At what age do single halimos get more desperate? (poll)

[madamelioness]

She wants to be a "mum" and a "wife" ASAP that is why.

Are you two compatible? Rushing into marriage is never a good thing. It seems like she's just one of many options to you, but iyadane diyaarad ee ku so raaceeysa.


Meeshee joogta nin la'aan ma ka jirto? I'm truly shocked. Nin diyaarad loo raacayo.

 

[Bohol]

@Reiko What are the benefits of marrying a older woman? Technically they are less fertile than younger women.
There is no benefit there.

 

[HuunoHunter]

@Reiko What are the benefits of marrying a older woman? Technically they are less fertile than younger women.
There is no benefit there.

Experience?

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

@Reiko What are the benefits of marrying a older woman? Technically they are less fertile than younger women.
There is no benefit there.

Everything about marriage shouldn't be about kids. You want a friendship in the marriage, a companion, a ride or die. If you can find that in an older woman then you will be the luckiest man alive, Ofcourse 30 year olds can have kids also. Don't play yourself duke.

 

[HuunoHunter]

Everything about marriage shouldn't be about kids. You want a friendship in the marriage, a companion, a ride or die. If you can find that in an older woman then you will be the luckiest man alive, Ofcourse 30 year olds can have kids also. Don't play yourself duke.

How old are you huuno? I will send you my mehr if you're ready to take up third wife position?

 

[Bohol]

Are you two compatible? Rushing into marriage is never a good thing. It seems like she's just one of many options to you, but iyadane diyaarad ee ku so raaceeysa.


Meeshee joogta nin la'aan ma ka jirto? I'm truly shocked. Nin diyaarad loo raacayo.

Let her rush my way. I need to feed well inabti. I got a appetite the size of Australia that needs to be satisfied.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

How old are you huuno? I will send you my mehr if you're ready to take up third wife position?

Just turned 36 years old. I am an old fashioned xalimo, a younger lad already gave my family 130 camels, 200 goats and 60 cows.

 

[madamelioness]

Inabti, you will have daughters one day. Ha ku ciyaarin gabadhaha.

Taas iska dhaaf aan ku dhihi lahaa...she seems like inee desperate tahay (even though she's only 25) cajiib wallahi.

 

[HuunoHunter]

Just turned 36 years old. I am an old fashioned xalimo, a younger lad already gave my family 130 camels, 200 goats and 60 cows.

So you're not on the market? Well I guess I can always find an experienced Xalimo.

 

[Mckenzie]

Most girls want to marry but don't know how to approach it. They are afraid of tripping over stones so they just sidetrack all potential until they "think" they're ready which in reality it never comes.

It's best to play the field throughout your 20s, go on a few dates, meet people, have your heart broken a few times, dadka kala baro. "I'm focused on my career" is a bad excuse, your career will be with you until you reach old age anyway. I'd go as far as saying a bad marriage is better than being single because you need to get out the comfort zone of being alone. It is a life changing venture and i havent seen anyone who regrets it. If course this doesn't apply if you don't want it alltogether.

 

[Bohol]

Everything about marriage shouldn't be about kids. You want a friendship in the marriage, a companion, a ride or die. If you can find that in an older woman then you will be the luckiest man alive, Ofcourse 30 year olds can have kids also. Don't play yourself duke.

One negativity though is older women are more hard headed. You can't teach them new tricks. No Somali man wants that
hassle of endless arguments. We want someone to call us "yes habiibi" what can I do for you.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

So you're not on the market? Well I guess I can always find an experienced Xalimo.

Balayo kugu aasto, what makes you think older xalimos are experienced? In what way though?

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

One negativity though is older women are more hard headed. You can't teach them new tricks. No Somali man wants that
hassle of endless arguments. We want someone to call us "yes habiibi" what can I do for you.

You think 19 year olds will do that? You're in a rude awakening if you're expecting that.

 

[Mercury]

One negativity though is older women are more hard headed. You can't teach them new tricks. No Somali man wants that
hassle of endless arguments. We want someone to call us "yes habiibi" what can I do for you.

Like that habashi maid

 

[Bohol]

Inabti, you will have daughters one day. Ha ku ciyaarin gabadhaha.

Taas iska dhaaf aan ku dhihi lahaa...she seems like inee desperate tahay (even though she's only 25) cajiib wallahi.

If I say no it will break her heart even more. But yes desperate girls are odd, they are too needy.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Like that habashi maid

The maid was securing her monthly payment.

 

[madamelioness]

You think 19 year olds will do that? You're in a rude awakening if you're expecting that.

Kastuumadooda xataa ma dhaqi karaan. Cunto karis iyo kolkoliis iskaba daa.

 

[HuunoHunter]

Balayo kugu aasto, what makes you think older xalimos are experienced? In what way though?

Wow. you're one feisty woman. Now that's what I like!

 

[Bohol]

You think 19 year olds will do that? You're in a rude awakening if you're expecting that.

backhome yes but in the west they are more harded than the older ones.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Kastuumadooda xataa ma dhaqi karaan. Cunto karis iyo kolkoliis iskaba daa.