i know this one farah whos gay but is in the closet. I found out after using his phone to call someone and i ended up seeing some stuff on his phone. He came clean to me and told me he was gay and not to expose him. Ive been thinking about it for the past week and i havent come to a conclusion on what to do. Hes always texting me and saying he never told anyone about his sexuality and that i could be a great pillar of support. He cried on the phone cause i didnt pick up his call even though i was at work and he thought i dumped him and that i was mad. He said he wouldve killed himself if i exposed him cause he dosent want to be ostracised by somali community. Im in a dillema right now i only asked this guy for his phone to make a call and now he sees me as a therapist and cries over the phone when he talks to me. This is too much for me right now. idk what to do. Just to let u know this guy is a educated guy with good career and a honest man. I always thought he was a good guy. I never once thought he was gay but he was a bit soft though. All of a sudden he tells me his gay and releases all his pent up emotions on me. I my self might go insane if he continues with his behavior.
My friend came out and is texting me
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salma saluuni
For the thrill💃🏽
You’re a disgusting excuse of a person, I hope that person keeps a distance from you.
AishaBarri
It’s not that serious
He’s still a good guy who happens to be gay. What do you get out of exposing him? You know what will happen if you do this. Let him be and mind your own business, respectfully. He’s dl, and he’s not harming no one. If you don’t want to talk to him anymore, simply say you don’t want to be a therapist or block him, simple.
Lol cut him off, i would have done that in a heartbeat. His not your parent, child or wife, you dont own that dude jack. Don't expose Allah dislikes on who does that. But tell him to repent and if he doesnt walk away sxb.
Their is no pointing in exposing him. Speak to him about the deen and try to get him to see the error of his ways.
damn i didnt mean i was going to expose him i just used that title cause i didnt know of anything better.and how am i terrible
if i block he might go more crazy. He knows where i live and i dont want a psycho coming to me late at night .
im not a religious person i pray my daily prayers and do what is obligated so i dont think he should be seeking advice from me.
What about him, how practicing is he ? Try to get him to go to the mosque and to seek Islamic guidance.
i dont know much about the guy we arent close friends we just know each other cause we share the same friends and well do some activities with each other. I might see him like twice a month or might not see him for months on end. I do know he prays his salat but that could be a front. And with covid i dont think now is the best time to head to a masjed
Chun Li
under construction 😈💖
Don’t expose his sexuality to others because number 1, it’s haram & Allah will expose your sins in front of everyone & number 2, it’s his business & you don’t want to ruin his friendships & relationships with people. It’s going to affect his wellbeing, if it’s not already.
One thing I’m curious to know is how you found this through his phone. I mean... you could’ve done a simple call & went about your life. Where those numbers he called saved under weird names or did you actually go through his phone contacts & messages?
One thing I’m curious to know is how you found this through his phone. I mean... you could’ve done a simple call & went about your life. Where those numbers he called saved under weird names or did you actually go through his phone contacts & messages?
Mozart
You need people like me
Iska bashaal bro just one time won’t make you gay.
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move this back to general plz
It already is in general.
