I am fed up with the lies that looks don't matter to women. Let's do a poll here, without a poll (because you know men will also vote). Do you need to be physically attractive to a man, or do you find other things attractive.
"Women are not visual creatures"- ladies soo gala
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If he's not at minimum a 7/10 looks wise then it's a pass for me. I can't fake a marriage with an ugly nigga, even if he's rich. I'm a realist.
Also he ain't getting me in bed. Will not be aroused by an ugly nigga, which will make it feel like I have fircooni FGM.
Also he ain't getting me in bed. Will not be aroused by an ugly nigga, which will make it feel like I have fircooni FGM.
loool this is so xaasid. I get it thoIf he's not at minimum a 7/10 looks wise then it's a pass for me. I can't fake a marriage with an ugly nigga, even if he's rich. I'm a realist.
Also he ain't getting me in bed. Will not be aroused by an ugly nigga, which will make it feel like I have fircooni FGM.
This is what I believe a lot of women do, settle for character and security, but deep down, would love an attractive husband. May Allah give you a husband that pleases your eyes and meets your needs.
If he's not at minimum a 7/10 looks wise then it's a pass for me. I can't fake a marriage with an ugly nigga, even if he's rich. I'm a realist.
Also he ain't getting me in bed. Will not be aroused by an ugly nigga, which will make it feel like I have fircooni FGM.
7 is just above average, sis, you're not even being unrealistic.
The annoying thing is that men don't need that much to be average looking, all they need to do is groom, work out, smell good etc, etc. Imagine if society forced men to be presentable the same way they do to women.
Looks matter to women but I think there is so much more that goes into being attractive as a man. For example, a lot of khaniis guys are " good looking" ( this is random, i apologize) but from the gait/posture and finally the way they speak all attraction disappears, they become like women to us.
I just realized i am trying to describe masculinity
i've gotten used to writing paragraphs on this darn site - hadal for hadals sake
I just realized i am trying to describe masculinity
i've gotten used to writing paragraphs on this darn site - hadal for hadals sake
if you do this and are sociable, you are probably set.
Women are sadly not less superficial, it's just that the options are fewer so most women settle.
Looks matter to women but I think there is so much more that goes into being attractive as a man. For example, a lot of khaniis guys are " good looking" ( this is random, i apologize) but from the gait/posture and finally the way they speak all attraction disappears, they become like women to us.
I just realized i am trying to describe masculinity
i've gotten used to writing paragraphs on this darn site - hadal for hadals sake
Facts, facts, facts! I like your writing, don't turn into those one word, one sentence people.The way someone talks, walks, looks at you, the way they pay attention. There is so much to attraction and it can be taught/learned, so there is hope for everyone.
It's not a bad thing to be attracted or not attracted to someone, there is so much that goes into attraction. Have you all heard of pheromones, I'm sure you have.
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wallahi it is a lie to say visuals doesn't matter to women. I'll tell you guys a little secret. When I was in middle school and elementary my crushes would change so frequently. I mean weekly or monthly. They never lasted for more than 2 months. I would obtain crushes depending on looks cuz I was too young to know financial security or character mattered. I've never told this to anyone cuz I was so embarrassed.
I mean some of my friends who would have a stable crush and mine would be changing depending on what better looking guy appeared in our class or school. Subhanallah, wallahi I thought I was abnormal. 
. so when the men on here talk about how they found an entire woman attractive even tho they are taken, I can understand them a bit (as long they don't act upon it). I do have quite a wondering eye myself, but doesn't mean I'll actually act upon it.
I mean some of my friends who would have a stable crush and mine would be changing depending on what better looking guy appeared in our class or school. Subhanallah, wallahi I thought I was abnormal. . so when the men on here talk about how they found an entire woman attractive even tho they are taken, I can understand them a bit (as long they don't act upon it). I do have quite a wondering eye myself, but doesn't mean I'll actually act upon it.
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wallahi that's true. what was is atrocious is that they have the audacity to complain about the simple standards put on them. They'd never f***ing survive under the pressure put on women.
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When men say its so hard to be loyal. I hear them. Wallahi, If I wasn't a practicing Muslim woman and feared allah, I'd definitely be a cheater.wallahi it is a lie to say visuals doesn't matter to women. I'll tell you guys a little secret. When I was in middle school and elementary my crushes would change so frequently. I mean weekly or monthly. They never lasted for more than 2 months. I would obtain crushes depending on looks cuz I was too young to know financial security or character mattered. I've never told this to anyone cuz I was so embarrassed.
. I swear I'm a person who doesn't have control. But allah and hellfire lights a fear in my heart that It makes me walk a straight line. visuals of a man for a woman is important! I mean look at me, sometimes i get weak in the knees
You best believe I'm gonna be a h** when I'm in jannah
Amber
A blessed human
no, they don't have to be attractive. They could be the hottest person in the world but have no heart. but they have to be at least a 7-8 (sorry faraxs, I have standards too)
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