Should I marry the Irish guy?

[inflorescence]

It’s OK if you marry him you can send your kids here so they wont be pasty

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Is this ur man?

 

[Netflix]

He doesn’t have an Irish accent

If you marry him you will be excommunicated from our ethnic group.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

If you marry him you will be excommunicated from our ethnic group.

Why allow it

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Their family has to be muslim? And thank you for the advice.

Marriage isn't just about two people, it's essentially a joining of two families. Your two families aren't even same race nor do they share something as fundamental as religious beliefs. It'll make things x10s harder in the long run.

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[inflorescence]

Jokes aside:

This isn’t meant to be condescending but take a step back and understand you’re 17. If you dont marry this guy that doesn’t mean you’re doomed to be alone. Dont rush things because you believe you’re “unloveable” ... The biggest scum in the whole world have someone who loves them.


The main question is if he’s worth a potential falling out with family or he’s worth the fight to make your family accept or atleast tolerate him?

Yes or no to that question will dictate your future actions.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

soo true, especially with the black women, usually when you marry a white guy your african lineage is officially over lol the chance of your kids just abandoning your culture is gonna be high so if you marry an ajnabi be ready to leave your nationality wether you like it or not

If Somali woman marry non somali man doesnt mean she has to leave her culture and adopt her non somali husband culture and take his Last name as her Last name which is un islamic to change your father Last name
Their child is non somali but if somali woman marries non doesnt mean she has to abond and leave her identitty and her nation and lineage

 

[elite1337]

If Somali woman marry non somali man doesnt mean she has to leave her culture and adopt her non somali husband and culture and take his Last name as her Last name which is un islamic to change your father Last name
Their child is non somali but if somali woman marries non doesnt mean she has to abond and leave her identitty and her nation and lineage

well u pretty much literally leave ur somali lineage when u mate with a foreigner

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

I think you're trolling if you're only 17. The Ginger revert is by far the most cringey meme. Reminds me of a predator fresh out of the pen.

17

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

If your 17 and hes in love with you and is over 18

 

[inflorescence]

If your 17 and hes in love with you and is over 18

.... How old is he

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Jokes aside:

This isn’t meant to be condescending but take a step back and understand you’re 17. If you dont marry this guy that doesn’t mean you’re doomed to be alone. Dont rush things because you believe you’re “unloveable” ... The biggest scum in the whole world have someone who loves them.


The main question is if he’s worth a potential falling out with family or he’s worth the fight to make your family accept or atleast tolerate him?

Yes or no to that question will dictate your future actions.

Causing a rift with your family over some dick/cunny always ends horribly. Even if the imminent family's chill about it, the extended family might not be.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

well u pretty much literally leave ur somali lineage when u mate with a foreigner

Somali woman doesnt leave her lineage but her kids are i think

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Jokes aside:

This isn’t meant to be condescending but take a step back and understand you’re 17. If you dont marry this guy that doesn’t mean you’re doomed to be alone. Dont rush things because you believe you’re “unloveable” ... The biggest scum in the whole world have someone who loves them.


The main question is if he’s worth a potential falling out with family or he’s worth the fight to make your family accept or atleast tolerate him?

Yes or no to that question will dictate your future actions.

Thank you I will really think on this

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

If your 17 and hes in love with you and is over 18

We’re the same age, he’s a couple months older than me

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

.... How old is he

My age

 

[inflorescence]

My age

SORRY Nacasfrompunt said he was over 18 and I got suspicious

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

SORRY Nacasfrompunt said he was over 18 and I got suspicious

 

[Destiny]

Sis you're still young. Your brain hasn't fully developed yet until mid 20s. Please wait until you're at least 21+ to consider marriage.

 

[Hue_Man]

No yelling thats not part of somali culture no qabil what ever is she going to do

Yelling at each other is what my parents do and theyve been married for so long

hhhhhhhhh i can relate sxb ,,, very weird how married couples can be so chill at being aggressive to one another , im a big snow flake and i would prolly cry if my wives start demanding me things to do