I don't like this tiktok user's commentary on the incident. why would it be expected that random men will help a random woman? a woman can/should expect protection from... a husband, father, brother.... but irrespective of how things may work in some ideal fairy tale world... it would be crazy for a woman to expect that random men are going to help her... they might or might not...
if women want a lifestyle that doesn't involve being married.... I don't think they can also expect having a man to protect them... I'm not saying that's the case here, I don't know if she was a spinster- but I believe we will have many cases in the future where we will see spinsters in dangerous and vulnerable positions due to not having a husband... a woman 50-something... alone, no husband, kids... things could happen
the whole concept of men protecting women is patriarchal and traditionalist. if you eliminate patriarchy and traditionalism, that goes as well.
I can't wrap my head around any of that rather callous reasoning; a human being (man or woman) shouldn't be left to die, especially under such easily preventable circumstances
I don't like this tiktok user's commentary on the incident. why would it be expected that random men will help a random woman? a woman can/should expect protection from... a husband, father, brother.... but irrespective of how things may work in some ideal fairy tale world... it would be crazy for a woman to expect that random men are going to help her... they might or might not...
if women want a lifestyle that doesn't involve being married.... I don't think they can also expect having a man to protect them... I'm not saying that's the case here, I don't know if she was a spinster- but I believe we will have many cases in the future where we will see spinsters in dangerous and vulnerable positions due to not having a husband... a woman 50-something... alone, no husband, kids... things could happen
the whole concept of men protecting women is patriarchal and traditionalist. if you eliminate patriarchy and traditionalism, that goes as well.
Rather callous reasoning. You're giving a callous strawman. None of what I said meant that she should be left. I was responding to the commentary of the tiktok user. I don't know if you listened to what I was responding to.
I was saying that realistically-speaking, women should not expect unknown unrelated men to help them. I am not talking about what's moral or what's immoral, I am talking about practicality and realism.
Are you not arguing that human beings (women in this case) shouldn't expect help from "random men"?
Why shouldn't they expect help from other human beings in times of need?
because we don't live in a disney film. none of us man or woman should just expect that random strangers are benevolent people who are going to help us.
We're not talking about extending some sort of blanket assistance (in all circumstances) to unrelated women; we are referencing an instance in which a human being could have easily prevented the death of another
We also don't live in a perfectly Islamic society in which all women (regardless of religion) dress modestly, but you still hold the expectation that Muslim sisters who reside in irreligious Western nations should be held to Islamic ideals of dressing, despite how unrealistic it is for all of us to not be influenced by sexually appealing fashion trends popularised by the likes of Rihanna and Bella Hadid.because we don't live in a disney film. none of us man or woman should just expect that random strangers are benevolent people who are going to help us.
It should absolutely be expected particularly when it doesn’t cost anything to help and there is no risk. We aren’t animals, regardless of patriarchy or not it’s a human thing.because we don't live in a disney film. none of us man or woman should just expect that random strangers are benevolent people who are going to help us.
I can also understand the other side too where the modern west looks at patriarchy and traditionalism as an outdated thing then go on to expect men to do patriarchal and traditional things.
I don’t think she meant men as in the patriarchs but it’s more there were just men around. I’m assuming if there were only women she would’ve said women and if it was a mix of the genders she would have said peoplethat's the thing that drives me crazy about that tiktok user's commentary- we don't live in a traditionalist society and I don't think she's a traditionalist tiktoker but she's expecting the men to act like traditionalists.
We also don't live in a perfectly Islamic society in which all women (regardless of religion) dress modestly, but you still hold the expectation that Muslim sisters who reside in irreligious Western nations should be held to Islamic ideals of dressing, despite how unrealistic it is for all of us to not be influenced by sexually appealing fashion trends popularised by the likes of Rihanna and Bella Hadid.
By that flimsy logic of "we don't live in a utopia", we shouldn't bother with sticking to our ideals (personal or religiously formed) because they'll be rendered impractical at the end of the day.
I don’t think she meant men as in the patriarchs but it’s more there were just men around. I’m assuming if there were only women she would’ve said women and if it was a mix of the genders she would have said people