My cousin divorced her husband, "This is not your house."

[Sup]

He told her it's not her house. If it's not her house, it's not her marriage either.

Granted he shouldn’t have said that, beside we don’t know the whole situation for “us” to lay judgement. People say stupid things in a heated situation, but to seek divorce without any reconciliation is absurd. What they should’ve done is seek marriage counselling from a professional, then make a sound decision. People who jump straight to divorce, without putting in any effort to salvage their marriage, shouldn’t be getting married in the first place. Bit disappointed so many sisters on here agree with it.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Granted he shouldn’t have said that, beside we don’t know the whole situation for “us” to lay judgement. People say stupid things in a heated situation, but to seek divorce without any reconciliation is absurd. What they should’ve done is seek marriage counselling from a professional, then make a sound decision. People who jump straight to divorce, without putting in any effort to salvage their marriage, shouldn’t be getting married in the first place. Bit disappointed so many sisters on here agree with it.

People don't just say wild things without thinking it. I would not trust a man who wants to lord it over me with his house, after I spent time making it a HOME.

Reconcile with who? Not a man who says such things and on top of that lets me leave the house at NIGHT. LOL

Why disappointed in us? You should instead make notes on what to never say to a woman.

 

[Sup]

To all those who are getting married, or who plan to marry. The best thing you can do to make sure you have a long and healthy marriage, is to make a dome around your relationship. Keep everyone out, do not seek advice from friends or family, nor should you ever air out your problems. If you have issues, talk it out or go and see a professional. There are those who wish to see your happiness crumble, people who enjoy seeing you in pain. Mark my words, you will come across these people so be warned. And for the love of God, talk to each other, adults communicate, they are not mind readers. Put your trust in Allah (swt), do your duty and your marriage shall be prosperous IA.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

To all those who are getting married, or who plan to marry. The best thing you can do to make sure you have a long and healthy marriage, is to make a dome around your relationship. Keep everyone out, do not seek advice from friends or family, nor should you ever air out your problems. If you have issues, talk it out or go and see a professional. There are those who wish to see your happiness crumble, people who enjoy seeing you in pain. Mark my words, you will come across these people so be warned. And for the love of God, talk to each other, adults communicate, they are not mind readers. Put your trust in Allah (swt), do your duty and your marriage shall be prosperous IA.

It doesn't matter if a woman doesn't consult anyone but her own brain. No woman sticks around for financial abuse and a lack of physical protection.
I don't know why you guys are so shocked by this.

 

[TekNiKo]

Wallahi wa aaqirul zamaan women used to be ashamed of divorce and would hide their face for days, now it is being celebrated and glamourized just like Iblees. I wish I wasnt born in this era

 

[Angelina]

Wallahi wa aaqirul zamaan women used to be ashamed of divorce and would hide their face for days, now it is being celebrated and glamourized just like Iblees. I wish I wasnt born in this era

The day Somali men learn to not utter Talaq Willy nilly and marrying and divorcing like they’re changing shirts is the day I’ll take you seriously.

Also, where is your second wife? You don’t talk about her recently. Let me guess, you divorced her?

If so, hide your face in shame.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

The day Somali men learn to not utter Talaq Willy nilly and marrying and divorcing like they’re changing shirts is the day I’ll take you seriously.

Also, where is your second wife? You don’t talk about her recently. Let me guess, you divorced her?

If so, hide your face in shame.

He is such a liar. Somali women never hid their face in shame.

 

[Rayaale]

Even if you argue and a woman walks away from you, follow her from a safe distance. She'll appreciate and remember that, that shows protection and love. Not to mention, that you are a man and know your role in life. Even if she doesn't like you anymore, she'll have begrudging respect for you.

,this is where he messed up he should have followed her and apologized on the spot

 

[TekNiKo]

The day Somali men learn to not utter Talaq Willy nilly and marrying and divorcing like they’re changing shirts is the day I’ll take you seriously.

Also, where is your second wife? You don’t talk about her recently. Let me guess, you divorced her?

If so, hide your face in shame.

Never even consummated the marriage, I guess your jealous men have the ultimate power of divorce. You truly are a despicable feminist, I feel sorry for whoever procreates with you.