Rights of the Husband greater than the Father

[Halimak]

Indeed walal. Its a misunderstanding that some women have. By marriage, a wife is the property of her husband

We know that a wife must listen to her husband as long as he does not transgress against her rights or tell her to do something haraam.

But, she is not his 'property'.

Also, with the visiting parents part, there are differences of opinions. Hanifi's and Malikis believe he does not have that right.

 

[CaliTedesse]

A woman should obey her husband but not when he is making her commit a sin. Cutting ties with your family ties is a sin. This means that if a man forbids his wife from visiting her father or doing any sin, she should not obey him.

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But if I'm a sinner I would love to go to jahanam with my with my wife we sin and do.good.together

 

[Guure]

Relax we ain’t all like that I would give my wife my 20 minutes to come home

Very generous man ahki, she would get 15min and 30sec from me

 

[Gambar]

Indeed walal. Its a misunderstanding that some women have. By marriage, a wife is the property of her husband

The woman is not property she is the responsibility of the husband.

What is happening to you?

Noooooooo

Nooooo

Stop agreeing with him!!!!


Stoooop

@Afrique im going to faint, we’ve lost @Gambar

That’s what the deen dictates technically. What they don’t want you to know is that Allah will question the husband on the failures of the family as he is the head of the family and responsible for them. It’s a responsibility.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Simp, I can't see myself crying for another man except my father

He is my father too bro you marry into each others family.

 

[Medulla]

Simp, I can't see myself crying for another man except my father

That's also kinda gay why are you crying for a next man? Where's the xishood at?

 

[psyche]

Indeed walal. Its a misunderstanding that some women have. By marriage, a wife is the property of her husband

You must being doing this on purpose

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Ukhti you know me too well mac. I will be crying at her fathers funeral.

You’re a good man akhi. That hairy Moroccan puta is lucky. Make sure you abuse her midget brothers.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Islam is really just a lifestyle so you can become a real man and woman

 

[Marcus]

That's also kinda gay why are you crying for a next man? Where's the xishood at?

@CaliTedesse will be wailing at next man's wedding.

 

[Automaton]

In Islam, Allah swt has made the husband the most important person after himself and his messenger pbuh in obedience. A husband is the door of Jannah for a woman. Here are some hadiths to show the status of a husband over the wife

Prophet,

, said:“If the woman performs the five daily prayers, fasts the month of Ramadan, maintains her chastity and obeys her husband, she will enter the Paradise of her Lord.”

the Prophet,

, said: “Were I to order anyone to prostrate himself before anyone else, I would have ordered the woman to prostrate herself before her husband.”

Abbaas, may Allah be pleased with him, it was mentioned that a woman came to the Prophet,

, and said, “O Messenger of Allah, I am a delegate [from a group of] women and there are none of them, whether she knows or does not know that I would come to you, except she would want me to come to you. Allah The Almighty is the Lord of both men and women and their God, and you are the Messenger of Allah, for both men and women. Allah has prescribed Jihaad for men only; if they are victorious, their reward is great, and if they die as martyrs, they are alive with their Lord, receiving sustenance. [For women], which act of obedience is equal in reward to this?” The Messenger of Allah,

, replied: “Obeying their husbands and (being aware of and) fulfilling their rights; and few of you do that.”[At-Tabaraani and ‘Abdul-Raaziq]

husband Islam brings the balance of society. A woman is honoured through serving her husband, recognising his leadership and obeying in times of ease and difficulty. They stay in their homes as ordered by Allah swt in this verse like the women of the Prophet pbuh and emulate Umm Al Mumineen

Surah Al-Ahzab, Verse 33:
وَقَرْنَ فِي بُيُوتِكُنَّ وَلَا تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ الْأُولَىٰ وَأَقِمْنَ الصَّلَاةَ وَآتِينَ الزَّكَاةَ وَأَطِعْنَ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ إِنَّمَا يُرِيدُ اللَّهُ لِيُذْهِبَ عَنكُمُ الرِّجْسَ أَهْلَ الْبَيْتِ وَيُطَهِّرَكُمْ تَطْهِيرًا

And stay in your houses and do not display your finery like the displaying of the ignorance of yore; and keep up prayer, and pay the poor-rate, and obey Allah and His Apostle. Allah only desires to keep away the uncleanness from you, O people of the House! and to purify you a (thorough) purifying.



Somali women raised by a strong father are the best women and are like the women of the sahaba

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Ya Akhi,can I discipline my wife when she doesn't perform her housework?

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Islam is really just a lifestyle so you can become a real man and woman

Okay now you’re going overboard.

Islam is not just lifestyle, it’s a way of life. You can change your lifestyle but you can’t change your way of life.

 

[Samaalic Era]

A woman should obey her husband but not when he is making her commit a sin. Cutting ties with your family ties is a sin. This means that if a man forbids his wife from visiting her father or doing any sin, she should not obey him.

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He can make an arrangement, this way the wife can see her family but still attend to the house

Indeed, in that case, she must convince him as best as possible which a pious wife can

 

[Halimak]

Ya Akhi,can I discipline my wife when she doesn't perform her housework?

@Samaalic Era is Shafii in the Shafii school the wife does not have to cook. Especially if she is middle class.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Okay now you’re going overboard.

Islam is not just lifestyle, it’s a way of life. You can change your lifestyle but you can’t change your way of life.

I meant way of life yacni

Bisinka

 

[Halimak]

He can make an arrangement, this way the wife can see her family but still attend to the house

Indeed, in that case, she must convince him as best as possible which a pious wife can

Just because in some schools of thought she may have to obey you, does not mean you are not sinning for stopping her.

It is haraam for a man to stop his wife from visiting her family.

 

[Marcus]

You guys only stick to 1 madhab? I'm trans-madhab.

But mostly hanbali

 

[Samaalic Era]

Ya Akhi,can I discipline my wife when she doesn't perform her housework?

You have to discipline her but give adequate warnings first. You can not strike the face but a you can use a miswak to calm her down

 

[Gambar]

He can make an arrangement, this way the wife can see her family but still attend to the house

Indeed, in that case, she must convince him as best as possible which a pious wife can

She can visit her dying father with her husband and children. What would there be to attend to? You are using an extreme example that doesn’t make sense.

 

[Samaalic Era]

We know that a wife must listen to her husband as long as he does not transgress against her rights or tell her to do something haraam.

But, she is not his 'property'.

Also, with the visiting parents part, there are differences of opinions. Hanifi's and Malikis believe he does not have that right.

Somali Ls are Shafici walal, hanafis are not correct

Wife can not leave without her husbands permission