Should I marry the Irish guy?

[Naa]

i thought u said last post u wanted someone who was practicing islam irish ppl are the most christian u can ever meet La Hawla Wala Quwwata illa Billah

She converted him. Irish men easy to convert lol

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Awww, why do you feel that way?

I don’t know wallahi I guess a fear of dying alone? Idek

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Is he muslim

Yes he’s a revert

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

She converted him. Irish men easy to convert lol

I didn’t necessarily push him to convert he did that himself lol

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

Everytime I hear people say that I think of the pickle souls from spongebob

the way he said


'̶̞̈́̄̄̾̿̈́͑͛͘'̵̠̦̖͎͔̇̍̂ ̶̤͋̇͆̐̋̔̽̕ͅͅI̵̘͈̥͇̙̔̇̓̒̆'̵͎̥̊̓̔̌̆͛͌͘͠ͅv̶̗̀̐̌̀͌͝é̸̟̞̪̟̝̞̊̈̅̇͂͘ ̸̛̫̌̐̈́̋̂̽͝c̵̲͔̭̻̀͑̈͑̈́͜ớ̸̧͔͉̟̬͇̺̩̰͙͌̿͂͐͊̋̆͝m̴̛͔̝̋͑͠ę̵͆̽̈́̈́̿́̏ ̸͍̈́̈́̔͑̅̉̇̿͐͝f̵̧̡̞̲͚̞̠͖̠͙͂̋́ǫ̴̻̘͖̰͎͒̐͋̑̃̊͗̚͜ͅͅr̵̮̈́̽̐ ̶̬̱̲͖̗͔́͂̉̂̑̔̿̅͝y̶̛̙̬̎̉̉̽̓͘͝ȏ̵̲̲̩̲͖͕̮̍ų̷̣̖̖̤̓̎͝ͅṟ̷͇̭̖̞̪̉̈͂̉ ̶̱̀̍͜p̶̝̫̜̭̭͈̾̈́̈́́͐ͅȉ̶̠̳̺̥̘̣̣̹̰c̷̡̺̜͙͇̩̫̖͊͒̉͘k̴̮̓͒́͝ļ̵̨̡̫͖͈͚̼̼̋́̇̓̚͠e̶̡̡͎̩̲͈̪̜͖̊͜'̷̧̣̣̳̬͖̺̄̌͌̏̈́̒̓͛͝'̷̩͍̠̓̈́͗̂̋̀̚͘

 

[Sophisticate]

I’m not trolling I’ve posted about him before I just feel like no one will ever love me like this but maybe I don’t know what love is.

You have limited life experience. You can have someone who appreciates you even more with some time and patience. And that person is you. When that happens you will Insh'Allah find a more suitable match.

 

[Naa]

I don’t know wallahi I guess a fear of dying alone? Idek

Same, but don’t rush cuz it could possibly put you in a bad situation

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

i thought u said last post u wanted someone who was practicing islam irish ppl are the most christian u can ever meet La Hawla Wala Quwwata illa Billah

He converted to Islam stop this

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Same, but don’t rush cuz it could possibly put you in a bad situation

You’re right I will take my time

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

You have limited life experience. You can have someone who appreciates you even more with some time and patience. And that person is you. When that happens you will Insh'Allah find a more suitable match.

InshaAllah. Thank you

 

[elite1337]

Honestly theres many more advantages to marrying within your own people, marrying an ajnabi especially someone whos family are not islamic is just a headache.

1. your kids will not be seen as irish and will not be seen as somali
2. your family most likely wont mess with you and so will his family
3. youre basically no longer somali (can be debated)

also dont be so hard on yourself youre 17 u got a lot of time, anxiety happens when u try to control something that is out of ur hands

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Honestly theres many more advantages to marrying within your own people, marrying an ajnabi especially someone whos family are not islamic is just a headache.

1. your kids will not be seen as irish and will not be seen as somali
2. your family most likely wont mess with you and so will his family
3. youre basically no longer somali
also dont be so hard on yourself youre 17 u got a lot of time

That’s the biggest issue it’s true. If he was somali I would no doubt marry him. I wish there was a way to make it work I’ve asked my parents what they would do if I married an ajnabi guy and they laughed at me cause they thought I was joking lol. Yeah you’re right I’m young I tend to rush most things though maybe I should slow down.

 

[digaagjecel]

I’m not trolling I’ve posted about him before I just feel like no one will ever love me like this but maybe I don’t know what love is.

Getting married young is actually recommended in Islam. But if your living in the west I’d say it’s difficult and making decisions isn’t something you have to do right away, you have time so think about it. You don’t have to answer but do you not like somali guys?

 

[Vanessa]

 

[Geeljire lotus]

maybe its the sleep deprivation guys but he's telling me he's serious about me but this feeling will probably leave by morning. Besides every time I think "Oh maybe I'll marry this man" I realize that our kids would be very pasty I don't want to do that to them. Also if I married an Cadaan I would be shunned by my family but he's very nice to me and a good guy. Thinking.

Not worth it

 

[mr steal your naag]

I didn’t necessarily push him to convert he did that himself lol

Abu taylor about to get some free xalimo maleb

 

[salma saluuni]

 

[Hotchick12]

Omg your types of halimos are ruining us Somali girl reps, any ajnabi now thinks he can approach me, Especially pasty gingers

 

[Shimbiris]

Word to the wise if this is real, learn to deal with matters of the heart on your own. Nobody really knows what's what but you. Don't involve family or friends and especially not random strangers on the internet. If you're dealing with severe stress and the person is a psychopath who is manipulating and abusing you then that is perhaps an exception where you might wanna seek aid but otherwise... Keep matters of the heart private. I don't know this nigga and I don't know you and any judgments I make will be based on the limited knowledge of the situation you can give me and will muddy the waters for you when I finally try to give my input.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Okay thank you for the advice. I just feel like I am unlovable sometimes

If you're going to marry out the minimum requirement is that the other person's family has to be Muslim. Having non Muslim in-laws will put a colossal strain on your relationship.

Besides, I'd work on your self-esteem and becoming a more well-rounded individual before even entertaining the idea of marriage or a serious relationship.