Do you believe in beating a child?

[Calaf]

I’m going to say I’m going to beat my kids to any guy I get to know. If he agrees with me, he will get dropped

Do you believe in Daqan Celis and its fundamental aspects?

 

[Basic]

Do you believe in Daqan Celis and its fundamental aspects?

Sending bad kids back home to get better. Hell no

 

[Gambar]

Do you believe in Daqan Celis and its fundamental aspects?

It means you’ve failed as a parent and putting that responsibility on to someone else.

 

[Calaf]

Sending bad kids back home to get better. Hell no

It means you’ve failed as a parent and putting that responsibility on to someone else.

So would you ever take your kids to Somalia or your region?

If you see Somalia, or Africa and its dugsis, and how kids behave, you could say, beating do have both positive and negative effects.

 

[Addislad]

Talk to them, ground them and take away toys, devices etc. Throwing hands is lazy parenting and should never be an option. @Jaydaan It stunts emotional growth in general. The people on this thread who were beaten. It really shows

I can only imagine when your child throws tamper tantrums and you are like (it's time out Hassan)

 

[Gambar]

So would you ever take your kids to Somalia or your region?

If you see Somalia, or Africa and its dugsis, and how kids behave, you could say, beating do have both positive and negative effects.

Not for dhaqan celis.

 

[Basic]

So would you ever take your kids to Somalia or your region?

If you see Somalia, or Africa and its dugsis, and how kids behave, you could say, beating do have both positive and negative effects.

We would visit but not send them back out of unruly behaviour

 

[Calaf]

We would visit but not send them back out of unruly behaviour

Not for dhaqan celis.

So, No beatings, no daqan celis..

What threat can you use against your kids, since the fear of something always disciplines them.. either losing something or doing something they don't want to. But since you taken the 2 typical, what else?

 

[Gambar]

So, No beatings, no daqan celis..

What threat can you use against your kids, since the fear of something always disciplines them.. either losing something or doing something they don't want to. But since you taken the 2 typical, what else?

That’s where you have it wrong, you don’t want your children or child to fear you you want them to respect you and respect your authority.

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

it's your responsibility to teach him what's right and wrong you shouldn't be making excuses for bad behaviour

You don't understand what it is like to be a young boy. You are a woman.

 

[Mercury]

You don't understand what it is like to be a young boy. You are a woman.

Actually you don't understand you just said if your son is loud,rude,disrespectful and hyper its ok because hes a boy

 

[Marcus]

I can see @Basic telling me to stop when I'm whopping my son.

 

[Mercury]

Sending bad kids back home to get better. Hell no

the ones who get sent for dhaqan celis come back worse

 

[Basic]

the ones who get sent for dhaqan celis come back worse

Yeah they wild out more when they return back to the freedoms of the west. Plus some resent their parents and become estranged

 

[Mercury]

Yeah they wild out more when they return back to the freedoms of the west. Plus some resent their parents and become estranged

the parents think its a good move but reality is hes gonna befriend people like him and continue his ways

 

[Desert Flower]

Yeah they wild out more when they return back to the freedoms of the west. Plus some resent their parents and become estranged

I’ve seen this with my own eyes. Somalis expect other people to raise their kids. It’s weird because on one hand, they act as if they own the child (they don’t, they’re an amanah from Allah) and on the other hand, they refuse to take responsibility for how their actions have contributed to their child’s development. It doesn’t work like that.

 

[farax]

Damn. Most of you are either gonna change your mind when you have kids or you gonna have caasi kids who swear at you like them Cadaan children

They wouldn’t swear at you if you establish dominance at the start