To the guys here, how do you stop your woman from complaining?

[CaliTedesse]

I did notice one connection Somali men spoiled and treated like a baby by their mothers feel like a relationship or a female is only there to fulfill his needs and then they cry and wonder why these women go to real jareeer ni99as.

 

[Happy_]

man I have tried everything. Listening, positive reinforcement. Gratitude building, trying to fix issues everything. But every single day my woman is complaining and whining about every single thing.

Shit it’s so bad sometimes I prefer to stay at work late.

Man what does a man do?

Ik what‘s the problem, Mama Malyun knows aswell and 1000 other xaliimos. You gotta do a better job

 

[CaliTedesse]

Yet you want to try to shame me for not being male feminist.

male feminist? f*ck feminism abaha ku was you just seem like a self righteous jileec somali man judging from your comments the one I despize, skinny and spoiled like a gaajo

 

[Omar del Sur]

listen, if you put women on a pedestal and convince them they are goddess princesses......

you'll find where that leads. you'll only be expected to kneel lower.

I did indeed compare women with phones. Previously, I've compared them with bottles of coconut water at the corner store across from my house.

I stand by what I said and I don't apologize for it.

You should use the same sort of rational mind as if you are selecting a television or a can of coconut water. Don't get warm and fuzzy and think she's an angel from Jannah. Be cold and logical.

 

[Veteran]

male feminist? f*ck feminism abaha ku was you just seem like a self righteous jileec somali man judging from your comments the one I despize, skinny and spoiled like a gaajo

Waa Mexican warya, what's with you and jileec Somalis.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Ik what‘s the problem, Mama Malyun knows aswell and 1000 other xaliimos. You gotta do a better job

Wallahi have feeling and my feelings are most of time right. Waa skinny jileec big booty bashir. He aint hitting her spots rights , after 5 seconds hes done, goes to sleep. Thats why shes complaining everytime HAHAHAHA

 

[CaliTedesse]

listen, if you put women on a pedestal and convince them they are goddess princesses......

you'll find where that leads. you'll only be expected to kneel lower.

I did indeed compare women with phones. Previously, I've compared them with bottles of coconut water at the corner store across from my house.

I stand by what I said and I don't apologize for it.

You should use the same sort of rational mind as if you are selecting a television or a can of coconut water. Don't get warm and fuzzy and think she's an angel from Jannah. Be cold and logical.

Ni99a i always advise my brothers to degrade females and never gass them up. but this situation is obviously a case of my brotha not hitting it right.

 

[Azania]

It’s time you pullout the second wife card, just wave it around and she will behave

If that doesn’t work, it’s time you start searching for reformed s and treat yourself

 

[Kamma]

Go on a nice get away to hawaii.. Holiday usually helps.

Talk honestly with each other. Ask her what's wrong. Maybe your doing something wrong that you don't know.
Give her favourite meal, offer to do romantic massages for her. Maybe you are not fulfilling her emotionally or physically. There could be millions of reason but to know you have to ask directly. Don't try to ignore or dismiss the problem.

 

[HMuuse]

I agree with @CaliTedesse how is the sex life brother @Dino it seems like you are a 1 minute man.

 

[CaliTedesse]

I agree with @CaliTedesse how is the sex life brother @Dino it seems like you are a 1 minute man.

Thanks yaa akhi it's obvious the sex game is whack.

 

[CaliTedesse]

My nigga @Omar del Sur finishes after 5 seconds then divorces his wife for complaining about it. Silly wetback sheikh kkkkkkkkk

 

[HMuuse]

listen, if you put women on a pedestal and convince them they are goddess princesses......

you'll find where that leads. you'll only be expected to kneel lower.

I did indeed compare women with phones. Previously, I've compared them with bottles of coconut water at the corner store across from my house.

I stand by what I said and I don't apologize for it.

You should use the same sort of rational mind as if you are selecting a television or a can of coconut water. Don't get warm and fuzzy and think she's an angel from Jannah. Be cold and logical.

Fake Mexican Wahabi Muslim

 

[Inquisitive_]

man I have tried everything. Listening, positive reinforcement. Gratitude building, trying to fix issues everything. But every single day my woman is complaining and whining about every single thing.

Shit it’s so bad sometimes I prefer to stay at work late.

Man what does a man do?

Why stay late at work and not go to the Gym instead and build your physique thereby raising your sexual market value?

The effect this will have on her psychologically alone will terrify her into thinking she is about to loose you to another female.

This insecurity alone will shift the momentum of the relationship back in your favour, the complaining stops and the pampering begins.

