Refusing to Pay meher

[Mercury]

How often does this happen around Somalis?

I was wondering cause I've heard of people who had a high meher yet they never saw a penny of it

 

[Marcus]

How often does this happen around Somalis?

I was wondering cause I've heard of people who had a high meher yet they never saw a penny of it

wouldnt that invalidate the marriage?

 

[King Khufu]

Who asked to pay? At what rounds?

Nothing is official without her father and I contracting an true agreement.

 

[Xaruun]

That’s not a real marriage then. Meher =/= alimony

 

[Alexander The Great]

if you don’t want to pay mehr just marry a white woman they don’t ask for anything lmao

 

[King Khufu]

just marry a white woman

We will use the Cadaans to shame these off brand halimos to act right

 

[Mercury]

wouldnt that invalidate the marriage?

from what I know somalis pay meher when they divorce

 

[Mercury]

I dont think ive seen someone pay 5k 10k or 15k upfront to the girl

 

[Gambar]

I dont think ive seen someone pay 5k 10k or 15k upfront to the girl

I’ve seen it plus yarad.

 

[Mercury]

I’ve seen it plus yarad.

I was wondering cause back home ive seen people who divorce but refuse to pay meher

 

[Farahslayer]

How often does this happen around Somalis?

I was wondering cause I've heard of people who had a high meher yet they never saw a penny of it

Happens A lot. I don’t understand why Somalis pay it at divorce time. it’s almost like they assume they will be an eventual divorce lol. You have to pay me her divorce or no divorce.

 

[Invader]

Xalimos are asking for someguys salary. Some of them don't even look good.

 

[Alexander The Great]

If you’re gona ask for Mehr then you should be able to cook and clean i think that should be required if they want it.

 

[Mercury]

Happens A lot. I don’t understand why Somalis pay it at divorce time. it’s almost like they assume they will be an eventual divorce lol. You have to pay me her divorce or no divorce.

maybe its become culture

 

[Marcus]

I conceal my work from women, so they dont become attracted to my wallet.

 

[Farahslayer]

If you’re gona ask for Mehr then you should be able to cook and clean i think that should be required if they want it.

why would you marry someone whom you didn’t have this discussion with?

Also you cannot change Islamic law, never has nothing to do with cleaning or looks it’s something you have to pay regardless to make sure the marriage is halal.

 

[Farahslayer]

maybe its become culture

To divorce? Kkkk I agree.

I think paying Meyer at divorce creates way too much chaos, the girls should ask up front or take a payment plan

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Who asked to pay? At what rounds?

Nothing is official without her father and I contracting an true agreement.

Who said anything about you?

 

[King Khufu]

Who said anything about you?

They don't need to, naturally I'm king.
#WarriorCrowned

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

They don't need to, naturally I'm king.
#WarriorCrowned

Naturally you'll get banned.