Why do men...

[Kay]

Why do men sleep around and expect to marry a virgin?

 

[Mohamud]

No idea. Disgustingly hypocritical behaviour and completely unislamic.

 

[Coulombs law]

Why do men sleep around and expect to marry a virgin?

Ask this guy @TheMadMullah, he is the only one on this forum who is advocating for this disgusting act...

 

[supz]

Why do men sleep around and expect to marry a virgin?

Its the idea that the perfect woman to marry should be chaste, motherly, not unkempt and well cultured with good manners. A W
woman with a "past" is seen as the bottom of the barrel as a potential suitor. Its an archaic concept yet very still alive today.

 

[MadNomad]

Great question, the answer is hypocrisy and entitlement.

 

[Kay]

No idea. Disgustingly hypocritical behaviour and completely unislamic.

Agree with you completely.

 

[Bahal]

We really need a limit on these marriage threads

 

[government]

Why do men sleep around and expect to marry a virgin?

I agree with you only a virgin should marry a virgin

 

[Kay]

Its the idea that the perfect woman to marry should be chaste, motherly, not unkempt and well cultured with good manners. A W
woman with a "past" is seen as the bottom of the barrel as a potential suitor. Its an archaic concept yet very still alive today.

Yeah but shouldn't the guy be the same? You can't expect to have a well-mannered virgin and not be one yourself?

 

[Kay]

I agree with you only a virgin should marry a virgin

Exactly. They're the only really deserving ones.

 

[Striker]

I want to marry a pure perfect virgin women.

A nice mother for my future kids.

 

[supz]

Yeah but shouldn't the guy be the same? You can't expect to have a well-mannered virgin and not be one yourself?

You have to understand that the socioeconomic status of women has only changed recently. Marriage is still a very conservative ceremony, with ties to the idea that women are the property of males within one household which are to be bargained with. Things have changed a lot in the last 50 years... I agree with you completely ,its stupid. you should only insist on a virgin wife if you are one yourself.

 

[Bohol]

No man wants used goods that is why.

 

[Kay]

Ask this guy @TheMadMullah, he is the only one on this forum who is advocating for this disgusting act...

He probably hasn't touched a woman in his life and is creating this false image of himself. Either that or he's just disgusting.

 

[Kay]

You have to understand that the socioeconomic status of women has only changed recently. Things have changed a lot in the last 50 years... I agree with you completely ,its stupid. you should only insist on a virgin wife if you are one yourself.

Exactly. Men these days go on about how they would never marry a girl if she isn't a virgin when they are not one themselves.

 

[Kay]

No man wants used goods that is why.

No woman wants a disease riddled man lol

 

[Striker]

Exactly. Men these days go on about how they would never marry a girl if she isn't a virgin when they are not one themselves.

What if a virgin man wants to marry a virgin women

 

[Ubax45_]

A follow-up question is why many women think they can reform an ciyaal suuq?

 

[Kay]

What if a virgin man wants to marry a virgin women

Then that's fine. They're both equal in that way.

 

[Kay]

A follow-up question is why many women think they can reform an ciyaal suuq?

Good question. I've never tried and don't intend to. Such a waste of time lol