To the guys here, how do you stop your woman from complaining?
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Even Umar RA had a wife that shouted at him and he was the 2nd khalifah. It's in their nature, i'd be more concerned about a girl who don't give me stress, maxay qarinaysa balaayadu
if she wants to vent and complain, pretend to be all ears and be a good liar. Better yet, find a girl who complains about the right things, positive reinforcement.Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Whoever has the following four (characteristics) will be a pure hypocrite and whoever has one of the following four characteristics will have one characteristic of hypocrisy unless and until he gives it up.
1. Whenever he is entrusted, he betrays.
2. Whenever he speaks, he tells a lie.
3. Whenever he makes a covenant, he proves treacherous.
4. Whenever he quarrels, he behaves in a very imprudent, evil and insulting manner."
https://sunnah.com/bukhari/2/27
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Two matters are signs of disbelief on the part of those who indulge in them: Defaming and speaking evil of a person's lineage, and wailing over the dead."
[Muslim].
https://sunnah.com/riyadussaliheen/18/68
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@CaliTedesse You might think racism is a joke but you won't see it that way on the Day of Judgement. Islamically, we are weighed by taqwa and coming from a Muslim background means nothing if you lack taqwa.
"Racism is a fatal disease and a very dangerous matter. Whenever it spreads in the community, it divides them into groups and parties. The racists act according to their emotions rather than their minds. Islam totally disapproves of this and strongly condemns it.
Islam teaches us that the origin of all mankind is one; all of them belong to Adam and Adam was created from dust. Allah Says (what means): {O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.} [Quran 49:13]
Allah made different groups and tribes only to allow them to know one another, and not to stimulate boasting or fighting between them. The difference of languages, colors, nationalities and wealth are not criteria to boast and show off. Indeed, the supremacy and superiority are based only on piety (Taqwa, God fearing) and this is something between Allah and his slaves and no one knows its extent except Allah Alone. The location of piety is the person's heart and Allah Alone knows what the hearts conceal. Allah Says (what means): {…then it is truly from the piety of the heart.} [Quran 22:32]
The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “The piety is here, (and while saying so), he pointed towards his chest thrice. It is a serious evil for a Muslim to look down upon his Muslim brother. All things of a Muslim are inviolable from his brother in faith, his blood, his wealth and his honor (should be respected)." [Muslim]
In fact, the differences of languages and colors are among the wonderful signs of Allah that proves His Might and Greatness. The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said in his last sermon: “There is no preference of an Arab over a Non-Arab, or a white over a black, or a black over a white, except by the (degree) of piety.” [Ahmad]
In another Hadeeth the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said about racism: “Leave it (that call) as it is a detestable thing.” [Reported by Imaam al-Bukhari]
Therefore, racism is totally rejected by Islamic teachings. Muslim scholars and reformers have always denounced it. It has always been the weapon of foolish and arrogant people; by using these hateful feelings they always cause much harm to mankind as a whole.
Actually, the founder of racism is Iblees (Satan) who objected to Allah's Order when ordered him to prostate to Adam. He claimed: {[Satan] said, "I am better than him. You created me from fire and created him from clay."} [Quran 7:12]
So, Allah punished Satan by driving him away from His Mercy and Blessings. Therefore, whoever is affected by this disease should fear Allah and try his best to get rid of it, seeking refuge with Allah.
The best way that could help one to get rid of this disease is to ponder over the Quran and Sunnah, and to read the biography of the companions of the Prophet
.
Allah knows best."
https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/86205/how-to-get-rid-of-racism
"Racism is a fatal disease and a very dangerous matter. Whenever it spreads in the community, it divides them into groups and parties. The racists act according to their emotions rather than their minds. Islam totally disapproves of this and strongly condemns it.
Islam teaches us that the origin of all mankind is one; all of them belong to Adam and Adam was created from dust. Allah Says (what means): {O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.} [Quran 49:13]
Allah made different groups and tribes only to allow them to know one another, and not to stimulate boasting or fighting between them. The difference of languages, colors, nationalities and wealth are not criteria to boast and show off. Indeed, the supremacy and superiority are based only on piety (Taqwa, God fearing) and this is something between Allah and his slaves and no one knows its extent except Allah Alone. The location of piety is the person's heart and Allah Alone knows what the hearts conceal. Allah Says (what means): {…then it is truly from the piety of the heart.} [Quran 22:32]
The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “The piety is here, (and while saying so), he pointed towards his chest thrice. It is a serious evil for a Muslim to look down upon his Muslim brother. All things of a Muslim are inviolable from his brother in faith, his blood, his wealth and his honor (should be respected)." [Muslim]
In fact, the differences of languages and colors are among the wonderful signs of Allah that proves His Might and Greatness. The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said in his last sermon: “There is no preference of an Arab over a Non-Arab, or a white over a black, or a black over a white, except by the (degree) of piety.” [Ahmad]
In another Hadeeth the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said about racism: “Leave it (that call) as it is a detestable thing.” [Reported by Imaam al-Bukhari]
Therefore, racism is totally rejected by Islamic teachings. Muslim scholars and reformers have always denounced it. It has always been the weapon of foolish and arrogant people; by using these hateful feelings they always cause much harm to mankind as a whole.
