Any help on controlling anger?

[KingSomali999]

Prob a fake story.

 

[قوة الشرطة الصومالية]

Today me and my brother got into a fight because he took my car without asking. When I get mad I turn crazy and violent, and I ended up twisting his arm and giving him a black eye and ripping some of his hair out. I also see red, which is new and I never really seen before. I feel like when I get mad it’s because when I was younger, I was often ignored and only had myself to depend on and had to take care of my younger siblings like I was their mom and never really had a childhood. Anyone have any advice? I do see a therapist but recently I notice that I become more hot headed over anything in the past.

My brother is fine but he now has a cast on his arm. I told him I was sorry but sorry doesn’t fix anything. It’s like I have a alter ego when I get mad. I also read the Quran and prayed because I feel so guilty and wlh I cried.

You need a true camel herdsman from deep in the bush to knock you out when you act up. These guys don’t joke around and have a very high endurance. It’s the reason why they are recruited by Muslim rebel groups in the South.

 

[Basra]

Today me and my brother got into a fight because he took my car without asking. When I get mad I turn crazy and violent, and I ended up twisting his arm and giving him a black eye and ripping some of his hair out. I also see red, which is new and I never really seen before. I feel like when I get mad it’s because when I was younger, I was often ignored and only had myself to depend on and had to take care of my younger siblings like I was their mom and never really had a childhood. Anyone have any advice? I do see a therapist but recently I notice that I become more hot headed over anything in the past.

My brother is fine but he now has a cast on his arm. I told him I was sorry but sorry doesn’t fix anything. It’s like I have a alter ego when I get mad. I also read the Quran and prayed because I feel so guilty and wlh I cried.

And u also u like the actor Timothy. I can't personally explain that. Tim can't make love to u to if u can beat him up huuno. Get hold of yourself nayaa. disgusting

 

[XalimosVeryOwn]

Your brother committed theft, if anyone needs to call the police it’s you. You’re the victim here, and there’s nothing wrong with standing up for yourself. If he does it again try to beat him without breaking any bones.

Yes he didtake my car but I shouldve like slappedhim instead of breaking his bones and ripping out his hair

 

[Basra]

Yes he didtake my car but I shouldve like slappedhim instead of breaking his bones and ripping out his hair

right now i am looking at Chalamet to calm myself. u r disgusting

 

[cawaale]

These comments why is everyone so harsh on her

 

[HiraanBorn]

Of course, you went too far you broke your brother's arm. I suggest you go to anger management, it has kinda worked for my older brother these past couple of years.

And continue praying sister, don't despair. Anger comes from the accursed Shaytaan and it can be controlled through dhikr and salaah. Peace be upon you sister.

 

[Basra]

These comments why is everyone so harsh on her

I am teasing her. She is a sweet tom boy who has blood in her vein. I will trust her more than anyone in this site to go to war of jihaad with me. Provided she does not ask for a lesbian action.

 

[Caaro]

Did you seriously get so angry to the point that you attacked him and injured him JUST because he drove your car without asking you?

That’s beyond anger issues, you’re either lying or you need to be put in a mental asylum.

I’m not even kidding. If you break it down you realize how crazy this is.

People rarely get angry immediately, it usually gets built up. Only time they get angry immediately is if it’s something really bad. So the fact you went crazy over that is bad enough. But it even caused you to attack him?

I can’t imagine what it would take to be THAT mad just because your own brother borrowed your car. It’s not like he even crashed it.

 

[XalimosVeryOwn]

Prob a fake story.

Why would I lie? I simply am asking people for advice and what to do about this sotuation

View attachment 176910 right now i am looking at Chalamet to calm myself. u r disgusting

Basra??? And lol I’m sorry

 

[XalimosVeryOwn]

Did you seriously get so angry to the point that you attacked him and injured him JUST because he drove your car without asking you?

That’s beyond anger issues, you’re either lying or you need to be put in a mental asylum.

I’m not even kidding. If you break it down you realize how crazy this is.

People rarely get angry immediately, it usually gets built up. Only time they get angry immediately is if it’s something really bad. So the fact you went crazy over that is bad enough. But it even caused you to attack him?

I can’t imagine what it would take to be THAT mad just because your own brother borrowed your car. It’s not like he even crashed it.

I understand your input and wallahi it’s true. I got mad because hegot mycar dirty and I was also going to do some errands and he took it out of anywhere. That however does not excuse my aggression and I went too far with it

 

[XalimosVeryOwn]

I am teasing her. She is a sweet tom boy who has blood in her vein. I will trust her more than anyone in this site to go to war of jihaad with me. Provided she does not ask for a lesbian action. View attachment 176911

Woah not Basra commenting but I’m not really a Tom boy it’s just I am strong because I had to raise my siblings likethey where my self and I’m straight so I wouldn’t ask forthat

 

[XalimosVeryOwn]

These comments why is everyone so harsh on her

I deserve it, I went too far but I just need to ask for help and after these comments I’m going to take some anger managementclasses because therapy isn’t working

Of course, you went too far you broke your brother's arm. I suggest you go to anger management, it has kinda worked for my older brother these past couple of years.

And continue praying sister, don't despair. Anger comes from the accursed Shaytaan and it can be controlled through dhikr and salaah. Peace be upon you sister.

thank you sis and I will take upon that starting Monday and I will currently I feel much better because I prayed to Allah that I caused many pain but ia hopefully my sins will be removed and swt will bless my brother jannatul firdous

 

[AbdiS]

Wlh how tf did you put your brother in a cast?

what are Xalimos nowadays, protein bars?

 

[Happy_]

Sis, this type of anger where you get psychical is very very dangerous, you HAVE to take some anger management classes and go to therapy. Also read lots of Qur’an and make du’a for healing. You’re in emotional pain and went through some trauma. May Allah heal you and protect you from anger and rage. Ameen

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

I’m sick of xalimos giving verbal online

I like when they get physical

 

[XalimosVeryOwn]

Wlh how tf did you put your brother in a cast?

what are Xalimos nowadays, protein bars?

I was angry and wasn’t thinking and I don’t eat protein bars

 

[XalimosVeryOwn]

Sis, this type of anger where you get psychical is very very dangerous, you HAVE to take some anger management classes and go to therapy. Also read lots of Qur’an and make du’a for healing. You’re in emotional pain and went through some trauma. May Allah heal you and protect you from anger and rage. Ameen

Thank you I enrolled myself into that class starting Monday and I will listen to qurannright now I’m listening to ayal tul Kursk and probably will visit a sheikh for quran saar

 

[Happy_]

Thank you I enrolled myself into that class starting Monday and I will listen to qurannright now I’m listening to ayal tul Kursk and probably will visit a sheikh for quran saar

Masha‘allah, read and listen to surah al baqarah, it brings barakah to your home. And make lots of istighfar. I wish you success. ❤ Make sure you go to a sheikh who does ruqya according to the qur‘an and sunnah. Meaning only proper Qur’an (no random words that he keeps repeating) and du’a from the sunnah of the Prophet ‎ﷺ, no touching and no hitting. If he asks you about your mom‘s name... run! And pls go with your mahram.

 

[King Khufu]

When I be MAD. I given out RAW anger.