Do men or women have life easier (in the western world)

[DubatDiaries]

He speaks in a weird way and has weird mannerisms, he thinks he's in 18th century europe

He's entertaining

The feisty, if nuanced tone of your posts, penchant for minutiae, speed with which you somersault, and vixen reflections.

"penchant for minutiae" " vixen reflections"
A Somali straight out of Victorian England . We love to see it

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

It was a bad example

It is the first, which pops to the surface at first in social circles. And a 'bad example' if one is not acquainted with the subject matter.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

He's entertaining
"penchant for minutiae" " vixen reflections"
A Somali straight out of Victorian England . We love to see it

I need to get back to my world, eh?

 

[jemappelle]

Absolutely. Men who become murderers, rapists, terrorists, extremists, BLM activists, deadbeat dads were all decent people once who collapsed under the pressure of life and no one to turn to. These people are typically not good looking, unhealthy, may have a drug addiction, are depressed and having feels of no self worth. No one wants to be around these kinds of men. They then snap and become evil men. Women don't hit this rockbottom that much. It's probably 100 to 1 compared to men. Someone will usually come to their rescue before it comes close to it (women's shelter, father and brothers, police, society at large).

I think its more of a lack of guidance for these men+ the environment they are around promotes degenracy for males and makes it seem attractive and a easy escapism from their real problems, men are more prone to being evil whereas women are more prone to just being oppressed and weak.

 

[jemappelle]

which pops to the surface at first in social circles.

What social circles are you going to?

 

[jemappelle]

It is the first, which pops to the surface at first in social circles. And a 'bad example' if one is not acquainted with the subject matter.

Why are you talking like a retard

 

[jemappelle]

It is the first, which pops to the surface at first in social circles. And a 'bad example' if one is not acquainted with the subject matter.

Why are you talking like a retard

He's entertaining

His trolling is getting boring, he clearly doesn't act like this in real life

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Why are you talking like a retard

His trolling is getting boring, he clearly doesn't act like this in real life

And with that, I have given up on you.

 

[jemappelle]

And with that, I have given up on you.

Thank you

 

[DubatDiaries]

I need to get back to my world, eh?

if only you were born in Victorian London, where you can wow folks with your fancy grammar and knowledge of the classics. Wrong generation...smh

 

[Ripemoos]

Hmmm I would say men have it easier. Trauma makes men stronger while for women it makes them weaker.

 

[Angelina]

Absolutely. Men who become murderers, rapists, terrorists, extremists, BLM activists, deadbeat dads were all decent people once who collapsed under the pressure of life and no one to turn to. These people are typically not good looking, unhealthy, may have a drug addiction, are depressed and having feels of no self worth. No one wants to be around these kinds of men. They then snap and become evil men. Women don't hit this rockbottom that much. It's probably 100 to 1 compared to men. Someone will usually come to their rescue before it comes close to it (women's shelter, father and brothers, police, society at large).

Most cultures tend to have higher standards for women. We’re policed more, monitored more and this starts from a very young age. Also, it’s harder for a girl to get into the wrong crowd as girls don’t have as much freedom as boys. A young girl isn’t going to be allowed to go out with mates as much or stay out longer, thus lessening the exposure to degeneracy. Also, most cultures have a ‘boys will be boys’ attitudes to men’s mistakes whilst women are told that the family’s honor is in their hands. A girl messing up will impact everyone, from the father to the mother and to the brother. Also, young girls are given responsibilities at a younger age as families tell them that they’re going to wives someday, hence they need to learn how to cook, clean and help with younger sibling.

Don’t get me wrong, monitoring girls and giving them responsibilities is a good thing, but it’s sad that young men aren’t given the equivalence nor are they watched as much as they should. It’s causing an imbalance, because what you’re having is badly raised boy being raised in the same households of girls who’ve been trained well.


