Rights of the Husband greater than the Father

[Halimak]

She can visit her dying father with her husband and children. What would there be to attend to? You are using an extreme example that doesn’t make sense.

Funnily enough, he is using the Shafi madhab to argue he can stop her, when in the Shafii madhab the wife does not even have to cook for him.

 

[Automaton]

You have to discipline her but give adequate warnings first. You can not strike the face but a you can use a miswak to calm her down

jazakallah khair

 

[Halimak]

Somali Ls are Shafici walal, hanafis are not correct

Wife can not leave without her husbands permission

You cannot say a Madhab is not correct. Also, not all Somalis are Shafiis.

Have respect for differences of opinions.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

@Afrique Ive a friend who once told me she’s going to ask her husband if she can go out with our group of friends, we all laughed at her, he even laughed at her and said I’m not your keeper. He cracked jokes in our text group chat. We both need to find such a man!

 

[Medulla]

You guys only stick to 1 madhab? I'm trans-madhab.

But mostly hanbali

People don't even know what madhab they follow they mix it up anyway so having a title for it might be for the the best

 

[Samaalic Era]

Just because in some schools of thought she may have to obey you, does not mean you are not sinning for stopping her.

It is haraam for a man to stop his wife from visiting her family.

He can it's not haram, just as you mentioned she doesn't have to cook and clean

You can't pick and choose

 

[Gambar]

Funnily enough, he is using the Shafi madhab to argue he can stop her, when in the Shafii madhab the wife does not even have to cook for him.

He’s being extreme to fit an agenda (because the other day it was about not having to pay mehr). Good luck with marriage walal. Imagine starting a fight over you not being able to leave to visit your dying father because you have to tend to the children and house when you can all go visit him together? Is he not your father in law and the children’s grandfather? Just sounds petty.

 

[Basic]

I met a toxic farax once who said I’ll have the final say in everything and you must obey me. Mind you this guy wasn’t qualified to lead an ant let alone a fully functioning adult.

A gaal ajnabi was more appealing than him

 

[IstarZ]

You must being doing this on purpose

Clearly. I’ve noticed he takes things out of context deliberately and uses extreme examples to make a moot point.

 

[Gambar]

@Afrique Ive a friend who once told me she’s going to ask her husband if she can go out with our group of friends, we all laughed at her, he even laughed at her and said I’m not your keeper. He cracked jokes in our text group chat. We both need to find such a man!

Sounds like she just didn’t wanna go loooool sorta like when you use your kids as an excuse. I don’t have a baby sitter. You just don’t wanna go.

 

[Radical]

I'm interested in marrying an autonomous individual, not a house maid

 

[Medulla]

I met a toxic farax once who said I’ll have the final say in everything and you must obey me. Mind you this guy wasn’t qualified to lead an ant let alone a fully functioning adult.

A gaal ajnabi was more appealing than him

Gaals ajnabis are the new wave build them the way you like convert em and you got a keeper

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Sounds like she just didn’t wanna go loooool sorta like when you use your kids as an excuse. I don’t have a baby sitter. You just don’t wanna go.

She did, she started doing that when she went back to Dugsi.

 

[Jaydaan]

I met a toxic farax once who said I’ll have the final say in everything and you must obey me. Mind you this guy wasn’t qualified to lead an ant let alone a fully functioning adult.

A gaal ajnabi was more appealing than him

You sure we havent met? Thats my line

 

[Marcus]

I want a concubine that happens to be my wife

 

[Halimak]

He can it's not haram, just as you mentioned she doesn't have to cook and clean

You can't pick and choose

I'm not picking and choosing.

It is haraam, but she still has to obey you.
You will be questioned for making her sever the ties of kinship.

Just because she has to listen to you, doesn't mean you will not be questioned for causing distance between parents and their child.

Btw, i'm not Shafii.

 

[Basic]

Gaals ajnabis are the new wave build them the way you like convert em and you got a keeper

Ngl they have more healthy mindset than a lot of third world culture guys I’ve seen. In all seriousness I’d just choose a healthy minded progressive Muslim guy

 

[LRW20]

I'm interested in marrying an autonomous individual, not a house maid

Why can’t you have the best of both worlds sxb

 

[Basic]

You sure we havent met? Thats my line

Nah he wasn’t from the uk. Toxic faraxs from the uk only congregate on sspot. They have enough self awareness to act normal irl.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Gaals ajnabis are the new wave build them the way you like convert em and you got a keeper

Gaal ajnabis always become Salafis

She will come running to accept the Shafici madhab In due time sxb