At this point, I donโt recommend women to give birth and raise children in houses that donโt have their name on the deed. Not worth it. These days some menโs โprovisionโ is like a carrot one dangles over a womanโs head. If youโre both buying a house make sure you chip in when it comes to the deposit and make sure your name is on it.Only a woman that has no foresight is staying with a man that says 'this is not your house'. Are you mad? Imagine working for free, birthing babies, and that man is trying to talk to you like you are a slave.
It seems some menโs idea of providing is to make you birth their children, do most of the upkeep of his house but you can easily be told itโs โhis homeโ and the underlying message is, you can leave whenever since โitโs mineโ.