It means youre a simp
What's your Love Language?
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So, gifts and acts of service? You want to be lavished don't you?
I got Quality time
I don't even like hugging my parents
I get annoyed when people touch me for no reason. I had to a female teacher who would give me shoulder rubs for no reason back when I was 14, shit used to piss me off.
Fucking Macron normalised that crap
You're quite old school. That sounds very off-putting and predatory in behaviour. I haven't hand similar incidents in school but I don't like it when people try to invade my personal space.
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So, gifts and acts of service? You want to be lavished don't you?
You're quite old school. That sounds very off-putting and predatory in behaviour. I haven't hand similar incidents in school but I don't like it when people try to invade my personal space.You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.
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I love the spirit and the pre-emptive steps you are taking. They say the best time to fix a marriage is during the honeymoon phase (so that is the best opportunity). At least, you will know how to better relate to each other and get on their love map. Misunderstandings can bubble up when your languages are distal, and you do not know how to express or relate to being loved. It is like living in different universes.
Exactly sis, a well-thought out compliment for someone who has put in the time to get to know you matters more than the formulaic and soliciting remarks of someone you barely know. I will admit it is makes for a funny story to tell your friends.
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Cancels my Amazon shipment to you of Immune boosting supplements. Sorry, boo, boo. Its not me it’s you.
Kidding. So, you like people doing things for you and physical displays of affection. Duly noted.
I see you are continuing to shame our love tribe. Those of us from Reer Words of Affirmation as our love language need to rise. There are not many of us out there. ☹ And we are deemed snake oils salesman. For cherishing the ‘WORD’ or spoken prose.
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How?
You need someone to tell you you're a good boy
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That's not being simp.. A simp is someone who would do anything for some malab, like guys who claim to be feminist and shit.
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It was a joke akhi, don't take things I say to heart. I don't want to hurt you.
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No hard feelings bro
In 2020, if you're a man that hasn't been called a simp then you might not have a pulse. And I've seen the most rough necked (all bravdo) Abdis act in this manner before.
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In 2020, if you're a man that hasn't been called a simp than you might not have a pulse. And I've seen the most rough necked (all bravdo) Abdis act in this manner before.
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Loool.. This word simp is very much over used on this forum.
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Can sweet talking women be categorized as simping?
Can sweet talking women be categorized as simping?
What we need is a clear definition of SIMP. Even I'm not sure what would qualify. My guess is a man who puts a woman above himself and forgets about himself and his interests. And I don't think anyone on here qualifies. I haven't noticed any inklining of codependent behaviour. That is if that's what a simp is.
Someone that likes to tastefully compliment certain females doesn't seem like a simp.
Is a female that likes banter a qumayo? The answer is an emphatic no to both those questions. Our love tanks just need to be fueled by what we can hear matched with what we see. For a lady there should be some substance to what's said for hollow words sparingly stick in our head.
That's cool. You know I expected a lot of the the primary languages to be acts of service. For some reason physical touch was higher up on people's lists than anticipated.
What was your key take away from the book I'm curious?
I noticed that as well. And the alternative question sometimes didn't seem like the best fit. So, I see physical touch and words of affirmation are your love languages.
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Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
Thank you sis, we should try understand eachother better whether it is family, friend or significant other.
Masha‘allah sis afkaaga caano lagu qabay! Well said, you articulate yourself so well
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I totally concur!!!!
Sis, I wonder if we can change our love languages over time and with experience or do they remain static in our preferences.
I also find it funny how some were knocking words of affirmation when there are different dialects within it.
(1) Kind words - the manner in which we address each other through tone (not merely through words alone). They say you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. The aim should be to seek to understand and forgive.
(2) Encouraging words - being able to empathetically put yourself in another's shoes. Or in
offering words of support for an area of interest that someone might wish to cultivate.
It modify actions but it can embolden one to act.
(3) Humble words - Not attempting to get someone to kowtow through demands or ultimatums but merely gently requesting them to do so.
I recommend the book.
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