Picky in my opinion is judging a man for his shoes or something. What say you ladies, what is 'picky' in your opinion.
"Women are not visual creatures"- ladies soo gala
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As visual? Idk.. Women desire good looks, true, but it's not as important.
I've heard of women falling in love after being around an average looking man long enough and getting to know him.
Yaraye
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They settled cuz they like his personality, all women desire a good looking man
Amber
A blessed human
...that's just what ladies do sometimes. Date them/marry them because they feel bad for them.
Yaraye
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I used to have this complex, even have a little bit today. Cuz I thought maybe an ugly guy may treat a woman better. However, from what I hear from the women that dated both good looking guys, and ugly guys they treat women the same. the good looking one is conceded cuz they know they are good looking. The ugly one is conceded cuz he pull a woman above his caliber and think he is something all of a sudden/ tries to pull another. I've learned not to pity men, cuz they don't pity us.
Yaraye
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wallahi I don't think my marriage can survive If I ain't satisfied. I got urges that I'm tightly controlling. I can't imagine discipling myself the whole time and he can't make me finish. I would be so damn disappointed. If he ain't good, he better be willing to learn. Same for me, If I ain't good, you best believe I plan on becoming a fast learner. If he doesn't have the same energy for my pleasure, that I have for his. I'm out.historically no one really cared about female pleasure during sex - for example fgm. Having a child basically is dependant on a man enjoying himself. that is why r$ped woman can get pregnant. Sadly this is the cards we have been dealt with.
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They don't want to hear the truth
That's why few men are eating good in the dating field, they figured out what the basics are to be physically appealing. The others lie to themselves everyday.
Translation: I lack an actually thought-out response, so let me resort to backhanded insults.
Yaraye
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where is the insult?
Lol, or, the truth may be, looks ain't everything to women. Are they important? Sure, of course, it's only natural, but it's not everything for women (and men, too).
Example: an average looking dude, a 5 out of 10, but is funny, loyal, charismatic, charming, patient, a good communicator, can provide, and is physically strong (lifts weights, etc), will be able to get a lot of women if he wanted to (in a halal way, of course).
He thinks he's a woman clearly, in here trying to tell women what women think. I can't stand these types of weirdos. They actually think they are experts on our gender.
Hey sis! Why don't you put on some henna and a dirac and sit with us, since you think you're an expert on women.
Ah yes, very original, resorting to insults when you lack an actually intellectual or logical response.
Amber
A blessed human
maybe you should leave if you're not satisfied with the truth
maybe you should leave if you're not satisfied with the truth
He's trying to mansplain our own nature to us. The audacity.
maybe you should leave if you're not satisfied with the truth
How is it the truth when women aren't all the same? You guys can speak for yourself but not all women, because I've seen enough to know you guys aren't describing all womens or even a majority.
Women aren't a monolith though. Some are actually different, despite sharing some things in common, such as being overly emotional, etc.
Oromo boy.
Emotions also include jealousy, anger etc. Guess which gender has a higher rate of harming someone because they can't control their 'emotions'?
