Why is hookup culture normalised?

[seldiboy]

As a first year I was pretty surprised to find out how much a of a fuckdungen university was. Everybody at residence has at least 15+ bodies including who'd you think would be the miskeen Muslim boys & girls. Shit got so bad that there was a chlamydia out break back in October cause of this one cadaan shorty fucking 8 niggas in 1 weekend infecting them all. idk what incels are on lowkey if you wanna get your sherlong wet just make friends with guys in residence any creature that is carbon based is getting nasty in there.

flatcest has serious consequences after shit hits the fan

 

[Danakiil]

incels dont exist as its an internet thing

They don't claim reer incel irl but ive definitely met some guys who fit the category hella well just by their actions. Incels are definitely a real thing

flatcest has serious consequences after shit hits the fan

Hookup culture is like fast food. It feels good for the first few times you indolge in it but after awhile of being addicted to it the shit just ruins you. How can you ever be satisfied with your partner when you know somebody that could f*ck you way better than him/her? The ooga booga caveman brain will go back to looking for the best option subconsciously which eventually leads to cheating.

 

[Hilmaam]

I know it’s a sin but having a girlfriend long term is great. Less risk of std and you don’t end up incel and miss out on best years waiting to be established. Nothing like teens and early 20’s. Definitely think clubs and 1 night stands are disgusting and good way to catch std. but dating girl next door or from school is good . I don’t see way around it like Interest and insurance.I’ve seen to many people resort to escorts and strip clubs because family didn’t help them get married and didn’t allow them to date and become deviant freaks

 

[CalmOne20####]

They don't claim reer incel irl but ive definitely met some guys who fit the category hella well just by their actions. Incels are definitely a real thing

Hookup culture is like fast food. It feels good for the first few times you indolge in it but after awhile of being addicted to it the shit just ruins you. How can you ever be satisfied with your partner when you know somebody that could f*ck you way better than him/her? The ooga booga caveman brain will go back to looking for the best option subconsciously which eventually leads to cheating.

Also apparently its not satisfying for women. And having sex with your partner is way more satisfying.

 

[CalmOne20####]

I know it’s a sin but having a girlfriend long term is great. Less risk of std and you don’t end up incel and miss out on best years waiting to be established. Nothing like teens and early 20’s. Definitely think clubs and 1 night stands are disgusting and good way to catch std. but dating girl next door or from school is good . I don’t see way around it like Interest and insurance

Dating is good because you actually love the person,as opposed to hookup culture.

 

[jemappelle]

Dating is good because you actually love the person,as opposed to hookup culture.

Are you justifying zina now?

 

[Danakiil]

I know it’s a sin but having a girlfriend long term is great. Less risk of std and you don’t end up incel and miss out on best years waiting to be established. Nothing like teens and early 20’s. Definitely think clubs and 1 night stands are disgusting and good way to catch std. but dating girl next door or from school is good . I don’t see way around it like Interest and insurance.I’ve seen to many people resort to escorts and strip clubs because family didn’t help them get married and didn’t allow them to date and become deviant freaks

Facts. Or they become raging sexually frustrated idiots in the internet. Humans are built to settle down at 16 restriciring your kids on having a relationship until 25+ is so damaging

 

[Hilmaam]

Facts. Or they become raging sexually frustrated idiots in the internet. Humans are built to settle down at 16 restriciring your kids on having a relationship until 25+ is so damaging

Exactly better to be realistic and meet who they are talking to and be involved to help them make good decision and try to keep things as halal as possible. Kids need guidance and when they do things in secret good chance no good will come of it

 

[jemappelle]

Facts. Or they become raging sexually frustrated idiots in the internet. Humans are built to settle down at 16 restriciring your kids on having a relationship until 25+ is so damaging

Nah people have been celibate for long periods in the past and they were fine

 

[Qeelbax]

As a first year I was pretty surprised to find out how much a of a fuckdungen university was. Everybody at residence has at least 15+ bodies including who'd you think would be the miskeen Muslim boys & girls. Shit got so bad that there was a chlamydia out break back in October cause of this one cadaan shorty fucking 8 niggas in 1 weekend infecting them all. idk what incels are on lowkey if you wanna get your sherlong wet just make friends with guys in residence any creature that is carbon based is getting nasty in there.

