Xalimo Believes Illegitimate Children Should Be Accepted By Somalis

[Keep it a boqol]

No way I saw an atleast 29 year old grinning because of this thread

Having a kid out of wedlock is such an outdated term. Children do not need to be “legitimized” in their humanity, it’s something they’re already born with. Regardless if it’s from a traditional marriage or not

And as for the woman , if she’s had consensual sex with someone and wanted a child from it without being in a ‘marriage’ it’s something that’s up to her and her current partner if she has one, only condition is that she treats the nuune good

As muslims we enjoin in the good and we forbid in the evil. In no way shape or form should the Somali community normalize this type of degeneracy and immortality all because of “consent”

 

[Yaraye]

If she's married like some people are saying on here, then the title needs to be change. That's slander which is haram

If her child is truly illegitimate, Then good for not accepting!

Helllllllll Nooooo! No baby mama syndrome up in here!

Marriage is sacred people!

 

[KinsiHilaac]

Are you promoting AA culture?

I don’t know what that is and I’m pretty sure they are Christian Catholics who are not so found of what’s called “children out of wedlock”

 

[Abdisamad]

I don’t know what that is and I’m pretty sure they are Christian Catholics who also are not so found of what’s called “children out of wedlock”

Do you know what you are preaching is against Somali culture and values? And you have the Sayid as your avatar

 

[Barni]

I don’t know what that is and I’m pretty sure they are Christian Catholics who are not so found of what’s called “children out of wedlock”

 

[Sheikh Kulkuli]

No way I saw an atleast 29 year old grinning because of this thread

Having a kid out of wedlock is such an outdated term. Children do not need to be “legitimized” in their humanity, it’s something they’re already born with. Regardless if it’s from a traditional marriage or not

And as for the woman , if she’s had consensual sex with someone and wanted a child from it without being in a ‘marriage’ it’s something that’s up to her and her current partner if she has one, only condition is that she treats the nuune good

So did you write the twitter post.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Do you know what you are preaching is against Somali culture and values? And you have the Sayid as your avatar

Forget Somali culture it’s against our religion. It will destroy the nuclear family and the future children

 

[Barni]

Do you know what you are preaching is against Somali culture and values? And you have the Sayid as your avatar

Ong she just a walking contradiction.

 

[KinsiHilaac]

As muslims we enjoin in the good and we forbid in the evil. In no way shape or form should the Somali community normalize this type of degeneracy and immortality all because of “consent”

It’s not immoral. It’s only immoral to you because a religious book has told you that.
You haven’t looked around to see that 90% of complications children born outside a marriage face are because of the stigmatization

It’s common sense that a marriage is not a guarantee of a good childhood for the kid involved so I’m wondering why you’re so pro “ kids from a marriage”

 

[TekNiKo]

Is this the lowest some Western Halimos can go? This BLM Woke Liberalism disease is straight out of post secondary!

This is the result of letting the telly raise your kids.

 

[KinsiHilaac]

Do you know what you are preaching is against Somali culture and values? And you have the Sayid as your avatar

Unlike you I’m not loyal to whatever the Somali culture throws at me.
I think and try to rationalize

Our ancestors were human and were susceptible to error
It’s the job of us today to correct what keeps harming us especially within our own culture and practices

 

[Shaafici Mujaahid]

Is she that Reer Xamar girl that used to get a wedding every week.

 

[Danakiil]

You're right bro, it's not fair. We should also toss the mother with lil Fadumo, so she can't bring more wecels.

That's wild

 

[Waa dhamatay]

 

[Keep it a boqol]

It’s not immoral. It’s only immoral to you because a religious book has told you that.
You haven’t looked around to see that 90% of complications children born outside a marriage face are because of the stigmatization

It’s common sense that a marriage is not a guarantee of a good childhood for the kid involved so I’m wondering why you’re so pro “ kids from a marriage”

For the sake of your argument let’s remove Islam from the question

“According to a study by the National Association of Elementary School Principals, 33 percent of two-parent elementary school students are ranked as high achievers, as compared with 17 percent of single-parent students. The children in single-parent families are more likely to be truant or to have disciplinary action taken against them. Even after controlling for race, income and religion, scholars find significant differences in educational attainment between children who grow up in intact families and children who do not”

https://marripedia.org/effects_of_out-of-wedlock_births_on_children

It is a statistical reality that children born out of wedlock are more likely to commit crime, have lower wages, not do well in school, less chance of succeeding in life and have more children out of wedlock creating and contributing into a cycle. By having a baby out of wedlock your child you are setting them up for failure and adding more harm to the world.

Even Gaalo don’t agree with you. Why do you want to normalize this?

 

[Kalsoon]

Dembi waalidka galay saddex jibbaar buu ubadka ugu soo laabmaa.

 

[Amber]

Dawg atleast she's having children. Better than being childless like a lot of Diaspora Somali women will be.

Shame on you, how can you be so rude and heartless?!

 

[Kalsoon]

Dawg atleast she's having children. Better than being childless like a lot of Diaspora Somali women will be.

To be or not to be sinful

 

[Kalsoon]

Unlike you I’m not loyal to whatever the Somali culture throws at me.
I think and try to rationalize

Our ancestors were human and were susceptible to error
It’s the job of us today to correct what keeps harming us especially within our own culture and practices

Walaal, why are you making it seem like people are blind followers of the dhaqan?

Don’t have a superiority complex and please humble yourself. Everyone has the capacity to think and rationalize just as you do.

I remember you made posts about feminism. Is that what is giving you this pov about our dhaqan?

 

[Amber]

@KinsiHilaac I love you, abaayo but your claims have no backing, lots of love though! <333