You ladies should know better than to be triggered by the hollow words and rants of incels and weirdos.
Still too old, they should be married by 15-20"I think the over 30 category women might as well be listed on the endangered species list along with rhinos and the rest of the animals" .
But, what about 20-25 year old women?
I don't feel sorry for them. If you see how they attack incels and put up their standards, while they are young then you will realise they caused their own problems. I'm talking about the really narcissistic women, that dated up their whole lives and realised the bad men didn't want them anymore.
They are just as mentally ill as incels, yet society mocks incels and they expect everyone to feel sorry for narcissistic, manipulative females that made bad decisions on their own.
I don't think they have a choice sxb. It's sad and it leads to single mother homes, where the children adopt a life of crime and burden society. It will soon reach china and japan levels, where women are leftover and can't get married.I totally agree. They dissed perfectly fine men in order to pursue the top 10 percentile of men. These men (the top 10 percentile) either rejected them or used them and threw them away afterwards, without settling down.
Once these women hit 30 years of age they try to get back to the men they dissed when they were in their prime, often with a bastard kid.
I hope the brothers tell them that they dont want none of their business. Let them live like single moms in the suburbs.
After reading that unfortunate topic, I realized that there is in fact a lot of hatred directed at women who are unmarried after the age of 30.
A lot of "men" want to punish and demean women for not settling for less or not having their rizq fulfilled yet.
Please bear in mind that not everyone has the same journey in life, some get married young, others get married late whilst there are those who never marry.
Marriage does not define who you are as a servant of Allah.
Remember, the best of all men, the Prophet Muhammed SAW, as a 25 year old man, married Khadijah AS, who was 40!
She was not a virgin, in fact, she was married twice or thrice and had children from her previous marriages!
She went on to have 6 or 8 children with the prophet Muhammed SAW!
Your fertility is from Allah, your marriage is from Allah. Nobody on earth can take away your rizq.
Any man who tries to denigrate you based on how long you have been on earth, is not worthy of even licking your shoes.
You are worthy of respect because you were created in the best form by the most high. Your worth is not tied to a man or how fertile you are but rather how close you are to Allah SWT!!
Still too old, they should be married by 15-20
Did u know the prophet's wives complained about their living conditions and lack of food for a couple months, the women called a meeting, spearheaded i think by Aisha(radhiAllahu anhaa)? You know what Allah Responded with and what Omar(RadhiAllahu anhu) said to his daughter after that incident?Personally I agree but in some cases, there is divine wisdom in it.
For instance with Khadijah/Muhammed SAW, she was wealthy, experienced and she had her uncle who was important in the expansion of Islam.
Also, Muhammed SAW and Aisha, after his death, she taught Islam/hadiths to people.
I think it's best to be happy alone rather than to settle with someone who cannot make you happy.
Honestly, there are many unmarried women who are much happier than married women. Many married women have useless men/abusive/controlling men and would love to escape.
I guess, everyone has the right to their own journey in life.
always khadija and Aisha(Radhiyallahu anhumaa) what about the other wives of the prophet??Personally I agree but in some cases, there is divine wisdom in it.
For instance with Khadijah/Muhammed SAW, she was wealthy, experienced and she had her uncle who was important in the expansion of Islam.
Also, Muhammed SAW and Aisha, after his death, she taught Islam/hadiths to people.
I think it's best to be happy alone rather than to settle with someone who cannot make you happy.
Honestly, there are many unmarried women who are much happier than married women. Many married women have useless men/abusive/controlling men and would love to escape.
I guess, everyone has the right to their own journey in life.
As long as she's respectable and not an ex . Ex s are dangerous and lead to divorce. Bad for the children.i would be more then willing to marry a 30 year old women instead of a 20 year old
lool thats what i ment sahib i would rather marry a respectable 30 year old women with self respect and dignity then a 20 year old exAs long as she's respectable and not an ex . Ex s are dangerous and lead to divorce. Bad for the children.
18+-9As long as she is 18+ then it's okay.
No, the kids are the most important part.The most important thing is to get laid, ofcourse in a halal way. Or else you are missing the paradise on Earth.