Lol, you’re talking like a guy who is absolutely clueless about women’s bodies. Women simply don’t loose weight as easily as men especially when there is back to back pregnancies and with many women having hormonal issues and cortisol levels.
Duh, pregnancy is a whole other level, would never chastise my wife over something like that, that's ridiculous.
But over a year and still keeping the baby fat? Nah, somethings up, I'm not on-board on that one walaal.