BobSmoke
Flying over your heads
Easy, you send her to her mom or sisters.Lool.. Sometimes it's complicated bro.
How are you gonna kick her out if she has your baby
Easy, you send her to her mom or sisters.Lool.. Sometimes it's complicated bro.
How are you gonna kick her out if she has your baby
Lool.. Sometimes it's complicated bro.
How are you gonna kick her out if she has your baby
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Lets say you pay for everything and you both work full time and she's making the same as you but after some years she kicks you out after an argument she has a big saving and you have zero, how will you manage to survive?
Not the kids, I'd use my sick-days to look after my children till the issue was resolvedWhat if you had kids under the age of 5 though? A breast-feeding baby? Are you going to kick out mother and months old baby?
Finding new home and furnishings etc is very expensive, so you need some savings beside what happens if he loses his job and has no savings and get kicked out by the wife.He still gets an income from his fulltime job.
How old are you bro?Easy, you send her to her mom or sisters.
Finding new home and furnishings etc is very expensive, so you need some savings beside what happens if he loses his job and has no savings and get kicked out by the wife.
Lool I wasn't talking about @Mercury but more in general term...now you understand why a man should have a saving right xalimo lugo baastoThis is too dramatic. @Mercury said he is happily married and likes his arrangement.
Theirs no need to speculate that it will lead to their separation. InshaAllah it won't happen.
I'd use my sick-days to look after my children till the issue was resolved
I'm not getting kicked out of my house and turning up to work like some disheveled unshaven cliche lol.
Lool I wasn't talking about @Mercury but more in general term...now you see why a man should have a saving right xalimo lugo baasto
Tough lifeYou can't breast feed and looking after a newborn is intense with maybe a 2 year old and a 4 year old running around. Just setting the scene for you lol.
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We have to pay 50K in meher and another 100K for the wedding plus khat and other expenses to her relatives and friends.. How much saving do you think the miskiin guy will have left after all thisHe should be saving for his future retirement and have a rainyday fund. Not in case his wife is no longer interested in being wife him.
I believe guys need to establish themselves before they even start talking to women. No man should be getting married without having savings.
Tough life
We have to pay 50K in meher and another 100K for the wedding plus khat and other expenses to her relatives and friends.. How much saving do you think the miskiin guy will have left after all this
In between young and old.How old are you bro?
Think that kid will grow up some day and ask you why did you kick me and mom out of your house/apartment.
Newborn/infant baby formulaYou can't breast feed. Imagine looking after a screaming new born with a hyperactive 2 year old and a tantrum throwing 3 year old running around. Just setting the scene for you lol.
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My principle is the house always belongs to the wife and the kid/kids no matter how many bills I've paid for it.. I won't kick out a woman who's the mother of my kid.In between young and old.
Hypothetically speaking,
I would tell the kid the truth at some point.
A woman always has a place to stay at her familys house. A man has no real support network.
I would make sure to bring adeeg to the kids ayeeyo ama habaryar so that the yute never goes hungry. I'm still a father and my duty never ends even if I send them back to their ayeeyo.
That is if the house is under my name
If the address is on my wifes name, I'd make sure to have an address in my name and airbnb that yard until shit goes sour. In that case, I'd kick myself out
Dunno, don't care. I will be too busy establishing a diversified investment portfolio.
Fair enough, too each his own.My principle is the house always belongs to the wife and the kid/kids no matter how many bills I've paid for it.. I won't kick out a woman who's the mother of my kid.