Somali women: How often do you get approached IRL?
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send me ur pic,lemme be the judge,'ll be brutally honest
Get approached mostly by ajnabis. Somali guys are very bold online but it’s a different story in real life
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Enter my PMs then.send me ur pic,lemme be the judge,'ll be brutally honest
You mean Baasid? Basir isn't a somali name lol
what are you talking about? No man's gonna get approached by woman on the streets unless they're a supermodel or something lol. If a guy tells me girls hit him up regularly irl then 99% chance he's lying.Looking at the results, I think us women are more honest. I can only imagine what the results might be if this directed towards somali men.
The question would have to be switched up to suit men.
Or the ones who tell you they wanted you all this time after you tell them you’re engaged to marry.
The triffling magically appear when you are emotionally unavaliable/tied up.TBH timelines vary depending on the person and their circumstances. Some say 6 months but I think at least 12 months (4 seasons) to get a general sense. Others would say no more than two years. I have noticed its usually the guys who are more eager to wed. Contrary to what they say.
They are capping in hereIlleen Halimos wants to be approached
I literally saw a xalimo just now. As soon as I stepped out the car she pretended to do her laces. Nacala. I was only getting money out the cash point behind her.
Anisah The Serpent
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stupid excuse.Somali men, including myself if I must concede, are indeed fairly apprehensive when it comes to the thought of approaching women.
Many Somali boys are taught at a young age to never enter into a relationship with a woman, even if it's a light hearted friendship. They are taught to have 'ceeb' iyo 'Xishood', so engaging in a future relationship with a future spouse may seem like hell to some, especially those who do not have a sister, or any other woman (apart from moms) to have a relationship with. Just imagine not talking to a woman, apart from your mom and siblings, and then trying to look for a spouse. It's like trying drive a vehicle without any prior experience with vehicles at all (Ie. Never seeing a car before).
So cut us some slack. For some of us, the first time we even converse with each other is in high school or Uni.
If you went through public school and still claim to have 0 experience with women then you only have yourself to blame.
also, @ some of you blaming somali guys for not having game. The blame isn't all on us, a lot of you guys are just butt ugly or unapproachable. If you don't get approached by anyone at all or have no one hitting you up even online, then we're not the problem, you are.
One last thing, guys don't go around trying to pick up any girl they think looks good off the streets. That's not how it works. Unless he's a pick up artist looking for quick hook-ups then he won't just ask for your number randomly. The only exception is if you're a 9/10 or above, otherwise don't expect to get approached very often.
At least you ladies get approached and everything is direct. We have to deal with women sending us vague hits where you have to pick out at could be class as friendly behaviour
All we get a just hints.
I used to chase anything that looks my way. Now, I don't have that much energy for that anymore. I don't bother with 50/50
All we get a just hints.
I used to chase anything that looks my way. Now, I don't have that much energy for that anymore. I don't bother with 50/50
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Wait OP, are you referencing somali men or gaal men?
Somali men?
Almost never. Except one guy on the train but I think he was ethiopian.
Gaal men?
Happened consistently until I began to wear a hijab now they just stare. And the only time they have approached me, I was legit wearing a hoodie on so they didn't know I was a hijabi.
However I will say this: gaal men are very different in their approaches. Black men are very blunt and to the point. But non black approach by starting a random conversation and just being really nice to see if you are interested. Then they ask for your ig or something blah blah blah They aren't super talkative and nice to women they don't find attractive smh.
This is all pre covid obviously.
Wait OP, are you referencing somali men or gaal men?
Somali men?
Almost never. Except one guy on the train but I think he was ethiopian.
Gaal men?
Happened consistently until I began to wear a hijab now they just stare. And the only time they have approached me, I was legit wearing a hoodie on so they didn't know I was a hijabi.
However I will say this: gaal men are very different in their approaches. Black men are very blunt and to the point. But non black approach by starting a random conversation and just being really nice to see if you are interested. Then they ask for your ig or something blah blah blah They aren't super talkative and nice to women they don't find attractive smh.
This is all pre covid obviously.
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There's nothing wrong with chaste women marrying at 30
I am hard to trap.
A born runner. I will only be tricked into marriage at this point. Maybe I'll end up with a fellow runner. Would be ironic. Get approached mostly by ajnabis. Somali guys are very bold online but it’s a different story in real life
This is so true lol. Mirrors my experience as well.
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