They were bang out of order for doing that.
what does marriage mean to you?
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They were bang out of order for doing that.
Nucleus they need to let live. I wish I could have my cake and eat it too. House chores are a bore. I love children as much as the next person, but I don't want to get my hands dirty. It's a conundrum. The chromosomal tango of meiosis can result in a lifetime of responsibility which may be too much for some, but well worth it for others. To each his own.
Procreation. Other than that prepare for a lifetime of being scrounged off and credit card becoming as dry as the Sahara unless of course you're Tyrese or Tyrone then she won't bother you. The way I see it marriage has lots of responsibilities, once you get married you will be feeding another mouth and possible few more mouths in just 9 months.
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Haajaai..habaryad my advice to u wld b dont waste ur time lookn for a somali gal...u need an caadan chick.
There are Somali women who will tick the boxes 1-4 for me but the children part is where they inform me I'm not marriage material.
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There are Somali women who will tick the boxes 1-4 for me but the children part is where they inform me I'm not marriage material.
ohh..u think u find a somali girl who will not only perform haram sexual prctices but also go halves on household finances...oh lord walali i think us somali sisters r in desperate times
Marriage? Meh!
I want someone to help raise the kids with me, the same someone for the rest of my life to reinforce how marriage should be to my children. Parents are a child's greatest model. If I'm changing sexual partners often then it'll become the norm for my kids. Also, we'd be able to support each other financially/emotionally etc.
One thing is a must before marriage though and that is seeing the girl beforehand with NO makeup. I don't wanna accidentally marry a troll. I'm not being superficial but if I'm gonna be looking at the same face for the rest of my life it's gotta be pleasing on the eye. I've heard stories and I don't wanna be the next
One thing is a must before marriage though and that is seeing the girl beforehand with NO makeup. I don't wanna accidentally marry a troll. I'm not being superficial but if I'm gonna be looking at the same face for the rest of my life it's gotta be pleasing on the eye. I've heard stories and I don't wanna be the next
I want someone to help raise the kids with me, the same someone for the rest of my life to reinforce how marriage should be to my children. Parents are a child's greatest model. If I'm changing sexual partners often then it'll become the norm for my kids. Also, we'd be able to support each other financially/emotionally etc.
One thing is a must before marriage though and that is seeing the girl beforehand with NO makeup. I don't wanna accidentally marry a troll. I'm not being superficial but if I'm gonna be looking at the same face for the rest of my life it's gotta be pleasing on the eye. I've heard stories and I don't wanna be the next
That is a reasonable answer. Btw, not every woman wears makeup regularly. Are you referring to Somali girls?
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Sodomy is haram.Ain't nothin haram bout oral sex
Some of y'all need to brush up on your fiqh
Anyways I don't believe in marriage.
No Somali girls thankfully aren't that bad with makeup, Indian/Paki girls are the ones I've heard stories of, they cake themselves with it constantly, to the point that the husband never sees her natural face. I heard of a few guys who left their wives when they saw them without it.
Sodomy is haram.
Anyways I don't believe in marriage.
He said oral, not anal. Who wouldn't expect oral, especially if she wants me to go down on her
Sodomy is anal and oralNo Somali girls thankfully aren't that bad with makeup, Indian/Paki girls are the ones I've heard stories of, they cake themselves with it constantly, to the point that the husband never sees her natural face. I heard of a few guys who left their wives when they saw them without it.
He said oral, not anal. Who wouldn't expect oral, especially if she wants me to go down on her
Comments here are depressing 
Sodomy is anal and oral
Maybe for you, for me sodomy is anal. I actually didn't know that some consider oral as sodomy until you told me and google confirmed
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Brotha when god makes sumting haram its always for a valid reason, its usually to benefit our physicsl,spiritual and emotional health.
also did u not hear about kirk douglas saying giving oral might have been the cause of his throat cancer. Dont go against nature, everything has its place.
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Marriage represents a opportunity cost for time and money that is lost and could have been spent on something far more useful. Most of you probably disagree, but the numbers agree with me. Divorce and broken households/relationships are rife within the somali community.
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