Actually, the founder of racism is Iblees (Satan) who objected to Allah's Order when ordered him to prostate to Adam. He claimed: {[Satan] said, "I am better than him. You created me from fire and created him from clay."} [Quran 7:12]
So, Allah punished Satan by driving him away from His Mercy and Blessings. Therefore, whoever is affected by this disease should fear Allah and try his best to get rid of it, seeking refuge with Allah.
The best way that could help one to get rid of this disease is to ponder over the Quran and Sunnah, and to read the biography of the companions of the Prophet
Allah knows best."
https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/86205/how-to-get-rid-of-racism
I can see a lot of people here seem to take their own alleged religion as a joke.
I don’t think you’ve met an Arab. Btw according to sharia all Muslims are welcome in a Muslim land but try walking through Saudi Arabia without being asked for a passport. Ikama ikama ikama loooool hairy back having animals. How did our religion come down to such a disgusting people.@CaliTedesse You might think racism is a joke but you won't see it that way on the Day of Judgement. Islamically, we are weighed by taqwa and coming from a Muslim background means nothing if you lack taqwa.
"Racism is a fatal disease and a very dangerous matter. Whenever it spreads in the community, it divides them into groups and parties. The racists act according to their emotions rather than their minds. Islam totally disapproves of this and strongly condemns it.
Islam teaches us that the origin of all mankind is one; all of them belong to Adam and Adam was created from dust. Allah Says (what means): {O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.} [Quran 49:13]
Allah made different groups and tribes only to allow them to know one another, and not to stimulate boasting or fighting between them. The difference of languages, colors, nationalities and wealth are not criteria to boast and show off. Indeed, the supremacy and superiority are based only on piety (Taqwa, God fearing) and this is something between Allah and his slaves and no one knows its extent except Allah Alone. The location of piety is the person's heart and Allah Alone knows what the hearts conceal. Allah Says (what means): {…then it is truly from the piety of the heart.} [Quran 22:32]
The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “The piety is here, (and while saying so), he pointed towards his chest thrice. It is a serious evil for a Muslim to look down upon his Muslim brother. All things of a Muslim are inviolable from his brother in faith, his blood, his wealth and his honor (should be respected)." [Muslim]
In fact, the differences of languages and colors are among the wonderful signs of Allah that proves His Might and Greatness. The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said in his last sermon: “There is no preference of an Arab over a Non-Arab, or a white over a black, or a black over a white, except by the (degree) of piety.” [Ahmad]
In another Hadeeth the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said about racism: “Leave it (that call) as it is a detestable thing.” [Reported by Imaam al-Bukhari]
Therefore, racism is totally rejected by Islamic teachings. Muslim scholars and reformers have always denounced it. It has always been the weapon of foolish and arrogant people; by using these hateful feelings they always cause much harm to mankind as a whole.
Actually, the founder of racism is Iblees (Satan) who objected to Allah's Order when ordered him to prostate to Adam. He claimed: {[Satan] said, "I am better than him. You created me from fire and created him from clay."} [Quran 7:12]
So, Allah punished Satan by driving him away from His Mercy and Blessings. Therefore, whoever is affected by this disease should fear Allah and try his best to get rid of it, seeking refuge with Allah.
The best way that could help one to get rid of this disease is to ponder over the Quran and Sunnah, and to read the biography of the companions of the Prophet.
Allah knows best."
https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/86205/how-to-get-rid-of-racism
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Sxb tell us what she is complaining about and we can move it from here.
So Arabs are animals according to you?
Meanwhile the mosque I go to is mostly Arab and I've never seen the Arab Muslims I know talk in such a way.
You have no business saying degrading things about Arabs.
Taking another girl to another date.
Because you are not in their country. My siblings grew up there. They are the worst of the worst. You can literally be born there and they will deport you. They’re a disease, they act maskiin when they aren’t in their country.
You have no business referring to Arabs in such a way. There is no justification Islamically for you to call Arabs animals.
also even if it is true that you can be deported so easily... who does that reflect? a government. so if a government does something does that justify you insulting hundreds of millions of people?
there is no justification
If Arabs acted like Muslims their countries wouldn’t be what they are. Complete trash, biggest wealth disparity in the world and racist. Hell Arabs had a larger slave trade than whites, Arabs have slaves today. Is that allowed in Islam?
The government they support and back, a lying wahhabi terror organization that preaches extremist Islam while committing genocide in Yemen, ignoring Palestine and declaring that Israel has the right to exist. Where do you think the extremist sheikhs in Somalia get trained? By those hypocrites. Spare me arab culture, we had women flying while they are just letting them drive. Our culture has always been superior
Have you ever read Kitab At-Tawheed by Sheikh Wahhab?
Salafiyyah and ISIS are different things. Ninety percent (if not more) of the people who talk about "Wahhabism" have never actually read any of the books by Sheikh Muhammad ibn Abdul Wahhab.
also I go to a Yemeni masjid and I live in an area with a ton of Yemenis and pretty much all the Yemenis I know are against the Houthis.... the only people I hear supporting the Houthis are people who aren't actually Yemeni
The house of saud was trash long before ISIS. And inshallah wahhab and his Saudi allies are burning in jahanem for their actions. Islam was a shining gem of forward thinking before those animals. Now stop deflecting and trying to move the goal post. What are Wahhabis today? What has their influence caused besides misery? We accepted Islam before these creatures took over now you want to conflate our religion with them?
You’re supporting literal genocide. A blockade that’s caused mass starvation and attacking hospitals for who? Jew loving Saudis?Trending
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