Did you know marriage increases wealth?

[Halimo-2018]

The hadith regarding the couple that got married in order to safeguard each other chastity and Allah making it incumbent upon himself to provide for them, only applies to such people.

The vast majority of marriages we see today don't qualify for this, and you can tell with the extravagant weddings, haram gatherings and the several years of haram dating/intimacy between the couple prior to marriage.

How can you ever expect any kind of barakah from a union in which the entire life-cycle from courtship to marriage was filled with that which doesn't please our Lord ?

absolutely. may Allah guide us.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Look at all the men getting high blood pressure over even the thought of women being autonomous human beings that might want the same things as them

Newsflash gentlemen, women desire beautiful men too. All of us do, including your coworker, the random woman walking down the street, and even your own sweet mother. We all want Jason Mamoa equivalents.

And the fact that some of you are so terrified about female sexuality enough to get angry about it makes me laugh. Men are so pathetic

a man who gets angry about his woman expressing her sexuality with him needs to divorce her. that is abuse to the mxi. she needs a man that understand what a womans affection means

 

[Hybrid()]

a 19 year old chick I’m currently dating wants me to marry her. she comes from a good, upperclass family. I’m still contemplating wether I should or not.

 

[Molotoff]

Of course sis.

Allah does not favour men over women.

Whatever we desire shall be ours in the hereafter and if for some reason we have active libidos, why not have a harem of assorted men?

Why stick to one earth husband.

We didn't suffer for that

Can you comprehend how retarded that sounds? So you will go through this life on akhira where you will abstain from such things just so that you can do it in eternity in the hereafter?

 

[Finesse]

Can you comprehend how retarded that sounds? So you will go through this life on akhira where you will abstain from such things just so that you can do it in eternity in the hereafter?

Oh yes, because men having a harem full of hurul cayn is something you get in this world?

Mind ya business.

 

[Finesse]

Look at all the men getting high blood pressure over even the thought of women being autonomous human beings that might want the same things as them

Newsflash gentlemen, women desire beautiful men too. All of us do, including your coworker, the random woman walking down the street, and even your own sweet mother. We all want Jason Mamoa equivalents.

And the fact that some of you are so terrified about female sexuality enough to get angry about it makes me laugh. Men are so pathetic

Mental illness.
They want to have multiple women in this world and in heaven but god forbid a woman wants a beautiful heaven man or MEN.

As if Allah is going to consult these men anyway.

We will be living it up ladies, so don't settle in this world and get ready to upgrade in heaven.

As if women will be cursed to spend ETERNITY with the world husband.

 

[VixR]

You are wrong ya murtad, the more women you marry the greater the income. I am gonna be taking 2 more wives inshallah.

Do you seriously believe that?

 

[Tukraq]

Do you seriously believe that?

Yup if there working, income pool increases

 

[Robin]

Mental illness.
They want to have multiple women in this world and in heaven but god forbid a woman wants a beautiful heaven man or MEN.

As if Allah is going to consult these men anyway.

We will be living it up ladies, so don't settle in this world and get ready to upgrade in heaven.

As if women will be cursed to spend ETERNITY with the world husband.

They are astonished wallahi. The thought that women are humans with our own desires is news to Somali men. According to them, multiple women for a man is a harem, but multiple men for a woman is a gangbang? The misogyny is astounding.

 

[Tukraq]

They are astonished wallahi. The thought that women are humans with our own desires is news to Somali men. According to them, multiple women for a man is a harem, but multiple men for a woman is a gangbang? The misogyny is astounding.

? What do you mean according to them? That’s the classification in real life, train/gangbang for women, vs threesome/harem for men

 

[Lum]

These men who cannot control their sexual desires are ruining the concept of polygamy. Didn't the prophet Muhammed marry widows and other women who needed men and not young virgins?

The day of judgement is going to be very interesting.

