Some men don’t care if you have a past.

[rayxn3]

This thread is so confusing on the one hand guys are saying no to h0es and we have girls saying have your fun guys are into it. I am not trying to die alone guys.

My advice is be a good Muslim and don’t commit zina for a

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Somali man who’s gonna nut within 2 seconds. It’s not worth it.

Yeah some Somali guys might still want you after being with other Somali men but at the end of the day you’re here to please Allah, not them. 2 seconds isn’t worth an eternity of hellfire.

 

[Yeri]

Walaal. It's what I have seen walahi. I've seen it so many times. I'm not saying sleep with so many men.

I'm saying the whole idea that the "good girl" gets chosen is bs. Many times the outgoing girl gets multiple proposal and then she is able to pick out the best guy. Usually the outgoing girl will get the better quality man: working in tech, tall, earning good money, educated, good manners and good looking. Giving her a good life.

Whilst the stay at home "good girl" doesn't have many options and she in turn has to either settle for a lower quality man or just stay at Hooyo's house well in to her 30s.

I can’t lie I am super antisocial and haven’t really had friends since sixth form. I genuinely thought that atleast this might appeal to men since I hear them going on online about girls trips and their girl’s friends.

 

[Khaem]

Walaal. It's what I have seen walahi. I've seen it so many times. I'm not saying sleep with so many men.

I'm saying the whole idea that the "good girl" gets chosen is bs. Many times the outgoing girl gets multiple proposal and then she is able to pick out the best guy. Usually the outgoing girl will get the better quality man: working in tech, tall, earning good money, educated, good manners and good looking. Giving her a good life.

Whilst the stay at home "good girl" doesn't have many options and she in turn has to either settle for a lower quality man or just stay at Hooyo's house well in to her 30s.

That's bs. Outgoing girl gets more proposals because she puts herself out there that's all.

If the miskeen good girl put her self out a little she'd get showered. But ig them being hard to find since they're all home bodies is kinda part of the fun of the game.

And as a man I promise you no man ik points out those promiscuous party girls and says "I wanna marry her" the guys chat about them as objects to be used bro. *Pass em around' is the memo, This mindset won't get you anywhere.

 

[Khaem]

My advice is be a good Muslim and don’t commit zina for a

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Somali man who’s gonna nut within 2 seconds. It’s not worth it.

Yeah some Somali guys might still want you after being with other Somali men but at the end of the day you’re here to please Allah, not them. 2 seconds isn’t worth an eternity of hellfire.

Don't assume things about me abaayo. I'm full of surprises

 

[Yeri]

My advice is be a good Muslim and don’t commit zina for a

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Somali man who’s gonna nut within 2 seconds. It’s not worth it.

Yeah some Somali guys might still want you after being with other Somali men but at the end of the day you’re here to please Allah, not them. 2 seconds isn’t worth an eternity of hellfire.

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[Khaem]

Facts nobody wants to raise half ajanabi kids

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No way in hell am I raising a halfie of another man. Might as well castrate myself for being that cucked.

 

[Shayla]

I can’t lie I am super antisocial and haven’t really had friends since sixth form. I genuinely thought that atleast this might appeal to men since I hear them going on online about girls trips and their girl’s friends.

If you want to get married this isn't the way. You might get lucky and a family member might find you a guy.

Laakin, think about sis? If you are at home all the time...how you gonna meet a potential? And dating is a numbers game. You need to weed out the bad guys to get to a good guy. So you need to expose yourself to as many Somali guys as possible. They need to see you . I guess you could do the whole online thing I suppose. But again that requires you actually going on those platforms.

The whole nerdy, bookish girl, who spends her weekends cleaning the house for Hooyo, babysitting and reading/watching Netflix....its hard for those girls.

 

[Yeri]

If you want to get married this isn't the way. You might get lucky and a family member might find you a guy.

Laakin, think about sis? If you are at home all the time...how you gonna meet a potential? And dating is a numbers game. You need to weed out the bad guys to get to a good guy. So you need to expose yourself to as many Somali guys as possible. They need to see you . I guess you could do the whole online thing I suppose. But again that requires you actually going on those platforms.

The whole nerdy, bookish girl, who spends her weekends cleaning the house for Hooyo, babysitting and reading/watching Netflix....its hard for those girls.

My parents aren’t alive anymore, I live on my own. But I will definitely try putting myself out there.

 

[Yeri]

Don't assume things about me abaayo. I'm full of surprises

ALLAH I JUST CLOCKED WHAT YOU SAID!!

 

[Khaem]

My parents aren’t alive anymore, I live on my own. But I will definitely try putting myself out there.

Aun
Somali guys wouldn't see you as not miskeen if you put yourself out there.
There's a diff between being out there and social with people and being promiscuous.

If you put yourself out there in mixed Somali spaces you'd meet someone inshallah

 

[Shayla]

My parents aren’t alive anymore, I live on my own. But I will definitely try putting myself out there.

Aww miskiin. AUN your hooyo and aabo walaal. May Allah give them Jannah amin.

Put yourself out there.im not saying sleep with these men. I'm saying get out the house, have fun, and talk to these guys.

Be careful as well though. Some abusive men love the idea of a woman with no parents. They think she is vulnerable.

When you date, make sure you tell them you have your family and your toll who care about you and you aren't alone.

 

[Chase]

You are forgiven. Say, Alx, you aren't taking Ls like some of these guys here.
This thread is highly problematic. Full of some very strange takes.

• You have undercover Somali uncle ruckus hiding behind wadani rhetoric, i.e. "White hoes are better, but I want a chaste one, though that's rare among gaalo, so I'll settle for a zero mileage Somali girl."
• Conversely, you have a few exclaiming a Somali woman is pristine if she gives it up, like the community fountain with an Abdis-only sign.

Biskina iyo Yasiinka indeed.

I mean hey, what can I say? Loyalty is virtue

 

[rayxn3]

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No. I wouldn’t commit zina for anyone. I’m just saying it’s not worth it in general especially for girls the first time. It’s usually painful and awkward and you’ll regret it.

I can’t lie I am super antisocial and haven’t really had friends since sixth form. I genuinely thought that atleast this might appeal to men since I hear them going on online about girls trips and their girl’s friends.

They complain about that but still go for those girls. Men are LIARSS! Focus on making new friends. You can meet guys through them. Or through social media.

 

[rayxn3]

Don't assume things about me abaayo. I'm full of surprises

How old are you ?

 

[Khaem]

How old are you ?

Old enough & Tall enough 🫰

 

[rayxn3]

Old enough & Tall enough 🫰

I’m 13.

 

[Macawisley]

Very good point about needing a stepmother.

Yeah, all these Abdis in this thread are all just chatting crap. If they fall in love with a girl, they won't care that she partied and dated guys before.

I've seen this, time and time again, over and over.

Men don't want the quiet, shy homebody girl. They want the outgoing, full of life, having a ball type of girl. The girl at the Maxamed BK concert on Saturday, organising the uni Somali society party for Friday and catching a plane on the Saturday to spend a weekend with her girlfriends in Barcelona. That's the girl they want.

Stop lying yourself. No one wants those girls. Maybe for a few nights but never as a wife.

 

[Khaem]

I’m 13.

Drop the insta in dms and I'll keep you noted for when I'm looking in a few years after uni Inshallah you'll be ready then

 

[Macawisley]

I’m 13.

Nice & young. Are you lightskin too?

 

[Khaem]

Nice & young. Are you lightskin too?

This nigga.
This your blic Afro ass hunting for some lighties. Unlike you, I'm into all types of xalimos dark and light. I'm not into those girls who are super light they look sikly and the super dark.