Hadi nagaha la dulmiyay xaq ma aha inad dulmi kale ku kacdid
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Hadi nagaha la dulmiyay xaq ma aha inad dulmi kale ku kacdid
It's ok to help your wife cook, clean, groceries, etc. But that's if she is working like you do, but if she sitting there all day with her fat futo and it only getting fatter by the year while she on the phone and watsapp and facebook live talking about how someone else has fatter futo then her, it aint fair you come home and do her job for her. I mean be real!!! that fat ass better clean the house, cook, and do everything daily. If she is sick or pregnant fair enough but that's it stop the naagnimo(feminist)
I taught her some Recipes she wanted to learn...
Oh ok I thought u were subjectated to feminism which is just a woman power movement to inflict the same injustice they suffered under men!!!
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Nabiga ku sali SAW..ii dhagayso..I keep trying to log out but waad igu kic kicinaysa..shidh!...staying at home with kids is already a full time job..if Mercury wants to do all those sweet things for his wife..maxaad ka waali..dhiigi ba nagu kicisay
Kids don't need 8 hours or 10 hours of your day ok. Stop thos lies. Most sleep while infant stage and at toddler stage they still sleep for a few hours. All they do is change nappies nothing else and teach how to walk and talk which is over long years.
That's why all you see is them on facebook live and whatsapp talking about how some other lady they saw at a wedding who had a fatter futo then her mighty ass. I hope you don't get angry but you know it's truth.
This is wrong. She should be teaching you.
I am pretty sure you don't want your future son to cook for his wife all the time. You woud get a dhiigkar if you saw him in an apron
You were doing so well...
I won't ever cook for my future wife and my mum already told me if that aint working, don't even pick up your socks and when u finish eating just pile it up in the kitchen. It's only different if they are sick or pregnant(later stages), or work just like you do then you need to help out or else they will burn out and it will start to effect your whole family and kids in the end and it could've of been prevented if you just did a little bit of your fair share to take the load off her. But if she sitting there with no job and raising kids and spending her day on facebook and whatsapp about which ass got fatter from last time, hell nawwwwwwwwwwwwwww yay nacas mooday,
If you give women, specially somali women, a finger they'll grab your entire arm. They're quick to confuse kindness for weakness
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You're trying to give me a stroke..waa ino baritoole insh Allah...
Better yet, hide the fact that you can cook well. That way she won't manipulate you into cooking. Your mum gave you a good tip. I don't even allow her to work, at least full time. Working women tend to have burn outs and that will affect your family.
Don't even make tea for yourself if she doesn't work.
Look I never believed in the Somali ways where the woman is doing most of the work childrearing,cleaning and cooking etc
Its just bullshit yiu Will only end up with a stressed wife thats gonna blow up like a baloon cause she got no time for herself
If shes been Coooking and cleaning all day tell her to take a nap while you take the kids out to play
If shes preparing caasho see the kids if they got homework etc when they Done bath them than they eat caasho and let wifey go brush their teeth and put them to bed Those little things can mean the world to your spouse
Its just bullshit yiu Will only end up with a stressed wife thats gonna blow up like a baloon cause she got no time for herself
If shes been Coooking and cleaning all day tell her to take a nap while you take the kids out to play
If shes preparing caasho see the kids if they got homework etc when they Done bath them than they eat caasho and let wifey go brush their teeth and put them to bed Those little things can mean the world to your spouse
The truth does give people strokes. It hurts and noone like cadalad, they like having advantage
Dr Osman rageedi walahi, I thought you were a nacas nacas dhalay when you were bragging about your cooking skills. Ileen nin rag ah baa tahay oo game ka yaqaan. Don't let her know you can cook or else she will play games with you to make you cook. If she knows you can cook and starts playing games, then you must assert your authority and this can be dangerous and break everything. Act dumber and more helpless than you are. That way you give her the feeling that she is needed
Taking advantage of anyone always ruins at the end, your setting up to fail regardless who is doing it. I know how to cook cause I don't have a wife now, but that won't mean I will be doing the cooking for her everyday. Hell noooooooooooo.
If she works we will work something out. I clean or she cooks or I will cook and she does all the cleaning, it comes down to where she is best at and where I am best at really. It won't be like that every month, i could be stressed for a month or two she maybe also so I might pick up more she may pick up more to cover me. It's helping each other out, nothing is set in stone.
But if she aint working those options are not open to her, she will do the cooking, cleaning and child rearing, that will be her job.
When you get married you kinda tell them what it's going to like or else it's better it ends there rather then when kids get involved and they will be effected. These ladies won't take advantage of me, don't worry but I do feel for those ones in Somalia who do work then come home cook, clean, and child reaer that's just wrong.
You believe in helping each other if both are working But if she stays at home which is a full time job she gotta do everything on her own
Yo Abdalla have u noticed how they spend their time on facebook and whatsapp all day yet complain about how hard it is looking after the home? if it's so hard wtf u doing on the phone all day !!! All they talk about is nagti hebel hebel baan suqa ku arkay ma aragtay futadeeda ayaa si waynade, add the somali gossip qosol qosol, haa wallahi wa runta xitaa kaygi ayay dhul martay add that nasty qosol qosol. Nagti kale hebel hebel waxaa la yiri somalia bay aaday ma ninki ayaa ka xumaday, alla kas ha ii sheegin maqahiyada kama baxo iyo habarti naasahi wayneed inte ka baxday add the somali qosol qosol .
Talking about other women's asses or breasts or failed husbands is all somali women talk about. One is about ass cause she wants to feel secure someone got a bigger one then hers which is growing by the year as she sits on the couch, the other is about making sure other men are worse then her own husband so she has some redeeming quality to see in her husband which she doesn't ever so needs to hear someone else has it worse.
And oh yeah somali women talk bro, rinse and repeat that for decades it never changes, thats all i hear as I cross path with them through-out my life. I aint definitely going near one of those.
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I think you're too kind. Cooking and cleaning is her main duty and a career/ working should be considered as extra curriculum activities. She can work if she wants, but the main duty still falls under her. Likewise the mans main responsibilities is to provide, just because he helps out with the household doesn't mean he can lack in his main responsibility. Just because he cooks twice a week doesn't mean he should work parttime. The main duties are clear, they can pick up extra responsibilities without neglecting their main responsibilities.
It's like having a job and you get a second job. No boss will allow you to neglect your first job just to perform well in your second job
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