This was me last year, freshmen dorms are no joke. Alhamdulilah this year I'm in a quiet upperclass dorm even though I'm a sophomore

 

[Danakiil]

Nah people have been celibate for long periods in the past and they were fine

Asexuals are an anomaly. Keeping a normal straight person celibate until 25 is cruel. As a community we should incourage early nikkahs to avoid this

 

[Danakiil]

This was me last year, freshmen dorms are no joke. Alhamdulilah this year I'm in a quiet upperclass dorm even though I'm a sophomore

The next pandemic gonna be coming out of one of those freshman dorms

 

[jemappelle]

Asexuals are an anomaly. Keeping a normal straight person celibate until 25 is cruel. As a community we should incourage early nikkahs to avoid this

This is the norm, even in the past alot of men never got married, its not cruel, alot of people in the past volunterily kept celibate, if you read history you will see varying ages of marriage/sex, it isn't damaging to anyone to not have sex

 

[Danakiil]

This is the norm, even in the past alot of men never got married, its not cruel, alot of people in the past volunterily kept celibate, if you read history you will see varying ages of marriage/sex, it isn't damaging to anyone to not have sex

Yes that happened a lot during history like was the agricultural revolution when the ratio of men to women having offspring was 1 man for 18 women. Most men couldn't compete when one king or leader had access to more crops than they ever could. It doesn't change biology tho. The rest of the men either stayed celibate like you said or become khaniis to cope.

Cultural circumstances doesn't overide the biological urge to reproduce. What happened to those men was still very cruel.

 

[Nikka]

Yes that happened a lot during history like was the agricultural revolution when the ratio of men to women having offspring was 1 man for 18 women. Most men couldn't compete when one king or leader had access to more crops than they ever could. It doesn't change biology tho. Cultural circumstances doesn't overide the biological urge to reproduce. The rest of the men either stayed celibate like you said or become khaniis to cope.

The rest of the men f*cking died of diseases like Influenza. War contributed to the death of the male populous as well.

 

[Awad]

As a first year I was pretty surprised to find out how much a of a fuckdungen university was. Everybody at residence has at least 15+ bodies including who'd you think would be the miskeen Muslim boys & girls. Shit got so bad that there was a chlamydia out break back in October cause of this one cadaan shorty fucking 8 niggas in 1 weekend infecting them all. idk what incels are on lowkey if you wanna get your sherlong wet just make friends with guys in residence any creature that is carbon based is getting nasty in there.

This was me last year, freshmen dorms are no joke. Alhamdulilah this year I'm in a quiet upperclass dorm even though I'm a sophomore

Somalis live in undergrad dorms??

 

[Danakiil]

The rest of the men f*cking died of diseases like Influenza. War contributed to the death of the male populous as well.

And hunting food too. Getting packed by apex predators must've dropped the male population a lot as well.

 

[jemappelle]

Yes that happened a lot during history like was the agricultural revolution when the ratio of men to women having offspring was 1 man for 18 women. Most men couldn't compete when one king or leader had access to more crops than they ever could. It doesn't change biology tho. The rest of the men either stayed celibate like you said or become khaniis to cope.

Cultural circumstances doesn't overide the biological urge to reproduce. What happened to those men was still very cruel.

Nah becoming khaniis is an entire different issue, being celibate doesn't make you khaniis, plus it is normal to be celibate, every person in their life will have to abstain from sex for a considerbly long time, our bodies adapt quickly, we live in a hypersexualised society so we feel more starved of sex because we see it so much and it is made out to be the most important thing in life

 

[JaredAbdullahiKushner2000]

Because it is more fun than a relationship

Are you a virgin? From what you are saying I take it you are not. If that is the case then you are nothing less than an used condom on the floor.

 

[jemappelle]

Are you a virgin? From what you are saying I take it you are not. If that is the case then you are nothing less than an used condom on the floor.

Why does what I am matter to this conversation, I am purely making a social commentary.
Also stop assuming I have commit zina