Women feel jealousy too

[TekNiKo]

Polygamy is necessary because women out number men, if men were only able to marry one many women will be miserable and lonely.

Plus theres many women who only go for married men because they feel he is already has a proven track record in family rearing.

 

[Kool-Aid]

Polygamy is necessary because women out number men, if men were only able to marry one many women will be miserable and lonely.

Plus theres many women who only go for married men because they feel he is already has a proven track record in family rearing.

Actually, there are slightly more males birth than females.

"Like most sexual species, the sex ratio in humans is close to 1:1. In humans, the natural ratio between males and females at birth is slightly biased towards the male sex, being estimated to be about 1.05 or 1.06 or within a narrow range from 1.03 to 1.06 males/per female born"

 

[jabsveg276]

We have polygamy as permissible in Islam because back then, men were dying from war and their were lots of widows. They needed husbands to financially take care of them and protect them.

You can still have a polygamous marriage if everyone consents.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

You would deny Abu O shaunagsay his god given right to marry another xalimo?

He would never do that to me

 

[Periplus]

We have polygamy as permissible in Islam because back then, men were dying from war and their were lots of widows. They needed husbands to financially take care of them and protect them.

You can still have a polygamous marriage if everyone consents.

I see this reasoning given a lot.

Islam did not so much as permit men to have four wives as it limited men to four wives. Nearly every other religion does not have a limit on polygamy.

The idea that Islam is a religion that advocates polygamy is wrong, it tolerates polygamy with a very strict rule set.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

I'm one of the good ones eh? Lololol

Yes

 

[jabsveg276]

I see this reasoning given a lot.

Islam did not so much as permit men to have four wives as it limited men to four wives. Nearly every other religion does not have a limit on polygamy.

The idea that Islam is a religion that advocates polygamy is wrong, it tolerates polygamy with a very strict rule set.

This right here.

 

[jabsveg276]

I only want 1 wife that can produce 8+ children anyways so...

 

[Kool-Aid]

We have polygamy as permissible in Islam because back then, men were dying from war and their were lots of widows. They needed husbands to financially take care of them and protect them.

You can still have a polygamous marriage if everyone consents.

Polygamy only got banned due to Christianity which enforces monogamy. Now that Christianity is dying in the west you are seeing a rise in people openly having multiple sex partners. Note that people were still cheating when monogamy was strictly enforced in Christian countries.

 

[pirater]

polygamy is bad for a society

 

[jabsveg276]

polygamy is bad for a society

How?

 

[Sophisticate]

Ignore those that think they have options and marry someone with an incurable case of oneitis.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Ignore those that think they have options and marry someone with an incurable case of oneitis.

I’m counting on it

 

[pirater]

How?

lack of time spent with children and wives. wives only for pleasure. scarcity of women. rifts between family. wife hates other wife. children hate other children. leaves men without spouses and women with even more resentment.

personally too lazy to have 2 or more wives. too much buuq

 

[jabsveg276]

lack of time spent with children and wives. wives only for pleasure. scarcity of women. rifts between family. wife hates other wife. children hate other children. leaves men without spouses and women with even more resentment.

personally too lazy to have 2 or more wives. too much buuq

As if your average faraax spends time with their children. Most marriages end in divorce in America and the mother gets the children.

 

[pirater]

As if your average faraax spends time with their children. Most marriages end in divorce in America and the mother gets the children.

yea cool. but you can't equally spend time with 4 families. one family will spend more time with the father

also what does divorce have to do with what I said

 

[jabsveg276]

yea cool. but you can't equally spend time with 4 families. one family will spend more time with the father

also what does divorce have to do with what I said

3 months per family per year.

Divorce has a lot to do with it, fathers don't get custody so they don't see their kids regardless if you marry 1 wife or 4.

 

[Periplus]

As if your average faraax spends time with their children. Most marriages end in divorce in America and the mother gets the children.

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Why do men go about things as if women don’t also get jealous and possessive, just as they do. Like a man can be married and wanting to find a second wife, he’s talking and flirting with a woman behind his wife’s back. Or he brings up having more wives to his wife and expects her to just accept it with no animosity. It makes no sense.

Just as men get jealous and mad if another man is chatting or moving to their wife or whatever, we feel exactly the same. Jealousy is a very human emotion, and I’m sick of niggas acting like women don’t feel it just as much as they do. If your husband brings up wanting to marry another woman, the wife will obviously feel incompetent and there will be anger issues between the women AND the husband. Destroying normal family structures over horniness lol how sad.

Polygamy isn’t a big deal. If you don’t want your man to marry others besides you maybe you should put that in the marriage contract so he can agree to it. Polygamy has strict rules and regulations that need to be followed and I doubt your average man has the ability to deal with a second wife, so this isn’t a big issue.

When you look at the bigger picture though, polygamy is good for us long term. The more wives a man has, the better it is since he can impregnate 4 of his wives and the number of Muslims will increase faster. The more our numbers increase (especially in the West), the better.