So something is fact only because you haven't seen otherwise? If this was the case so many peoples opinions/biases would be fact because they say so. Sorry to say but it doesn't revolve around
Well if everyone woman I come across has the same complaint about her marriage going downhill after her husband remarried their must be some truth to it. A hypothetical scenario with all parties supposedly happy is BS.
But I wouldn't expect a guy to be honest about this. Those same husbands that make their wives unhappy claim their is nothing wrong in the marriage.