Ethiopia already had internal conflicts for decades ongoing, and still invaded Somalia in 1964 only to be repulsed by an ill-equipped Somali Republic. At-least in 77’ Somalia invaded an Ethiopia which had a bigger army, had more accumulated state resources and one which had enjoyed 50 years of uninterrupted Western arms shipments. It was not the poor innocent lamb your portraying it to be. Even today it’s riddled with internal conflicts that have reached conventional levels and death toll figures that put any Somali conflict of the last 30 years (or any period in our history) to shame.
Yeah Al-Shabaab is annoying, yes the pirates made a lot of noise, and sure the regional states are divided along clan lines but the majority of the civil-war post-Siad Barre consisted of low-intensity fighting or no fighting at all, never the conventional scale carnage seen in the Tigray War where 500 thousand people got wiped out in just 2 years or the other major conflicts raging in Ethiopia. In fact our biggest killer has been famine related not gun-violence, and even here the figures pale in comparison with Ethiopia or even North Korea.
Also, be aware that it’s much easier in the long term to put Somalia back together after state collapse, than it would be an Ethiopia post-state collapse, regardless of how long it takes. Eritrea for example will never return to Ethiopia, but a reunification between North and South Korea? Well, we already have the historic examples of North and South Yemen, East and West Germany, North and South Vietnam. In all those examples the countries could break up, re-unify, break up and re-unify as many times as they please because their bond is eternal even if geopolitics at times separates them.
The Soviet Union? In history’s dustbin. Yugoslavia? A dead blast from the past. Somalia is only going to emerge stronger from this situation, with clear checks and balances and regional distribution of national wealth, which is something that should have already been in place decades ago, but at-least its happening now.
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@Garaad diinle pointed out above, countries in the region had decades to leave Somalia completely in the dust but they didn’t, and now its definitely too late, as Somalia with its multiple deepwater ports, rich natural resources, robust economy, debt free status, and arms embargo lifted will remind you of what made our country great, just like your grandfathers knew back in the day when they ran Radio Afaan Oromo from Mogadishu.