Simplest way to be more attractive as a man

Yeah you are right its not necessarily in reference to money. But medium ugly doesn't mean between attractive and ugly, that's just average men. It means unattractive but not too bad looking. Many women prefer medium ugly guys with good personality, and with money.
It’s due to insecurity. It isn’t a real preference. The same way some men wouldn’t move to a 10/10. Women are just a lot more vocal about it and wear their discomfort on their sleeves.
 
^ Men are patrons too. Dukaanka is open for all. A little bit of grooming doesn’t make you less masculine nor does having a career make you less feminine. Also, women might not be as openly superficial as men but they desire physical attraction (in varying degrees) in men too .


Women don't talk openly about sex, about lust, about physical attraction, women are also socially shamed into overlooking appearance (for several reasons), which is why women settle for 'medium ugly', because that's what's available. Women are also more polite (socially ingrained), so less likely to tell a man he is unattractive, to his face.

100% women desire physical attraction, or at least have the skills to be charismatic and smell good, smh. The struggle is real
 
The story of women cutting their hands in distraction, at Nabi Yusuf (AS)s appearance, should tell you all you need to know about how women feel around handsome men.

Every single girl/woman I know, has been told to 'look past appearance' when it comes to considering suitors. A lot of women, see their potential husband as a 'fixer upper', and as soon as it gets serious, you'll notice women telling a man what to wear or how to groom. That's why married men tends to look better than single men. Look at the 'black wife' trend on tiktok, they took those Cadaan men, and fixed them up.

If boys learned early on, to look after their appearance, and develop communication skills, the marriage market, wouldn't be this bad. Be cute or at least, have the 'gift of the gab' or something.
 

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I thought I lost my touch, since I haven’t been able to pull women lately. Ileen the girls are fed up and banned men from their lives. The first page explains a lot.

I started doubting myself.

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The story of women cutting their hands in distraction, at Nabi Yusuf (AS)s appearance, should tell you all you need to know about how women feel around handsome men.

Every single girl/woman I know, has been told to 'look past appearance' when it comes to considering suitors. A lot of women, see their potential husband as a 'fixer upper', and as soon as it gets serious, you'll notice women telling a man what to wear or how to groom. That's why married men tends to look better than single men. Look at the 'black wife' trend on tiktok, they took those Cadaan men, and fixed them up.

If boys learned early on, to look after their appearance, and develop communication skills, the marriage market, wouldn't be this bad. Be cute or at least, have the 'gift of the gab' or something.
Lol, sadly a lot of married men say that they get a whole lot more female attention after being married or in relationships than before. 😂😂

Many of them don’t even realize the reason why. They’ve convinced themselves that women like unavailable men or what another woman has. Had to explain the reason is that they simply look better because their partners have upgraded them.

Any married woman will tell you. Most fuss over their husbands appearance and will get him to elevate his looks and recommend him better perfumes and the list continues. You do get the opposite whose husbands end up getting fat because of all the food they’re making for their husband, maybe those women are the smart ones 😂😂
 
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Lol, sadly a lot of married men say that that get a whole lot more female attention after being married or in relationships than before. 😂😂

Many of them don’t even realize the reason why. They’ve convinced themselves that women like unavailable men or what another woman has. Had to explain the reason is that they simply look better because their partners have upgraded them.

Any married woman will tell you. Most fuss over their husbands appearance and will get him to elevate his looks and recommend him better perfumes and the list continues. You do get the opposite whose husbands end up getting fat because of all the food they’re making for their husband, maybe those women are the smart ones 😂😂
Most married women know their husbands are a reflection of themselves. Can’t have him walking around looking dishevelled.

Ala heblaayo ninkeeda rafaad baa ka muuqdo - taloow hurdo la’aan miya haayso? :icon lol:

And if he is overfed like a bisad - ala sidee cunto ooga dharjineysay meel u ka neefsado ayu la’yahay. :icon rolleyes:

You’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
 
No. It’s when you have an intense dislike for someone and you can’t quite put your finger on the exact reason. Like markaad qof iska dhex aragtid.

Waan fahmey. So you're saying in some instances the inexplicable dislike comes from the other person's bad hygiene/self-care?
 

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The most basic thing any guys learn about women is that they get easily repulsed. You must minimise the reason to reject. With the state that current western men are in. Being a boring average guys. Is above average in today's dating world

Have average looks, social skills. Boring job and degree. Just listen to women. So many shitty guys. Having a decent personality will get you ahead

Just like that your ahead of the average man
 
STATUS is number 1. More than looks. I’ve seen even MEN get flustered when a man with status walks in a room. It’s crazy. It’s something you have to see in the flesh to really believe it. By all means it’s important getting in shape and hygienic and trim of course but having status/clout is numero uno to be attractive

Money will buy TOLERANCE, not attraction. Especially for women from the third world or other places where money is valued above everything.

What confuses men, is seeing women who know how to feign attraction. Of course, there are some women who don't care about being attracted to a man, but from what I've seen, that's not very common. Look at those famous athletes, who suddenly become monogamous when they retire, because they can no longer afford to splurge on gifts. Their little girlfriends, disappear when the money disappears.
Genuinely speaking women choose the best genetics when it comes to spouse searching so if you're not 6ft+ not making 6fig etc you will be left out. Same thing happens in the animal kingdom only the strong are allowed to carry on their genetics.
 
The most basic thing any guys learn about women is that they get easily repulsed. You must minimise the reason to reject. With the state that current western men are in. Being a boring average guys. Is above average in today's dating world

Have average looks, social skills. Boring job and degree. Just listen to women. So many shitty guys. Having a decent personality will get you ahead

Just like that your ahead of the average man


Maybe the misogynists will listen to you, since you are a man, but I doubt it. SMH
 

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It’s due to insecurity. It isn’t a real preference. The same way some men wouldn’t move to a 10/10. Women are just a lot more vocal about it and wear their discomfort on their sleeves.
Based on my experiences in real life i disagree. I’ve seen it in real life myself, this girl i know rejected a handsome tall guy but with an ok job, and she went for a guy that is shorter, less handsome but has a really nice car and house. And the handsome guy used to chase her, but now she’s the one chasing the uglier guy.
 
Based on my experiences in real life i disagree. I’ve seen it in real life myself, this girl i know rejected a handsome tall guy but with an ok job, and she went for a guy that is shorter, less handsome but has a really nice car and house. And the handsome guy used to chase her, but now she’s the one chasing the uglier guy.

She chose the bag over attraction

:manny:

OR, the 'handsome' guy could have given her the ick, whilst the less handsome one, spoils her.

We need more info
 

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She chose the bag over attraction

:manny:

OR, the 'handsome' guy could have given her the ick, whilst the less handsome one, spoils her.

We need more info
I don’t think women are choosing bag over attraction, it’s that many of them simply don’t respect poor men and think they are beneath them. Whereas they respect a wealthy man and this attracts them.

What percentage of women would want to put on a nice dress and go on a date with a handsome man that drives this car:
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Compared to a medium ugly guy with this car:
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I don’t think women are choosing bag over attraction, it’s that many of them simply don’t respect poor men and think they are beneath them. Whereas they respect a wealthy man and this attracts them.

What percentage of women would rather want to put on a nice dress and go on a date with a handsome man that drives this car:
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Compared to a medium ugly guy with this car:
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That depends on what drives that woman. I've turned down a millionaire in the past, because he was simply not my type. Not all women will choose money over attraction. Life is long for some people, and not every woman can bear laying under a man, just because he has money.

Whereas some sisters, are lucky in the sense that their type IS $$$.
 

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