You modern Muslim males are infected with p0rn sickness and insecurities. It's very sad and disturbed. Even the way you speak, is directly from a p0rno. Ilaahay ha idin caafiyo.
There are only 3 reasons why men care about this;
1. You believe sex is defilement of a woman, or some type of invasion. The language used is crude p0rn lingo; pounded, beat, etc.
2. You think you can't compare to her previous partner.
3. If a man is virginal himself, maybe he wants to experience it together for the first time. But I think that's a minority of men tbh.
Go copy your Prophet SAW, and learn from his life, and cleanse yourselves.
A virginal man, ok, I get it, maybe they want to experience it together for the first time. But there are men out here, in large numbers who are not virginal, who are obsessed with women's sexual histories. I am convinced they have insecurities about their genitals, size, performance, stamina, or something similar. Or some mental sickness where they think sex is defilement of a woman. (p0rn brainwashing).
The Prophet SAW's first wife, was twice widowed before him. And he was a virgin. I know older Somali men, whose first wives, were also married before them. This new-age obsession with women's sex lives, is truly influenced by the p0rn industry's bastardisation of physical intimacy.
Can you please be careful and not say things like βmodern Muslim malesβ and rather just refer to
@Internet Nomad even then youβre accusing him of something grave which you donβt know and this is scary for you if you care for your Akhirah.
By implicating other male Muslims you make conflations of one persons bad character (which you havenβt proven) with a lot of innocent men, itβd be like me saying βyou modern Muslim women are infected with attention seeking and showing yourself off in social mediaβ it gives of the same tabarruj tweet accusations Iβve seen on the internet, when thereβs clearly a world of difference between the Muslim women who cover themselves from those who show themselves off.
In the end of the day all Iβm saying is be careful with your rhetoric, our tongues are one of the main ways we could fall into Jahannam, so everyone should be careful with their tongues.
Also i donβt think it makes sense to compare Khadijah (ra) to women whoβs had βpastsβ thereβs no comparison at all, Khadijah had married twice before in stable relationships where she eventually ended up widowed, itβs nothing like the kinds of relationships we see today. But thatβs only if
@Internet Nomad means what I think he means when talking about the idea of someone having a βpastβ (haram relationships) but if he includes all relationships including marriages then ignore what I said.
Iβm sure a lot of Virginal Muslim men would happily get married to a women who had two stable previous marriages, itβs not the same thing as the modern idea of a βpastβ.
It couldβve been so much better if you just told
@Internet Nomad that bringing up a persons past whether exposed or not is a big no no, simple end of story.
I gotta marry her asap.
. Putting y'all on game.
