And “kumaan nicin, jinnikeyga ku nacay”
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Is this maahmaah? What does it mean?
And “kumaan nicin, jinnikeyga ku nacay”
Apt for this thread.
It’s due to insecurity. It isn’t a real preference. The same way some men wouldn’t move to a 10/10. Women are just a lot more vocal about it and wear their discomfort on their sleeves.Yeah you are right its not necessarily in reference to money. But medium ugly doesn't mean between attractive and ugly, that's just average men. It means unattractive but not too bad looking. Many women prefer medium ugly guys with good personality, and with money.
^ Men are patrons too. Dukaanka is open for all. A little bit of grooming doesn’t make you less masculine nor does having a career make you less feminine. Also, women might not be as openly superficial as men but they desire physical attraction (in varying degrees) in men too .
No. It’s when you have an intense dislike for someone and you can’t quite put your finger on the exact reason. Like markaad qof iska dhex aragtid.Is this maahmaah? What does it mean?
It’s due to insecurity. It isn’t a real preference. The same way some men wouldn’t move to a 10/10. Women are just a lot more vocal about it and wear their discomfort on their sleeves.
Lol, sadly a lot of married men say that they get a whole lot more female attention after being married or in relationships than before.The story of women cutting their hands in distraction, at Nabi Yusuf (AS)s appearance, should tell you all you need to know about how women feel around handsome men.
Every single girl/woman I know, has been told to 'look past appearance' when it comes to considering suitors. A lot of women, see their potential husband as a 'fixer upper', and as soon as it gets serious, you'll notice women telling a man what to wear or how to groom. That's why married men tends to look better than single men. Look at the 'black wife' trend on tiktok, they took those Cadaan men, and fixed them up.
If boys learned early on, to look after their appearance, and develop communication skills, the marriage market, wouldn't be this bad. Be cute or at least, have the 'gift of the gab' or something.
Most married women know their husbands are a reflection of themselves. Can’t have him walking around looking dishevelled.Lol, sadly a lot of married men say that that get a whole lot more female attention after being married or in relationships than before.
Many of them don’t even realize the reason why. They’ve convinced themselves that women like unavailable men or what another woman has. Had to explain the reason is that they simply look better because their partners have upgraded them.
Any married woman will tell you. Most fuss over their husbands appearance and will get him to elevate his looks and recommend him better perfumes and the list continues. You do get the opposite whose husbands end up getting fat because of all the food they’re making for their husband, maybe those women are the smart ones![]()
No. It’s when you have an intense dislike for someone and you can’t quite put your finger on the exact reason. Like markaad qof iska dhex aragtid.
STATUS is number 1. More than looks. I’ve seen even MEN get flustered when a man with status walks in a room. It’s crazy. It’s something you have to see in the flesh to really believe it. By all means it’s important getting in shape and hygienic and trim of course but having status/clout is numero uno to be attractive
Genuinely speaking women choose the best genetics when it comes to spouse searching so if you're not 6ft+ not making 6fig etc you will be left out. Same thing happens in the animal kingdom only the strong are allowed to carry on their genetics.Money will buy TOLERANCE, not attraction. Especially for women from the third world or other places where money is valued above everything.
What confuses men, is seeing women who know how to feign attraction. Of course, there are some women who don't care about being attracted to a man, but from what I've seen, that's not very common. Look at those famous athletes, who suddenly become monogamous when they retire, because they can no longer afford to splurge on gifts. Their little girlfriends, disappear when the money disappears.
Gabdha yaa talo ka qaataa hhhh
Dumara gar laga ma helo
Genuinely speaking women choose the best genetics when it comes to spouse searching so if you're not 6ft+ not making 6fig etc you will be left out. Same thing happens in the animal kingdom only the strong are allowed to carry on their genetics.
The most basic thing any guys learn about women is that they get easily repulsed. You must minimise the reason to reject. With the state that current western men are in. Being a boring average guys. Is above average in today's dating world
Have average looks, social skills. Boring job and degree. Just listen to women. So many shitty guys. Having a decent personality will get you ahead
Just like that your ahead of the average man
Based on my experiences in real life i disagree. I’ve seen it in real life myself, this girl i know rejected a handsome tall guy but with an ok job, and she went for a guy that is shorter, less handsome but has a really nice car and house. And the handsome guy used to chase her, but now she’s the one chasing the uglier guy.It’s due to insecurity. It isn’t a real preference. The same way some men wouldn’t move to a 10/10. Women are just a lot more vocal about it and wear their discomfort on their sleeves.
Based on my experiences in real life i disagree. I’ve seen it in real life myself, this girl i know rejected a handsome tall guy but with an ok job, and she went for a guy that is shorter, less handsome but has a really nice car and house. And the handsome guy used to chase her, but now she’s the one chasing the uglier guy.
I don’t think women are choosing bag over attraction, it’s that many of them simply don’t respect poor men and think they are beneath them. Whereas they respect a wealthy man and this attracts them.She chose the bag over attraction
OR, the 'handsome' guy could have given her the ick, whilst the less handsome one, spoils her.
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I don’t think women are choosing bag over attraction, it’s that many of them simply don’t respect poor men and think they are beneath them. Whereas they respect a wealthy man and this attracts them.
What percentage of women would rather want to put on a nice dress and go on a date with a handsome man that drives this car:
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Compared to a medium ugly guy with this car:
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