circle trying to hold an outrage speech. Sit your ass down nigga.
This is helping her. She’s posting anonymously. Get a heart
How are we going to help her? We don't know her plus she just told the whole forum. Now everyone will remember her as the girl with daddy issues.
I hear you, but there isn't a one-size-fits-all solution. I'm in a different situation from the OP. And I am sure there are genuinely hard-to-deal-with fathers out there.
You and her are two completely different people with completely different life experiences. For some, the internet is a way to vent and get a release when they have no one they can speak to. Maybe you haven’t had that experience but it does help some people by hearing other’s advices. We all have different thresholds for trauma (before we reach a boiling point) and different coping methods. It’s important to hear people out who seem genuine and want to improve.
lol you’re so unaware it’s not even funny. Don’t say anything then if you can’t be kind to someone who’s in emotional pain.
I can explain what I wrote was correct and make a couple of points that I disagree with but you write beautifully so I will refrain. It would be like stepping on a flower.
