VixR
Veritas
You seem to have reading comprehension issues. Let me break it down in simpler terms for your nomadic mind to understand:
There are two archetypes overrepresented on the cesspit known as the alley on the world wide web.
1. The bitter, obese banshee with 5 kids from 5 different baby daddies and is bitter with the way how these particular black men have treated her. This specimen typically writes walls of text on how black men "ain't shit" and has a profile on POF waiting and believing with all her heart that her white knight in shining armor will rescue her and her bastards and ride off into the sunset, despite waiting since 2009 and 2 kids earlier.
2. The young, typically dark skin black girl with deep psychological and self esteem issues. She has been largely rejected and ignored by young black men her age and seeks to blame them for her shortcomings and insecurities. She needs to learn to take responsibility for herself and that black men don't owe her any love, for she statistically won't find any love from whites.
You're projecting your own beliefs and values onto black women, despite every statistic and study on dating categorically disagreeing with you. You may love and adore the white man, and that is your choice, but don't project yourself onto black women for that admiration is not shared. Black women are loyal to black men, sadly sometimes to their detriment.
I will note the very few times you will see black women marrying white men, it is usually professionally successful and established men unlike with Faradheer women who only can seem to get the losers and rejects among them.
Black American women are as open as their options. When they're successful, especially if also attractive, they move away from that paradigm you described and gladly shift their gazes to White men, Asian men, Hispanic men, etc. The White men are attracted to the best of them, and the rest stay single, unable to find a suitable Black man after having pulled themselves out of that abyss most of their men still reside in. The educated Black man, on the other hand, dates out almost exclusively and is more successful at it, tho without the benefit of longevity. Whilst, the Black woman is as open as her options, with the upside of longevity.