I could tell you are a gabarI’m a womanand woww “it’s” kulaha
interesting choice of words (Jkjk)
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I could tell you are a gabarI’m a womanand woww “it’s” kulaha
interesting choice of words (Jkjk)
You’re not the first one to face these issues nor will you be the last. You must have not hit rock bottom yet. Cause if you did, you wouldn't be doing what you’re doing! What you’re missing more than discipline is grit. The ability to do what needs to be done even when it challenges you. It’s in those moments, you see what you’re made of and grow as a person.
Weird cause then does she want a man as in a husband to teach her how to be disciplined![]()
No it’s not abayo you do youThanks so much for the words I appreciate it and it’s very true, subconsciously I’m aware of this myself that’s why i want to keep going and get this degree but sometimes my mind slips like rn you know
Umm.. a little bitis that a bad thing?
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Yess you got it idk why everyone else just immediately assumed I’m a man smhI could tell you are a gabar![]()
It was pretty obvious tooYess you got it idk why everyone else just immediately assumed I’m a man smh![]()
Thank you Idc what anyone says I don’t think what im saying is weird what’s up with the disconnect these men got, so they always posting this andrew tate bs talking about “the man has to be a leader” and now when I say I want a man who can help discipline me and basically be my leader IMM weird ????No it’s not abayo you do you
r u dhulbahante inaa adeer?Thank you Idc what anyone says I don’t think what im saying is real what’s with the disconnect these men got so they always posting this andrew tate bs talking about “the man has to be a leader” and now when I say I want a man who can help discipline me and basically be my leader IMM weird ???? What’s going on?!? Hellooo talk about cognitive dissonance!
Is that a qabil??? No I’m not I would tell my qabil but idk if anyones gonna get dramatic over it so imma stay quietr u dhulbahante inaa adeer?
Is that a qabil??? No I’m not I would tell my qabil but idk if anyones gonna get dramatic over it so imma stay quiet![]()
Go and literally slap yourself hard. Take a cold shower. Pray whatever prayer you need to and then sit and get started. The time to act is now!!!Thanks so much for the words I appreciate it and it’s very true, subconsciously I’m aware of this myself that’s why i want to keep going and get this degree but sometimes my mind slips like rn you know
Yes, it won’t solve your personal stuff. You need to learn to take care of yourself first. Get your affairs sorted first then learn what a successful marriage requires.Umm.. a little bitis that a bad thing?
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I felt the same for a while walal, I think when we’re older and feel lost and feel like a man will help with our problems. A man unfortunately is just a human being who goes through life as well and has his own set of problems, the right spouse helps benefit and boost your life but it needs to come from the right mindset and a mutual understanding.
My Somali is shit lol I know it’s a woman I though walal was used for both genders like a shorter version of walaloBruv that is a woman
walahi i have the same issue as you, I can daydream for hours at a time, when i stop using electronics my mind just wanders. Brain fog is also really bad too like i can't foucus or pay attention, to this day I have horrible study habits.They were okay last sem, speaking of this semester I just finished midterms.. and it was really bad… (worst part is apparently I have to study extra hard because surprise surprise majority of the class failed for one specific course...) so I literally need triple the amount of discipline I have rn to do wellgod why did I put myself in this situation it’s whatever though in the long run it’s good for me
Luckily they weren’t worth much and I have time to improve. Speaking of my distractions I’d say social media is just the surface of my problems, even when I leave my phone at home (lol I do that sometimes) I literally procrastinate by daydreaming (I have a very very active imagination the daydreams can feel so real…….. I’m not schizo though promise), journaling etc etc
I don’t even have many assignments right now either and I’m still feeling this way smh. I feel like a lot of what’s bothering me has to do with certain factors in my environment I have to work on fixing instead of distracting myself from (oversleeping, social media/the daydreaming thing…)
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