«So here is the issue that needs to be clarified:Many people use the abbreviation “SAW,” “SAWS,” or “PBUH” to fulfill this obligation in their writing. Is this something that fulfills the obligation of sending the salaah and salaam on the Messenger? Let us look now to some of the statements of the scholars regarding this practice. The Permanent Committee of Scholars in Saudi Arabia headed by ‘Abdul-‘Azeez ibn ‘Abdillaah ibn Baaz issued the following verdict when asked about the validity of abbreviating the salaah on the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam): “The Sunnah is to write the entire phrase “sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam,” since it is a kind of supplication, and supplication is worship, (in one’s writing) just as it is in one’s speech. So to abbreviate it using the letter SAAD or the word SAAD-LAAM-‘AYN-MEEM is not a supplication nor is it worship, whether it occurs in speech or writing. For this reason, this abbreviation was not used by the the first three generations, those that the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam) testified to their goodness.” [8] “SAAD” and “SAAD-LAAM-‘AYN-MEEM” are often used in some Arabic books. The English equivalents of these abbreviations would be: SAW, SAWS, SAAWS, PBUH, and the likes. Al-Fayrooz-Abaadee said, “It is not appropriate to use symbols or abbreviations to refer to salaah and salaam, as some of the lazy ones do, as well as some ignorant people and even some students of knowledge – they write ‘SAAD-LAAM-‘AYN-MEEM’ instead of writing ‘sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam.'” [9] Ahmad Shaakir said, “It is the absurd tradition of some of the later generations that they abbreviate the writing of ‘sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam.'” [10] Wasee Allaah ‘Abbaas said, “It is not permissible to abbreviate the salaams in general in one’s writing, just as it is not permissible to abbreviate the salaah and salaam on the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam). It is also not permissible to abbreviate either of these in one’s speech.” [11] And Allaah knows best. May the most perfect and complete salaah and salaam be upon our beloved Messenger, and upon his noble family and companions.»
FOOTNOTES

[1] written by Moosaa Richardson

 

[Finesse]

? What do you mean according to them? That’s the classification in real life, train/gangbang for women, vs threesome/harem for men

Who is talking about a gangbang or anything that disgusting?

We are discussing the fact that both genders will be pleased in the hereafter, however that may be.

Women also have needs and eyes, whether men like it or not.

 

[TekNiKo]

God and his prophet dont shy from the truth. You are uttering nonsense, unfounded in the quran or sunnah. Auuzubillah, ilahiyo xishodka no so celi. Men and women are not equal in every respect. Women were created from man and for man. Polygomous prophets have always existed, but never has a polygamous women ever lived, save a harlet.

Acudubillah, these women's arguments are equivalent to wanting "homosexuality" in heaven, if its haram on this lowly earth what makes them think its halal in heaven? And dont even bring up khamri argument since the khamri of Paradise has no intoxication within it. Anyways believing women will have marriage to believing men and will be more beautiful than hourul ayn.

"Things in this world are a reflection, and an original source should exist for each reflection. A reflection is not formed if its original does not exist. The original, genuine forms of all worldly things exist in Paradise."

If you wanna believe otherwise go ahead.

 

[World]

Kulaha I want multiple men in jannah, dumb girls do you really think Allah will grant you something that is haram? What’s next? Gay men saying they want men in jannah? These type of women will cheat on their husbands, stay away from them.

 

[World]

a 19 year old chick I’m currently dating wants me to marry her. she comes from a good, upperclass family. I’m still contemplating wether I should or not.

Is she from the west?

 

[Molotoff]

Can you comprehend how retarded that sounds? So you will go through this life on akhira where you will abstain from such things just so that you can do it in eternity in the hereafter?

I meant dunya.

 

[TekNiKo]

Who is talking about a gangbang or anything that disgusting?

We are discussing the fact that both genders will be pleased in the hereafter, however that may be.

Women also have needs and eyes, whether men like it or not.

Bring proof or stay quiet, we need ahaadith, qur'an etc. Not some random article, a believing woman would never desire such disgusting things in Jannah since she is pure and holy. Female needs are satisfied with one man, while male has very high sexual libido. Infact the Prophet SAW mentioned that specifically, why didnt he mention women? Because that strength is only reserved for men

Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The believer in Paradise will be given such and such strength for sexual intercourse.” He was asked, “O Messenger of Allaah, will he really be able to do that?” He said, “He will be given the strength of one hundred (men).” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, no. 2459. He said, (it is) saheeh ghareeb).

 

[TekNiKo]

Kulaha I want multiple men in jannah, dumb girls do you really think Allah will grant you something that is haram? What’s next? Gay men saying they want men in jannah? These type of women will cheat on their husbands, stay away from them.

Its utterly disgusting, they think their sick wants due to is the norm for every Muslimah, its a reflection of the decaying sick society we live in. Ask a girl from Somalia and she would be repulsed by the thought of it!

 

[World]

Its utterly disgusting, they think their sick wants due to is the norm for every Muslimah, its a reflection of the decaying sick society we live in. Ask a girl from Somalia and she would be repulsed by the thought of it!

Yep, these types probably go clubbing and drink khamri, getting used by a new man every week. Western somali women are disgusting.

 

[Hybrid()]

Is she from the west?

Naw she’s a local from hargeisa