The whole psychology behind incessant complaints is WANING interest levels in your partner, something about you has changed!

You are the cause of this and it's a common thing with males to abandon what got her hooked in the first place, the incessant complaints are just her way of communicating this to you!

The number 1 relationship rule is to stay focused on your purpose in life whatever it is, this of course requires you to have one in the first place because without this you are nothing.

That purpose should ALWAYS come before your woman, because if it doesn't! she becomes the object of your purpose and focus, which of course is biologically repulsive to her because she wants to board your train (instead of you boarding hers)

You suck all the love, passion and excitement from the relationship when you do this, and you don't even realise this until the entire marriage goes up in smoke.

My sincere advice to you is to take heed through actions, hit the gym, improve upon other aspects in your life especially as it relates to the bedroom, we live in an age were all the materials and information of how to achieve this is out there.

Add to your spiritual growth, start dressing better and improving your style/appearance while of course remaining unfazed at all times never verbalizing this!

You will shake her to the core with this and all the incessant complaints will morph into insecurity, servitude and devotion to the one she fears to loose, win/win.

 

[Veteran]

Why stay late at work and not go to the Gym instead and build your physique thereby raising your sexual market value?

The effect this will have on her psychologically alone will terrify her into thinking she is about to loose you to another female.

This insecurity alone will shift the momentum of the relationship back in your favour, the complaining stops and the pampering begins.

The whole psychology behind incessant complaints is WANING interest levels in your partner, something about you has changed!

You are the cause of this and it's a common thing with males to abandon what got her hooked in the first place, the incessant complaints are just her way of communicating this to you!

The number 1 relationship rule is to stay focused on your purpose in life whatever it is, this of course requires you to have one in the first place because without this you are nothing.

That purpose should ALWAYS come before your woman, because if it doesn't! she becomes the object of your purpose and focus, which of course is biologically repulsive to her because she wants to board your train instead of vice versa.

You suck all the love, passion and excitement from the relationship when you do this, and you don't even realise this until the entire marriage goes up in smoke.

My sincere advice to you is to take heed through actions, hit the gym, improve upon other aspects in your life especially as it relates to the bedroom

Add to your spiritual growth, start dressing better and improving your style/appearance while of course remaining unfazed at all times never verbalizing anything to her while you embark on this.
You will shake her to the core with this and all the incessant complaints will morph into insecurity, servitude and devotion to the one she fears to loose, win/win.

Every post you make is Grade A.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Why stay late at work and not go to the Gym instead and build your physique thereby raising your sexual market value?

The effect this will have on her psychologically alone will terrify her into thinking she is about to loose you to another female.

This insecurity alone will shift the momentum of the relationship back in your favour, the complaining stops and the pampering begins.

The whole psychology behind incessant complaints is WANING interest levels in your partner, something about you has changed!

You are the cause of this and it's a common thing with males to abandon what got her hooked in the first place, the incessant complaints are just her way of communicating this to you!

The number 1 relationship rule is to stay focused on your purpose in life whatever it is, this of course requires you to have one in the first place because without this you are nothing.

That purpose should ALWAYS come before your woman, because if it doesn't! she becomes the object of your purpose and focus, which of course is biologically repulsive to her because she wants to board your train (instead of you boarding hers)

You suck all the love, passion and excitement from the relationship when you do this, and you don't even realise this until the entire marriage goes up in smoke.

My sincere advice to you is to take heed through actions, hit the gym, improve upon other aspects in your life especially as it relates to the bedroom

Add to your spiritual growth, start dressing better and improving your style/appearance while of course remaining unfazed at all times never verbalizing anything to her while you embark on this.
You will shake her to the core with this and all the incessant complaints will morph into insecurity, servitude and devotion to the one she fears to loose, win/win.

co-sign this some real ni99a shit wa lakin I just call them big booty bashirs or jileec men wa lakin I mean this: improve yourselves hoyadiin wasse kkkkkkk man I need to be more like @Inquisitive_

 

[Aliobaba]

man I have tried everything. Listening, positive reinforcement. Gratitude building, trying to fix issues everything. But every single day my woman is complaining and whining about every single thing.

Shit it’s so bad sometimes I prefer to stay at work late.

Man what does a man do?

Divorce her n marry a latina

 

[VixR]

Are you going to tell us what she’s complaining about?This sex talk is too assuming. I would put a fiver that she’s continuing to complain about the same things unheeded and unaddressed.

 

[Saintly]

I get it man, sometimes women just think out loud wallahi, half of the time I'm like this is in the relationship;

 

[The_Kong Dong]

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