The average Somali woman above 35 is illiterate, even in the diaspora. That is literally all you need to know about why they have 10 children in a place like Canada or Denmark. Most of these women have no opportunities to accomplish anything in life other than gaining social status in their tiny community by having a busload of children. I see them more like animals than human beings, like a breeding cow.
The average 35 year old and above came to the west as an adult or maybe a teenager running from the civil war. They didn't have much choice then our generation who were either born in the west or came at very young age.
We are lucky to have these opportunities the west provided us but we shouldn't look down and call our mothers 'illiterate and brooding cows' because honestly you don't know what their situation was. They were smart enough and brought us here in the west so we can have better opportunities then they had so maybe we should be grateful to them.
I know a woman who raised 10 kids, put them through universities and made them the successful people they are today than a women who raised 2-3 but couldn't control them as a children and now are low life bunches. Believe it or not it depends on you as a parent.
With that being said I am not advocating women to have bunch of 15 kids nor am I supporting those who have the children to milk the system. So if you are financially capable and have the support of your husband make that vagina loose for all I care.