Why does rejection shatter some women's egos so badly?

[The alchemist]

Cadi iska dhiig warya.



you said only three words and the easiest ones ! Smh. I’m still disappointed!

Oui.

 

[Destiny]

Yeah women assume most men want us. Guys more attractive then us show sexual interest as well so it inflated our egos tbh. So the thought of a man rejecting you is inconceivable, especially if he is average. That is why most women do not chase after men.

 

[Saredo]

Oui.

Oh là là! Your French is perfect

 

[Abdisamad]

Cadi iska dhiig warya.



you said only three words and the easiest ones ! Smh. I’m still disappointed!

I was struggling with those french words but it was a funny challenge

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Wallahi you’re absolutely right. Had a girl call me gay after I rejected her. She didn’t take it well at all but a few weeks after she gave me a shout again. I was so confused

 

[Bohol]

Because they are entitled qumayos who expect you to be up their ass 24hrs.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Men are more prone to commit to people who they feel they have chased and won over, so they think rejecting them is the biggest moves.

And if they're approached?

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Wallahi you’re absolutely right. Had a girl call me gay after I rejected her. She didn’t take it well at all but a few weeks after she gave me a shout again. I was so confused

It's weird when they ask you but I've never asked myself before. Only the other way around.

 

[Sophisticate]

Men experience rejection more than women. Women simply do not put themselves out there in the same way. I think you should not feel despondent about that. Look at it this way, some people like coffee, some are exclusively tea drinkers while others do not touch caffeinated beverages of any kind. It's simply a preference thing so don't take it personally. Of course in rare instances one with an aversion to say shaah might grow to like it through acclimating but this is more of the exception so don't bet on it. Yes; I used flavoured biyo as a metaphor for rejection. I digress, how someone sees you is ultimately irrelevant in how you should see yourself. Keep it moving because he wasn't for you or she wasn't for you. The sooner the better so you can free up good mental real estate for someone that's appreciative of what you have to bring to the table.

I leave you with this.

Sis: Do not waste your pretty on an emotionally absentee Abdi.
Bro: Don't waste what will be the highlight reel of your good timo days on an emotionally vacant Xalimo.

Go where you are loved but not loved too soon or loved too much because pillows can smother. And you don't want to meet your maker through asphyxiation.

 

[Dalalos_ibn_Adali]

A woman who doesn't reject you at least a couple times a day either doesn't care about you or she is just plain boring.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

A woman who doesn't reject you at least a couple times a day either doesn't care about you or she is just plain boring.

A couple times a day???

 

[King Khufu]

People have tolerance to rejection.

Some do have too much high hope, expectations fall flat.

Attitude is about that get right. Knocking a couple of em off ya ass.

 

[Gambar]

A woman who doesn't reject you at least a couple times a day either doesn't care about you or she is just plain boring.

True geeljire.

 

[Nak Muay]

Men experience rejection more than women. Women simply do not put themselves out there in the same way. I think you should not feel despondent about that. Look at it this way, some people like coffee, some are exclusively tea drinkers while others do not touch caffeinated beverages of any kind. It's simply a preference thing so don't take it personally. Of course in rare instances one with an aversion to say shaah might grow to like it through acclimating but this is more of the exception so don't bet on it. Yes; I used flavoured biyo as a metaphor for rejection. I digress, how someone sees you is ultimately irrelevant in how you should see yourself. Keep it moving because he wasn't for you or she wasn't for you. The sooner the better so you can free up good mental real estate for someone that's appreciative of what you have to bring to table.

I leave you with this.

Sis: Do not waste your pretty on an emotionally absentee Abdi.
Bro: Don't waste what will be the highlight reel of your good timo days on an emotionally vacant Xalimo.

Go where you are loved but not loved too soon or loved too much because pillows can smother. And you don't want to meet your maker through asphyxiation.

At long last. My sspot muse returns and graces us with her presence

 

[King Khufu]

And if they're approached?

Now, now, you old camel.
You know better than that,
Women don't make "approach"
They just make themselves open.

I thought we were all experts here. Heh.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Now, now, you old camel.
You know better than that,
Women don't make "approach"
They just make themselves open.

I thought we were all experts here. Heh.

Not from what I've seen. I guess it's different for me. Times are changing too.

 

[Lostbox]

Can't reject any when no are interested you

 

[Yonis]

Reminds me of this xalimo i rejected a couple years back - shes still bitter about it

 

[Shmurda]

Because for men rejection is a numbers game the way we see it we hit up 10 girls and 9 of them reject us. If that happened to a women they'd be depressed and would have trouble getting over it but to a man that's a W because we still scored end of the day

 

[Mahacagalla]

Loooool

I used to be like that.

I liked constant reassurance and proper effort.

You can't blame them

Why did you change?