So from
@Taij4an his initial post about needing witness, both bothers me but at the same time I somewhat kinda get it …
This sister is wanting to show that this guy isn’t who he says he is …
But at the same time … you met this religious sheik at a “lounge?” Right off the bat, you should’ve known ok, I don’t think this supposedly religious guy is about what he preaches since he’s at a lounge where there’s shisha and other things that aren’t halal or good.
And lastly … why oh why as a grown woman would you allow someone to fly you out sis ? Why ? There’s NEVER any good intention when a man pays your ticket to fly you out, and there ain’t no hidden intention. I’ve seen this play out in real life multiple times with women.
If he can travel everywhere he can visit you on your country and city.
I’m sorry this happened to her, but in this day and age, there’s nothing innocent about being flown out by a man who paid your tickets.
But the whole witnessse thing bothers me, as I have been sexually attacked by a religious guy in the past and recently this year, and I can’t believe I would need witnesss to say he did that to me. Although I have receipts and plenty of screenshots and phone records … I was still blamed as he convinced folks that I was the one who wanted him, and my receipts don’t mean nothing without a witness according to Islamic law. Gtfo.
I don’t need any of the guys here to say I’m capping or lying, just that rapes and sexual harassment happens within our community by a lot of religious folks and even with evidence, we get told we need a witness.
My rant over and maybe some tea spilled later on. Salam.