Rights of the Husband greater than the Father

Is the status of the Husband greater than the husband


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Samaalic Era

QurboExit
In Islam, Allah swt has made the husband the most important person after himself and his messenger pbuh in obedience. A husband is the door of Jannah for a woman. Here are some hadiths to show the status of a husband over the wife

Prophet,
 sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention )
, said:“If the woman performs the five daily prayers, fasts the month of Ramadan, maintains her chastity and obeys her husband, she will enter the Paradise of her Lord.”

the Prophet,
 sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention )
, said: “Were I to order anyone to prostrate himself before anyone else, I would have ordered the woman to prostrate herself before her husband.”

Abbaas, may Allah be pleased with him, it was mentioned that a woman came to the Prophet,
 sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention )
, and said, “O Messenger of Allah, I am a delegate [from a group of] women and there are none of them, whether she knows or does not know that I would come to you, except she would want me to come to you. Allah The Almighty is the Lord of both men and women and their God, and you are the Messenger of Allah, for both men and women. Allah has prescribed Jihaad for men only; if they are victorious, their reward is great, and if they die as martyrs, they are alive with their Lord, receiving sustenance. [For women], which act of obedience is equal in reward to this?” The Messenger of Allah,
 sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allah exalt his mention )
, replied: “Obeying their husbands and (being aware of and) fulfilling their rights; and few of you do that.”[At-Tabaraani and ‘Abdul-Raaziq]


husband Islam brings the balance of society. A woman is honoured through serving her husband, recognising his leadership and obeying in times of ease and difficulty. They stay in their homes as ordered by Allah swt in this verse like the women of the Prophet pbuh and emulate Umm Al Mumineen

Surah Al-Ahzab, Verse 33:
وَقَرْنَ فِي بُيُوتِكُنَّ وَلَا تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ الْأُولَىٰ وَأَقِمْنَ الصَّلَاةَ وَآتِينَ الزَّكَاةَ وَأَطِعْنَ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ إِنَّمَا يُرِيدُ اللَّهُ لِيُذْهِبَ عَنكُمُ الرِّجْسَ أَهْلَ الْبَيْتِ وَيُطَهِّرَكُمْ تَطْهِيرًا

And stay in your houses and do not display your finery like the displaying of the ignorance of yore; and keep up prayer, and pay the poor-rate, and obey Allah and His Apostle. Allah only desires to keep away the uncleanness from you, O people of the House! and to purify you a (thorough) purifying.



Somali women raised by a strong father are the best women and are like the women of the sahaba

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psyche

To each their own
I thought the parents had more rights over a child then anybody else.

Isn't this the purpose of this famous hadith?

A person came to Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and asked, "Who among people is most deserving of my fine treatment?" He (ﷺ) said, "Your mother". He again asked, ''Who next?" "Your mother", the Prophet (ﷺ) replied again. He asked, "Who next?" He (the Prophet (ﷺ)) said again, "Your mother." He again asked, "Then who?" Thereupon he (ﷺ) said," Then your father."
 

Samaalic Era

QurboExit
I thought the parents had more rights over a child then anybody else.

Isn't this the purpose of this famous hadith?

A person came to Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and asked, "Who among people is most deserving of my fine treatment?" He (ﷺ) said, "Your mother". He again asked, ''Who next?" "Your mother", the Prophet (ﷺ) replied again. He asked, "Who next?" He (the Prophet (ﷺ)) said again, "Your mother." He again asked, "Then who?" Thereupon he (ﷺ) said," Then your father."
The husband can order his wife to not visit her dying father and she must obey him

She is not allowed to leave the house without his permission sxb
 

Gambar

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I thought the parents had more rights over a child then anybody else.

Isn't this the purpose of this famous hadith?

A person came to Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and asked, "Who among people is most deserving of my fine treatment?" He (ﷺ) said, "Your mother". He again asked, ''Who next?" "Your mother", the Prophet (ﷺ) replied again. He asked, "Who next?" He (the Prophet (ﷺ)) said again, "Your mother." He again asked, "Then who?" Thereupon he (ﷺ) said," Then your father."
No that’s before you are married. That’s why your waali (father) gives you away because now your husband takes over and is responsible for you. You are then meant to have your own family and start your own life.
 

Gambar

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The husband can order his wife to not visit her dying father and she must obey him

She is not allowed to leave the house without his permission sxb
This is a fact. You are not even supposed to leave your house with out your mahrams permission which goes from father to husband. You are supposed to leave with your mahram.
 

CaliTedesse

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The husband can order his wife to not visit her dying father and she must obey him

She is not allowed to leave the house without his permission sxb

That is true because she must obey husband

1+1=2

But that's very selfish of the husband akhi
 
What is happening to you?

Noooooooo

Nooooo

Stop agreeing with him!!!!


Stoooop

@Afrique im going to faint, we’ve lost @Gambar

Me: Mr Knowles, can I leave the house please?
Husband: why?
Me: I need to buy some food
Husband: I will give you 10 minutes to get back or I will assume you are cheating on me and will divorce you
Me: :damsel:


Some of these men don't want wives they want children.
 
The husband can order his wife to not visit her dying father and she must obey him

She is not allowed to leave the house without his permission sxb
A woman should obey her husband but not when he is making her commit a sin. Cutting ties with your family ties is a sin. This means that if a man forbids his wife from visiting her father or doing any sin, she should not obey him.
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Me: Mr Knowles, can I leave the house please?
Husband: why?
Me: I need to buy some food
Husband: I will give you 10 minutes to get back or I will assume you are cheating on me and will divorce you
Me: :damsel:


Some of these men don't want wives they want children.
Relax we ain’t all like that :ivers: I would personally give my wife my 20 minutes to come home

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