Refusing to Pay meher

[Samaalic Era]

This is why meher prices are so high. If you want them to fall, it will happen when legal registered marriages becomes normalized in diaspora Somalis.

Back home, men would divorce but still take care of his children and raise them. Here in the west, you have no authority of your children and women in the west instigate divorce anyway.

If you live in the west as a Somali man, you are at an disadvantage. You have to protect your assets from being robbed at court for a divorce you never were responsible for

 

[CaliTedesse]

You outdone all of us sxb, teach us your ways sxb

No overall. You buy some gold and give the rest of the money to her father. Then after that you pay for walima and food

Bro is this Islam or is this Somali dhaqan I want to know the difference.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Bro is this Islam or is this Somali dhaqan I want to know the difference.

Somali Dhaqan. There is no sooriyo in Islam.

However, 95% of Somali marriages are done this way

 

[CaliTedesse]

Somali Dhaqan. There is no sooriyo in Islam.

However, 95% of Somali marriages are done this way

I hate dhaqan man dhaqan makes everything hard islam makes it easy

 

[Samaalic Era]

I hate dhaqan man dhaqan makes everything hard islam makes it easy

In Islam you just pay mehr and it doesnt have to be upfront. You dont pay her father and mehr in deen is blessed when it is reasonable

The only thing after that is walima that you pay for

 

[Marcus]

Western marriage has favourable tax laws

 

[Sol]

Depends on what the meher actually is do you have any figure/amount you wouldn't pay?

 

[Samaalic Era]

Western marriage has favourable tax laws

Explain sxb. I think overall its a trap to lure men in tbh

 

[Samaalic Era]

Depends on what the meher actually is do you have any figure/amount you wouldn't pay?

Some xalimos demand 15k and the guy just says yeah but has no intention of ever paying that

 

[Apollo]

Western marriage has favourable tax laws

This is why Somalis are so broke. They don't know about all the tax rules.

 

[Gambar]

It's the money you pay to her father and family aswell some gold you give her.

Mehr you don't pay, its just lip service

You do pay the mehr. It’s actually paid first.

Sxb Somali dhaqan is not for me you telling I should pay her aabo and family too war what is this Hindi culture kkkkk alhamdullilah found me ajnabi girl that does not want meher

Ceeb waryaa. If you are broke marriage is not for you. As a husband you’ll be responsible for the finances. Even worse if you wanna marry another wife “back home” and wanna send her $100 every month. That will not fly lol.

For the akhis, never register your marriages and get screwed over

Islamic nikah is sufficient and you can bail out and not have a leech western xalimo suck you dry alxamdulillah

You do realize now that if you have kids and she applies for a safety net they’ll find you and make you responsible loooool. There’s nothing to leech if you’re broke. None of you are Bezos or Gates.

 

[Marcus]

Explain sxb. I think overall its a trap to lure men in tbh

I dont know tax law, but there are some incentives for marriage.

Just dont marry a demon.

 

[Gambar]

This is why Somalis are so broke. They don't know about all the tax rules.

They’re clueless saxiib. You’ll get more if you file together and claim your children. Somalis are too used to musuq masuq for no reason.

 

[Samaalic Era]

You do pay the mehr. It’s actually paid first.




Ceeb waryaa. If you are broke marriage is not for you. As a husband you’ll be responsible for the finances. Even worse if you wanna marry another wife “back home” and wanna send her $100 every month. That will not fly lol.

You do realize now that if you have kids and she applies for a safety net they’ll find you and make you responsible loooool. There’s nothing to leech if you’re broke. None of you are Bezos or Gates.

That's not mehr walal and you know that. Mehr is only paid in Somali Dhaqan at divorce.

The gold you give your wife at the beginning is called Sooriyo

 

[CaliTedesse]

You do pay the mehr. It’s actually paid first.




Ceeb waryaa. If you are broke marriage is not for you. As a husband you’ll be responsible for the finances. Even worse if you wanna marry another wife “back home” and wanna send her $100 every month. That will not fly lol.

You do realize now that if you have kids and she applies for a safety net they’ll find you and make you responsible loooool. There’s nothing to leech if you’re broke. None of you are Bezos or Gates.

Responsible of who's finances ukhti @Gambar kkkkkk. The wife? No problem with that.

 

[Gambar]

That's not mehr walal and you know that. Mehr is only paid in Somali Dhaqan at divorce.

The gold you give your wife at the beginning is called Sooriyo

Sooryo/gaabati/yarad is paid at the wedding to the family. The mehr is paid beforehand. It’s not always gold, it’s money as well handed out to the family members.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Responsible of who's finances ukhti @Gambar kkkkkk. The wife? No problem with that.

Western women can work. They need to take care of their children

 

[Samaalic Era]

Sooryo/gaabati/yarad is paid at the wedding to the family. The mehr is paid beforehand. It’s not always gold, it’s money as well handed out to the family members.

Maybe in the west but not in Somaliya

 

[Gambar]

Western women can work. They need to take care of their children

It’s your responsibility islamically to take care of your wife.

 

[Apollo]

I dont know tax law, but there are some incentives for marriage.

Just dont marry a demon.

In Hungary, married couples don't pay any income tax after their fourth child.

Have four or more babies in Hungary and you'll pay no income tax for life, prime minister says

Hungarian women that have four or more children are to be exempted from paying income tax for life, the prime minister has said.

www.cnbc.com

^ Why don't these Westerners implement this.