Refusing to Pay meher

[CaliTedesse]

if you don’t want to pay mehr just marry a white woman they don’t ask for anything lmao

Nah some Muslim women dont ask for meher either.

In Somali Dhaqan, you don't pay mehr until divorce

You pay sooriyo to her family in the beginning. Most do not pay mehr in a divorce cus they already paid sooriyo

Akhi what is sooriyo sounds like cunto. Do you pay in soor? Markaa the female has eaten all that soor equivalent in value to her meher and when divorce happens she has eaten enough and doesnt want more miya?

I know but what confused me is back home ive heard stories about guys who initiate the divorce and refused to give the meher

Those are not real men those are naaaaaaaaagooooooooos

 

[Apollo]

The West got the welfare state and alimony legislation. This stuff is outdated.

If things go sour there are plenty of safety nets.

 

[Mercury]

Nah some Muslim women dont ask for meher either.


Akhi what is sooriyo sounds like cunto. Do you pay in soor? Markaa the female has eaten att that soor equivalent in value to her meher and when divorce happens she has eaten enough and doesnt want more miya?


Those are not real men those are naaaaaaaaagooooooooos

exactly this confused me that some refuse to give meher when they divorced

 

[Samaalic Era]

The West got the welfare state and alimony legislation. This stuff is outdated.

If things go sour there are plenty of safety nets.

That's xaar sxb. Only Cuck men pay alimony kkkkk

 

[CaliTedesse]

The West got the welfare state and alimony legislation. This stuff is outdated.

If things go sour there are plenty of safety nets.

Many Muslims do not get registered marriage

 

[Apollo]

Many Muslims do not get married under state rules

I think the ones born in the West eventually will. There are some tax and pension benefits to it.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Horta even if you make a qumayo pregnant you pay alimony right?

edit: oh no thats child support

 

[Apollo]

Horta even if you make a qumayo pregnant you pay alimony right?

edit: oh no thats child support

Depends on the country. The more leftwing the country (like Sweden or Canada) the more rights the woman has to go after the man's money.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Nah some Muslim women dont ask for meher either.


Akhi what is sooriyo sounds like cunto. Do you pay in soor? Markaa the female has eaten all that soor equivalent in value to her meher and when divorce happens she has eaten enough and doesnt want more miya?


Those are not real men those are naaaaaaaaagooooooooos

It's the money you pay to her father and family aswell some gold you give her.

Mehr you don't pay, its just lip service

 

[CaliTedesse]

It's the money you pay to her father and family aswell some gold you give her.

Mehr you don't pay, its just lip service

Sxb Somali dhaqan is not for me you telling I should pay her aabo and family too war what is this Hindi culture kkkkk alhamdullilah found me ajnabi girl that does not want meher

 

[Samaalic Era]

Sxb Somali dhaqan is not for me you telling I should pay her aabo and family too war what is this Hindi culture kkkkk alhamdullilah found me ajnabi girl that does not want meher

As long as you don't pay more than 2K,its caadi sxb

But if you got yourself an ajnabi who wants no mehr then that's blessed sxb

 

[Medulla]

As long as you don't pay more than 2K,its caadi sxb

But if you got yourself an ajnabi who wants no mehr then that's blessed sxb

I found me a queen who only wants me to read juz amma as mehr you niggas can't relate

 

[CaliTedesse]

As long as you don't pay more than 2K,its caadi sxb

But if you got yourself an ajnabi who wants no mehr then that's blessed sxb

So I pay 2k and some too family and aabo. So 2k only for the girl?

 

[Juke]

if you don’t want to pay mehr just marry a white woman they don’t ask for anything lmao

They want an expensive ring which serves the same purpose as mehr. In the west before women could work their jewelry was their personal wealth.

 

[Samaalic Era]

For the akhis, never register your marriages and get screwed over

Islamic nikah is sufficient and you can bail out and not have a leech western xalimo suck you dry alxamdulillah

 

[CaliTedesse]

I found me a queen who only wants me to read juz amma as mehr you niggas can't relate

You dont even know 1 ayah bro its gonna take you 2 years to learn 1 juz, RIP kkkkk

 

[Laandhere]

I know but what confused me is back home ive heard stories about guys who initiate the divorce and refused to give the meher
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A man cant initiate a divorce an then barter for no mehr. Just saying divorce makes it wajiib.
Ma fahntay.
Lakiin he can say i dont want to divorce u but if u insist i will let u leave on ur own
That is an allowed statement

 

[Apollo]

For the akhis, never register your marriages and get screwed over

Islamic nikah is sufficient and you can bail out and have a leech western xalimo suck you dry alxamdulillah

This is why meher prices are so high. If you want them to fall, it will happen when legal registered marriages becomes normalized in diaspora Somalis.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Any man that refused to pay meher he promised waa not real muslim forreal

 

[Samaalic Era]

I found me a queen who only wants me to read juz amma as mehr you niggas can't relate

You outdone all of us sxb, teach us your ways sxb

So I pay 2k and some too family and aabo. So 2k only for the girl?

No overall. You buy her some gold and give the rest of the money to her father. Then after that you pay for walima and food