Honestly, the way society particularly Somalis raise their boys is causing direct issues and it’s impacting the marriage market. Say what you want to say about Somali girls, yes you do get degenerate ones who want to shake their ass on TikTok, but one thing that is facts is that the vast majority of them have morals and are responsible. Furthermore, a lot have managed to not only get degrees and work ect but they also help their parents with the chores and it’s very common for girls from my generation to give their parents money for the house ect.

Allowing boys to be responsibility free is damaging us and that is what is happening with Western Somalis.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

if only you were born in Victorian London, where you can wow folks with your fancy grammar and knowledge of the classics. Wrong generation...smh

You would be surprised as to how relevant it still is in many circles.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Absolutely. Men who become murderers, rapists, terrorists, extremists, BLM activists, deadbeat dads were all decent people once who collapsed under the pressure of life and no one to turn to.

I consider that as an excuse.

Update:
Men of weak character, and flawed sense of self tend to blame others. Time to conscript them into the army, or ship them to boot camps to man up.

 

[jemappelle]

Most cultures tend to have higher standards for women. We’re policed more, monitored more and this starts from a very young age. Also, it’s harder for a girl to get into the wrong crowd as girls don’t have as much freedom as boys. A young girl isn’t going to be allowed to go out with mates as much or stay out longer, thus lessening the exposure to degeneracy. Also, most cultures have a ‘boys will be boys’ attitudes to men’s mistakes whilst women are told that the family’s honor is in their hands. A girl messing up will impact everyone, from the father to the mother and to the brother. Also, young girls are given responsibilities at a younger age as families tell them that they’re going to wives someday, hence they need to learn how to cook, clean and help with younger sibling.

Don’t get me wrong, monitoring girls and giving them responsibilities a good thing, but it’s sad that young men aren’t given the equivalence nor are they watched as much as they should.

Honestly, the way society particularly Somalis raise their boys is causing direct issues and it’s impacting the marriage market. Say what you want to say about Somali girls, yes you do get degenerate ones here and there, but one thing that is facts is that a good % of them are responsible. Furthermore, a lot have managed to not only get degrees and work ect but they also help their parents with the chores and it’s very common for girls from my generation to give their parents money for the house ect.

Allowing boys to be responsibility free is damaging us and that is what is happening with Western Somalis.

I've been saying this for a long time, I also don't think alot of women on this forum understand how hard it is for men to be "good men" when our entire lives we've been trained to be like animals who can do what we like, theres a natural component to boys being naughty then theres societies programming and set up which makes it much easier for men to become degenerate,
Thats usually why I have more sympathy for a men who turns out to become a complete ciyaalasuuq compared to a girl who does the same thing, I have sympathy for girls for other things that are difficult for them but not particularly issues men have.
Alot of girls complain about them not being able to do the stuff boys do, and to an extent I actually agree the way it is forced is not a productive way to discipline and train your daughter, but they don't see the downside to boys being able to do anything they want.

 

[jemappelle]

I consider that as an excuse.

Because your posh of course you are going to say that
Have you ever grew up with murderers?

 

[jemappelle]

You would be surprised as to how relevant it still is in many circles.

That sounds sus.
Joking. but still its irrelevant to most social circles except in the aristocracy

 

[Angelina]

Women in parts of the West are starting to out earn Men and have been doing better in school, whether its with regards to grades, attendence or behaviour etc... than Men for a while now.

Why is that? They’re also doing better than men in even societies like Saudi in which men and women are segregated.

93% of workplace deaths are Male, jobs like construction, mining, bricklayers etc... are all overwhelmingly dominated by Men. The jobs with the objectively most "harsh" conditions are done completely by Men.

That is because of men’s ability and superior strength. In rural agricultural societies women end up doing most of the labor.

 

[jemappelle]

Man: we don't complain
Men anytime they have a slight incovenience:
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I don't get the meme? Do you mean they start a podcast or what?

 

[jemappelle]

Why is that? They’re also doing better than men in even societies like Saudi in which men and women are segregated.

Education system is suited more towards girls as well as the society it makes it easier for girls to study, boys find it much harder than girls to be studious