Should I marry the Irish guy?

[Netflix]

maybe its the sleep deprivation guys but he's telling me he's serious about me but this feeling will probably leave by morning. Besides every time I think "Oh maybe I'll marry this man" I realize that our kids would be very pasty I don't want to do that to them. Also if I married an Cadaan I would be shunned by my family but he's very nice to me and a good guy. Thinking.

How can you not kill yourselves hearing that Irish accent let alone marry it.

 

[Juliet]

Another ginger revert

 

[AbdiS]

Gingers have no soul.

They would beat you mindless for not fulfilling their psychotic pleasures and needs.

 

[bluebird]

you know ir with white men or men from any culture only work out when the wife fully joins her husbands way of life (i.e. asian women, black women who marry white men have very low divorce rates because they work hard to keep hubby happy) unless you want to do that, I would keep those statistics in mind.

 

[scarecrow]

maybe its the sleep deprivation guys but he's telling me he's serious about me but this feeling will probably leave by morning. Besides every time I think "Oh maybe I'll marry this man" I realize that our kids would be very pasty I don't want to do that to them. Also if I married an Cadaan I would be shunned by my family but he's very nice to me and a good guy. Thinking.

Don't do it. Give your kids some melanin for goodness sake!

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Go ahead

 

[AishaBarri]

you know ir with white men or men from any culture only work out when the wife fully joins her husbands way of life (i.e. asian women, black women who marry white men have very low divorce rates because they work hard to keep hubby happy) unless you want to do that, I would keep those statistics in mind.

This is sooooo true. Anyone interested in going this route would have to be ready to part with their culture. Your future kids will be Irish sis, do you really want that

 

[Fay]

I don’t know wallahi I guess a fear of dying alone? Idek

Awww ur so young sis ur only 17 u got ur life ahead of you.. u will find someone in due time... get ur grades up and get u a good ass job... a man is easy to find make sure he right for u irish or not

 

[The_memesiah9]

Before you marry this guy keep in mind

1. That your children will not be Somali, no matter how good they are when it comes to speaking Somali,
2. That your Somalinimo will end with you and your kids and husband cannot recieve Somali nationality

If you aware of the points and you still wanna marry this ajnabi who I assume to be a practicing Muslim. Go for it if uour Wali guardians agree with it. If they disagree you can't marry him, the marriage will be invalid and it will be considered zina if you sleep with him. All I have to say

 

[Hue_Man]

Somalia in the diaspora are so miskeen lol

 

[Hue_Man]

It’s like how the madows marry a white girl as a trophy. Somalis Marry non African ajnabis as trophy’s lol.

Someone has got to write a book about deep psychology self hatred amongst Somalis in the west

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

This is sooooo true. Anyone interested in going this route would have to be ready to part with their culture. Your future kids will be Irish sis, do you really want that

No yelling thats not part of somali culture no qabil what ever is she going to do

Yelling at each other is what my parents do and theyve been married for so long

 

[elite1337]

you know ir with white men or men from any culture only work out when the wife fully joins her husbands way of life (i.e. asian women, black women who marry white men have very low divorce rates because they work hard to keep hubby happy) unless you want to do that, I would keep those statistics in mind.

soo true, especially with the black women, usually when you marry a white guy your african lineage is officially over lol the chance of your kids just abandoning your culture is gonna be high so if you marry an ajnabi be ready to leave your nationality wether you like it or not

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Getting married young is actually recommended in Islam. But if your living in the west I’d say it’s difficult and making decisions isn’t something you have to do right away, you have time so think about it. You don’t have to answer but do you not like somali guys?

I do like somali guys there just aren’t that many at my school. Maybe when I got to university in September there will be more. It’d be easier to marry a Somali for sure.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

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Amazing

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Omg your types of halimos are ruining us Somali girl reps, any ajnabi now thinks he can approach me, Especially pasty gingers

Who are you?

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

If you're going to marry out the minimum requirement is that the other person's family has to be Muslim. Having non Muslim in-laws will put a colossal strain on your relationship.

Besides, I'd work on your self-esteem and becoming a more well-rounded individual before even entertaining the idea of marriage or a serious relationship.

Their family has to be muslim? And thank you for the advice.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

How can you not kill yourselves hearing that Irish accent let alone marry it.

He doesn’t have an Irish accent

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

It’s like how the madows marry a white girl as a trophy. Somalis Marry non African ajnabis as trophy’s lol.

Someone has got to write a book about deep psychology self hatred amongst Somalis in the west

It’s not even like this

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Awww ur so young sis ur only 17 u got ur life ahead of you.. u will find someone in due time... get ur grades up and get u a good ass job... a man is easy to find make sure he right for u irish or not

Thank you