Is it wrong I want my husband to find a second spouse so I don’t have to birth more children and we aren’t always together

[Emily]

You are so bored with your husband that you want him to marry another woman ? Why do I have a feeling you are cheating on him ? Let the poor man go

120000000 reasons not get married young

 

[Wervelwind]

It’s just I feel like because I married so young, I never got the being alone phase that most young adults do and I don’t want to hurt his feelings because I do love him but if I could get a couple nights a week alone, I would appreciate it

How much alone time does he give you?

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

I want a new husband every two years.

 

[vanilla]

How will a second wife help you have more time for yourself?

i will not have to see him everyday if he is with her..., so more time for me

 

[QueenofKings]

i will not have to see him everyday if he is with her..., so more time for me

Him being absent doesn’t reduce your chores though (if you have kids - if you don’t have kids then yeah I see it’s like being single again).

 

[so_wavey]

Serious question

mashallah not wrong actually its praiseworthy

You seem busy and cant build a family so letting your husband do that by him getting married again is a viable option and its sunnah.

 

[Dalmoor]

Imagine your husband is viewing this thread while you had left your phone unlocked somewhere... just know if he's having second wife thoughts, he saw this thread.

 

[vanilla]

Him being absent doesn’t reduce your chores though (if you have kids - if you don’t have kids then yeah I see it’s like being single again).

doing chores is not huge deal for me.... Alhamdulilah i can do a lot in short period of time.... kids don't have as much expectation as husband